Dear Pastor,
I am writing you about a very beautiful girl that I know but unfortunately her character is not as beautiful as she looks. She is a gold -digger. She was having a relationship with my brother and my brother was married, but she got a lot of his money. While she was having an affair with him, she was sleeping with other guys. I got caught in the web also.
One night when my brother was unable to see her, she told me that she needed $3,000. I told her that I would give it to her, but I needed something from her. Without putting up any resistance, she had sex with me. She gave me the 'full house'. I could not keep up with her, so when she released me, I gave her $5,000.
I did not tell my brother that I had sex with her, but I told him that I gave her $5,000 and I wanted it back from him. He gave her the other $5,000 so she got the full money that she needed. My brother told me that he wants to get out, but he loves her.
Since I had sex with this girl, I find myself wanting more of her. I am keeping away because of my brother and my pocket is not as long as his. He is a businessman and he can afford it. I work with the government. My brother is planning to take her on a trip. It is going to cost him a lot. If he doesn't take her, I am sure she is going to come back to me when he is away.
I don't know what to do. She is very persistent. She is going to break my brother's pocket. If you were to see this girl, you would not believe that she is so bad. She has other men with my brother. Doesn't this woman get tired? What is your comment?
S.H
Dear S.H.,
You are not in any position to condemn this young woman. You are just as immoral as she is. In fact, you claim that this woman is your brother's lover and, instead of treating her as such, you were quite willing to go to bed with her and are quite prepared to do it again if you were to get an opportunity.
If this woman was so much in need of cash, you could have given her the money without having sex with her. What is your purpose now of condemning her when you have enjoyed her body? Perhaps what you should do is to try and convince your brother to end the relationship with her before he wrecks himself and his marriage.
Pastor
I am writing you about a very beautiful girl that I know but unfortunately her character is not as beautiful as she looks. She is a gold -digger. She was having a relationship with my brother and my brother was married, but she got a lot of his money. While she was having an affair with him, she was sleeping with other guys. I got caught in the web also.
One night when my brother was unable to see her, she told me that she needed $3,000. I told her that I would give it to her, but I needed something from her. Without putting up any resistance, she had sex with me. She gave me the 'full house'. I could not keep up with her, so when she released me, I gave her $5,000.
I did not tell my brother that I had sex with her, but I told him that I gave her $5,000 and I wanted it back from him. He gave her the other $5,000 so she got the full money that she needed. My brother told me that he wants to get out, but he loves her.
Since I had sex with this girl, I find myself wanting more of her. I am keeping away because of my brother and my pocket is not as long as his. He is a businessman and he can afford it. I work with the government. My brother is planning to take her on a trip. It is going to cost him a lot. If he doesn't take her, I am sure she is going to come back to me when he is away.
I don't know what to do. She is very persistent. She is going to break my brother's pocket. If you were to see this girl, you would not believe that she is so bad. She has other men with my brother. Doesn't this woman get tired? What is your comment?
S.H
Dear S.H.,
You are not in any position to condemn this young woman. You are just as immoral as she is. In fact, you claim that this woman is your brother's lover and, instead of treating her as such, you were quite willing to go to bed with her and are quite prepared to do it again if you were to get an opportunity.
If this woman was so much in need of cash, you could have given her the money without having sex with her. What is your purpose now of condemning her when you have enjoyed her body? Perhaps what you should do is to try and convince your brother to end the relationship with her before he wrecks himself and his marriage.
Pastor