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is it me or does it seem like dis man a fish fi some drama
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letter to dear prudence on slate.com</span>
I'm a happily married man in my 20s with a gorgeous wife, whom I adore. We live in a big city in an apartment building. In order to let in light, we keep the curtains open in our bedroom (sans naughty time). I've recently noticed that the female who lives in the apartment directly across from ours and the female in the apartment one floor below also <span style="font-weight: bold">leave their curtains open as they walk around half-naked.</span> I'm not saddling up to the window for hours upon end, but on occasion I catch a glimpse of skin, and I'll admit that I don't turn away.
I don't know whether my wife has noticed the neighbors, but I haven't told her that I have. <span style="font-weight: bold">I feel as if I'm hiding a secret from her and even committing a form of adultery by not walking away when I see them.</span> <span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="color: #FF0000">Should I tell my wife so we can make a decision about what to do together</span></span>
(and hope she doesn't divorce me)? Or should I unilaterally reach out to the neighbors, telling them that my whole building has probably been getting a show for several months and they should be more aware of their actions?
<span style="font-weight: bold">
letter to dear prudence on slate.com</span>
I'm a happily married man in my 20s with a gorgeous wife, whom I adore. We live in a big city in an apartment building. In order to let in light, we keep the curtains open in our bedroom (sans naughty time). I've recently noticed that the female who lives in the apartment directly across from ours and the female in the apartment one floor below also <span style="font-weight: bold">leave their curtains open as they walk around half-naked.</span> I'm not saddling up to the window for hours upon end, but on occasion I catch a glimpse of skin, and I'll admit that I don't turn away.
I don't know whether my wife has noticed the neighbors, but I haven't told her that I have. <span style="font-weight: bold">I feel as if I'm hiding a secret from her and even committing a form of adultery by not walking away when I see them.</span> <span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="color: #FF0000">Should I tell my wife so we can make a decision about what to do together</span></span>
(and hope she doesn't divorce me)? Or should I unilaterally reach out to the neighbors, telling them that my whole building has probably been getting a show for several months and they should be more aware of their actions?