Well that seems to be the repeating mantra from all the single ladies I know.  The look on my face upon hearing this is always the same. It’s a look of surprise wrapped in sprinkle of bewilderment and a dash of ludicrousness…it’s a strange look I tell you. Anyway, I find myself pondering this statement a lot recently, not only because I am hearing it more often but also because I just don’t buy into it. One of my friends went as far to say “because you are married you don’t understand.”  That comment always tickles me because I think it’s evident enough that given I am married there are men out there. Come on, I didn’t grab up the last available guy on the market.More...