yuh faddar rich

[blugiant]

ooman ave five yuths fe five diffarant men. da middle wan faddar own imm own bus ann mekk decent money. wen imm go ova fe visit imm give da addar yuths twentee dollars each ann imm give imm yuth $100 fe da week. imm yuth money was stolen by imm siblings ann da maddar told imm natt fe tell imm faddar. wen imm faddar found out imm tell imm yuth maddar nuh mekk ar yuths tekk imm yuth money. itt appen again so imm went ova deh fe chatt to dem bout itt ann dem sed imm ave money ann itt nuh fair fe dem brother fe buy wateva imm waan cah imm faddar iss rich. faddar got madd onlee give da maddar minimum child support ann stapp givinn da addar yuths annee money. so wat oonno tink was da faddar rite?

[twiney]

ooman ave five yuths fe five diffarant men. da middle wan faddar own imm own bus ann mekk decent money. wen imm go ova fe visit imm give da addar yuths twentee dollars each ann imm give imm yuth $100 fe da week. imm yuth money was stolen by imm siblings ann da maddar told imm natt fe tell imm faddar. wen imm faddar found out imm tell imm yuth maddar nuh mekk ar yuths tekk imm yuth money. itt appen again so imm went ova deh fe chatt to dem bout itt ann dem sed imm ave money ann itt nuh fair fe dem brother fe buy wateva imm waan cah imm faddar iss rich. faddar got madd onlee give da maddar minimum child support ann stapp givinn da addar yuths annee money. so wat oonno tink was da faddar rite?

A parent should take care of their child to the best of their abilities there are ways to control the way your money is spent if you are so concerned about the mother abusing the situation... such as paying directly paying for expenses related to the child but never deprive your child because of others. Is that minimum child support good enough. Sometimes you have to write things off as opportunity cost if you cant control it.

[kia027]

how old is the kid that gets $100 a week? do u mean the father gives the child dat much pocket money or is it meant to cover expenses for the child? If it is meant to cover expenses for the child, buy what the child needs or give it to the mother.

[Gen]

suh the madda not concerned that 1 or 4 of the other kids is a teef ???

[j-kid]

So why di madda noh jus sen di boy goh liv wid him puppa? Shi need fi stress di odda daddies fi antiup fi dem share ah support tuh. Is nat di boy's daddy responsibility fi tek car ah all ah di mumma pickney dem, especially if di two ah dem naa liv togedda as man an ooman.

[blugiant]

A parent should take care of their child to the best of their abilities there are ways to control the way your money is spent if you are so concerned about the mother abusing the situation... such as paying directly paying for expenses related to the child but never deprive your child because of others. Is that minimum child support good enough. Sometimes you have to write things off as opportunity cost if you cant control it.

doan kno y peeps invalve mii inn dem familee drama cah aff mii profession ann mii gitt along widd peeps by askinn mii fe chatt peeps fe dem

minimum iss wat imm legallee obligated fe pay by da law butt imm awlway gave more. dat y shi neva tekk imm to court. faddar kno maddar usinn sum aff da money fe mine addar yuth butt imm neva care until shi neva tapp ar addar yuths fram teefinn imm money dat imm give imm son. imm natt deprivinn imm yuth cah iff imm yuth waan sintinn imm git itt. imm yuth go private school, summer camps, karate, etc unlike de maddar addar yuths. itt bout deprivinn ar addar yuths

[blugiant]

how old is the kid that gets $100 a week? do u mean the father gives the child dat much pocket money or is it meant to cover expenses for the child? If it is meant to cover expenses for the child, buy what the child needs or give it to the mother.

11. yess da $100 dollars iss imm yuth allowance fe spend pon wateva imm waan.

[blugiant]

suh the madda not concerned that 1 or 4 of the other kids is a teef ???

dat wat mii seyinn too

mumma a tell da yuth nuh fe tell imm faddar cah shi kno oww imm tand ann as soon as imm found out imm cuss ar out bout ar teefinn yuths

[blugiant]

So why di madda noh jus sen di boy goh liv wid him puppa? Shi need fi stress di odda daddies fi antiup fi dem share ah support tuh. Is nat di boy's daddy responsibility fi tek car ah all ah di mumma pickney dem, especially if di two ah dem naa liv togedda as man an ooman.

puppa own imm own buss companee soo imm deh pon da road moas aff da thyme

de addar daddies ante upp butt nuh like rich faddar

agree widd yuh dat itt nuh da bwoy faddar responseebilitees ann mii tink imm shood ave neva gave ar more dan wat imm was legallee obligated fe pay. imm finallee gitt likkle sense

[Gen]

she might want to sort out herself cause there is going to be resentment from the other 4 kids which might carry through to adulthood (look like teefing right yah now a the least of her problems)

doan kno y peeps invalve mii inn dem familee drama cah aff mii profession ann mii gitt along widd peeps by askinn mii fe chatt peeps fe dem

minimum iss wat imm legallee obligated fe pay by da law butt imm awlway gave more. dat y shi neva tekk imm to court. faddar kno maddar usinn sum aff da money fe mine addar yuth butt imm neva care until shi neva tapp ar addar yuths fram teefinn imm money dat imm give imm son. imm natt deprivinn imm yuth cah iff imm yuth waan sintinn imm git itt. imm yuth go private school, summer camps, karate, etc unlike de maddar addar yuths. itt bout deprivinn ar addar yuths

[Gen]

the child is only 11 (unless him guh uber private school like poly prep or trevor day school where the fada a try keep up with the vanderbilts and rockerfellers) suh the fada might want to reduce the 100.00 a week, that is a bit much for a child's allowance.

11. yess da $100 dollars iss imm yuth allowance fe spend pon wateva imm waan.

[blugiant]

she might want to sort out herself cause there is going to be resentment from the other 4 kids which might carry through to adulthood (look like teefing right yah now a the least of her problems)

deer iss awlreadee resentment dat y dem teef da yuth money.

yuh touchinn da issue. oww do maddar deal widd da issue wan aff ar yuth iss more privilege dan ar addar cah imm faddar ave a latt more

[blugiant]

the child is only 11 (unless him guh uber private school like poly prep or trevor day school where the fada a try keep up with the vanderbilts and rockerfellers) suh the fada might want to reduce the 100.00 a week, that is a bit much for a child's allowance.

faddar iss a bitt aff a showaff butt since imm natt deer moas aff da thyme widd imm yuth imm use imm money fe compensate. iff imm yuth nuh like wat imm maddar cook, imm can arder diffarant food. da ting surprisinglee iss dat de yuth nuh spoil ann imm generous.

iff mii membar wan day mii will chatt bout wen mii set imm upp wid wifee snootee friend

[kia027]

I can understand after reading the thread why the other kids resent the middle child given the special privileges he receives because his father can provide.

As gen said the mother need to sort herself out with the thieving issue and to provide similar opportunities to her other kids. Until that is done, if the child continue to live with the mother there are going to be problems in the relationship. Not sure how best to level the playing field of activities with the other kids unless the other fathers & the mother provide similar opportunities which cost $$/

As for the father wid the $100 a week ting im better off saving $90 a week fi college sundries and give the pickney $10. Maybe the father can give the 11 yr old more of his time than $$. Lots of rich kids in therapy because their parents gave them $$ instead of time

[CeaBee]

iff imm yuth nuh like wat imm maddar cook, imm can arder diffarant food

foolishness that. if is stuff like that the extra money going for, then is a good thing that him stop give it to the child then