there is a book that seveen recommends that i think it is time for me to get now.. -- we not where your friend is.. this is where immaturity is good (fi parents)
anyway as fi dat situation. I would say it is natural to do so (cause grown men always a hold dem package so mi cyan seh ie wrang) but it is a very private ting and must be done in the privacy of your room wid the door closed.
did he have any books or sitten --- dat is where it would get tricky imho
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Masturbation is natural! i know a little girl that can move her crib around she goes out it so bad - and it's not diaper rash she's like 6 months old
and abu and i have had this discussion
yep in the privacy of your room and in private - just like i do
my sex conversations started with my son when he was 5 - age appropriate stuff - but conversations nevertheless
and the conversations continue as just part of our daily being - the other day i noticed peach fuzz starting under his arms and we talked about that
for the past few months or so - he does not want me to see him naked i guess hair is sprouting there too
abu insists it's already BIG - i asked the doctor in front of abu - is it hanging to his knees doc? - the doctor told me the summer of 2009 would be his "growing" year
one of his friend's mother- told me that her older son recently told her that he got his first BJ in middle school
and that pot was rampant over there - i told her abu has no money to buy pot - she said - they don't need money - the girls will buy it for them - <span style="font-style: italic">(i hope we don't have to go visit maury one day)</span>
on the beach in negril - we will sometime see topless sunbathing - at first it was of interest to him - but after my telling him everyone has the same thing - yep men have breasts too - he's over it
as for pot smoking - again his exposure to it and his reaction to it reminds me of that show Square Pegs - where the parents were hippies and the kids or at least the Michael J Fox character were straight arrows - for abu - all the mystery of pot is known and he's seen how folks act when they use it
and boy did i get a big lecture the other day when he saw something on TV about 3rd hand cigarette smoke how i was "killing" him
my folks were open with me and i guess that has made it easy for me to be open with him - even regarding his adoption (that is something he has always known)
i always thought it would be harder to find "that day" when you're supposed to talk about the birds and the bees - easy to put off and off and off - and then your child picks up that street stuff - like - you can't get pregnant standing up or you can't get pregnant the first time
i feel comfortable in my sexuality and want to raise a man that is comfortable with his - and not just curious
anyway let me go and check that book on amazon - be back
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: I_Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">there is a book that seveen recommends that i think it is time for me to get now.. -- we not where your friend is.. this is where immaturity is good (fi parents)
anyway as fi dat situation. I would say it is natural to do so (cause grown men always a hold dem package so mi cyan seh ie wrang) but it is a very private ting and must be done in the privacy of your room wid the door closed.
did he have any books or sitten --- dat is where it would get tricky imho </div></div>
gurl - you need to get going on this - even disney cartoons have sexual tension in them . . .your kids know more than you think - and most of what they think they know is wrong
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Nope no porn or anything like that.
what's the name of that book Seveen likes? </div></div>
masturbation doesn't have to involve porn - we do it 'cause it feels good
and at 12 and under - most kids are having not a climax
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: I_Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what do you do when they respond with a and oh boy here we go again?
I dont know why boyKia is embarassed.. I just say it is what it is and you need to know
mrKia is more subtle but I attribute that to his presbyterian upbringing
we havent had the illegal drug convo as he really got into the D.A.R.E. program and chastised us for our occasional wine drinking.
girlKia on the other hand.. takes it all in stride </div></div>
to avoid the that's where the book comes in handy
they can read it at their leisure and you can discuss things as they come up - instead of "sit down, we are going to talk sex"
most men don't really talk to their sons about sex - mainly because no one talked to them about it - that double standard thing
when i bought abu the book - my neighbor - aged 44 - read it with interest and told me he didn't know most of it
the book for boys also discusses the female body and functions
i'm glad because if the girl is pregnant - the boy is pregnant too
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BenBakNuff_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> you really can find out ANYTHING and EVERYTHING on Jamaicans.com </div></div>
(((Tanya))) it's just my humble opinion
i have a few more years to see if the talks sink in for real
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Seveen</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: I_Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">what do you do when they respond with a and oh boy here we go again?
I dont know why boyKia is embarassed.. I just say it is what it is and you need to know
mrKia is more subtle but I attribute that to his presbyterian upbringing
we havent had the illegal drug convo as he really got into the D.A.R.E. program and chastised us for our occasional wine drinking.
girlKia on the other hand.. takes it all in stride </div></div>
to avoid the that's where the book comes in handy
they can read it at their leisure and you can discuss things as they come up - instead of "sit down, we are going to talk sex"
most men don't really talk to their sons about sex - mainly because no one talked to them about it - that double standard thing
when i bought abu the book - my neighbor - aged 44 - read it with interest and told me he didn't know most of it
the book for boys also discusses the female body and functions
i'm glad because if the girl is pregnant - the boy is pregnant too </div></div>
ok book is here and boyKia says he will NEVER read it and he has someone else agreeing with him
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I gues that would be just you Kia an Tilly
and is worried about how she handled it. 
she's like 6 months old
and we talked about that 
how i was "killing" him
Seveen you rock 
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