Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

[julie*mango]

so unoo muss tired to hear mi complain bout mi bad breed nephew dem...push come to shove dat ova di weekend di older one got into wan big argument wid him folks resulting wid him being kicked out a di house.

anyways guess who was di first person him call

him deh yah fi 3 days now. him just turn 20..drop out a community college and not working...tho him on unemployment cah him did get laid off recently..but is ongle 200 a week so not enough to live on.

anyways di bwoy nuh rude to mi, him mostly keep to himself an we nuh inna no argument..but mi jus cannot stand the thought of him lounging about mi house like him name furniture...neither can i deal with his nastiness...he doesn't make his bed...him come in all hours a night smelling stink a smoke and mi door dem have alarm so it beep every time it open..one morning him wake mi up mussi 2 in di mawnin an mi cudden go back to sleep! him nuh wash him plate..and worst of all him pizs all over the toilet seat...sarah's ring was on it too so I was ultra pizt when I discovered it!

Mi want him out but mi nuh really want to say anything til my husband comes home...mi willing fi give him until mi come from jamaica to find a job and get him own place...dat is one month exactly from today...unoo tink dat is reasonable? or should i just mek him gallang a road?

[CeaBee]

Re: Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

yes i think it's reasonable.

mek u husband talk to him and give him the ultimatum tho'.

what hubby saying?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

One month from today to GTHO is reasonable. wedda him fine job or not. He wants to be grown an disrespect his parents then him muss know how him plan fi support himself.

Tell him that when yu come back from vacay he needs to be gone.

yu a leff him one inna yu house while yu gone?

[julie*mango]

Re: Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

hubby supports whatever decision i make...

[julie*mango]

Re: Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
yu a leff him one inna yu house while yu gone? </div></div>

he's house-sat for me before so I trust him to stay alone here....of course I will have ppl stop by occasionally and check in...

[kia027]

Re: Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ceabee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yes i think it's reasonable.

mek u husband talk to him and give him the ultimatum tho'.
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ditto

and you know while he is there and nat working and leaving his ish all bout, he needs some house rules and must do chores - mi know seh u can find sitten in the house fi im work pon, paint, till de hgarden outside fi puddung grass seed and dem ting dere..

tell hubby fi hand im the honey do list

[Boricua_papi]

Re: Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

Dash hout di wukliss bwoy yes. Mek im goh back a im parents.

[Suesumba]

Re: Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

he can go get a room in a rooming house with $200/week. he needs to learn some hard lessons.

[Yvonne N.]

Re: Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ceabee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yes i think it's reasonable.

mek u husband talk to him and give him the ultimatum tho'.
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ditto

and you know while he is there and nat working and leaving his ish all bout,<span style="font-size: 11pt"><span style="font-weight: bold"> he needs some house rules and must do chores - mi know seh u can find sitten in the house fi im work pon, paint, till de hgarden outside fi puddung grass seed and dem ting dere.. </span></span>

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...ditto...
<span style="font-size: 8pt">feed di dawg dem...carry dem fi walk...di new one dem...</span>

[HIMdaughta]

Re: Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ceabee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yes i think it's reasonable.

mek u husband talk to him and give him the ultimatum tho'.
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ditto

and you know while he is there and nat working and leaving his ish all bout, he needs some house rules and must do chores - mi know seh u can find sitten in the house fi im work pon, paint, till de hgarden outside fi puddung grass seed and dem ting dere..

tell hubby fi hand im the honey do list </div></div>

[rufian]

Re: Mi need unoo help bad bad bad...

I do not know the whole story, but. Do you sit him down and tell him your concerns about him? Just get up and kick him out would not be good for him especially because he turned to you. Does he know the house rules?