overnighters

[Seveen]

abu was invited to a sleep over birthday party

i don't know the parents

i don't know the kid

i don't want him to spend the night

your thoughts? the party starts this friday at 7 until saturday at 3

[diabolical_Tanya]

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Pick him up at 10

My neice always has sleep over birthday parties (at my house) And there is usually a couple of kids who come for the party but not the sleepover part. Never a big deal. parents juss come pick dem up when dem ready.

[CeaBee]

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i picked up BB around 10:30 when he was invited to a sleep-over.

the parents understood. BB was hungry when i picked him up, ..so he was ok with going home.

[Seveen]

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i told him i didn't want him to spend the night but was trying to decide what time to go get him

he wants to go back the next day

party isn't over until 3PM on saturday

so far i haven't signed on for that

[kia027]

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That is a reallll long time for a party.. What are they going to be doing for all that time??

7p - 2A - dem a party & play video games
2A -10A prolly a sleep
10A - 3P more play??


I would pick him up at 10:30 and bring him back at 11A based on what happened the night before

Did the other parent send you a list of activities, what the plan is?

[Seveen]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">That is a reallll long time for a party.. What are they going to be doing for all that time??

7p - 2A - dem a party &amp; play video games
2A -10A prolly a sleep
10A - 3P more play??


I would pick him up at 10:30 and bring him back at 11A based on what happened the night before

Did the other parent send you a list of activities, what the plan is? </div></div>

thanks y'all this had me going for a few days - thinking i was old fashioned and out of touch

no i did not get a list of activities except sleepover at Christian's house his mom probably hasn't figured it out either - then abu said Christian's 21-year brother was going to be there - didn't make me feel any more comfortable - maybe less - reinforced to me that i have no idea who lives in that house - do they have guns in the house - what kind of apartment building is it - will there be dancing girls

i am going to pick him up at 10:30 - much to his chagrin - and maybe take him back the next day - 'cause christian's mom may be at the end of her wits by then but already committed to 3PM with the other kids - plus teenagers generally don't wake up that early - they will stay awake forever and then sleep the day away - abu has managed to stay awake all night especially with these video games - something is on all the time

[Bizzy]

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Yeah, for ppl u don't know...gwaan go pick up u pikney an den bring him back the next day.
Maybe when Satdeh morning reach, Abu won't even remember bout the party an you won't have to bring him back.

[kia027]

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I dont mean to scare you Seveen but I have heard and even read where Fl has the highest rate of sex offenders in the 50 states so I know I would be leery of leaving my child for an overnight anywhere unless I know the parents well enough

[Seveen]

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yep plenty of sex offenders in florida

plus when i take him over there i am going inside so his departure time could change - to like 9:30

this weekend a 17 year got shot while visiting a friends house

and a 15 year old is the hospital with gunshot wounds to the head after &quot;playing with friends&quot;