She got In trouble and

[Gen]

Over the weekend and wants a time out from her dad

wth?

Likkelgen have one next friend live round the corner from us. The
Madda juss a call mi leff messige a ask if di child can stay wid mi dis evening (she work in physical therapy place)

the message seh di child want a time out from visiting/staying wid her
fada that live couple blocks away cause she mussie get in trouble while in his care
over the weekend and now di pickney want time out

the fada live wid him parents suh that is 3 adults to care for the child since the madda have to work.

Mi can see if none of those adults were available fi keep di child till this evening when di madda leave work, but time out from fada?

A wah dis ooman tek dis ting fah? If she a guh allow
di pikney fi carry on suh den perhaps she need fi hire one babysitter fi di "child"

[kia027]

Re: She got In trouble and

sound like the madda disagree wid de reason fi de time out (which may be the reason y the madda & fadda live in separate homes).

If this is a one off I would do it but if it becomes a habit. She need babysitter

[Gen]

Re: She got In trouble and

Mi know mi did tell her to let me know if she have an emergency and mi can ask my sitter to keep di child till she reach home but yuh think she would save it for real emergencies right?

Mi keep di pickney fi her one day aready and that was when di granny did haffi guh sumweh most a di day

bout pikney want time out from fada \o/ unnu ever see mi dying trial ?

A don't think so

[kia027]

Re: She got In trouble and

ok Tell her no and let her engage backup babysitter.

Mi just a think she de madda disagree whe the fadda a punish the child for so basically is allowing the 'time out' -- dem nat togeda for a reason

[Gen]

Re: She got In trouble and

When she seh time out she seh "girlchild wants a time out from bar fada"

that mean a di pikney nuh want fi guh stay wid di fada

Mi nuh mind dweet, but not for this reason, this is not emergency.

[kia027]

Re: She got In trouble and

Yes cause to the girl staying wid de fada is stressful to the child..somehow

emergency no. backup babysitter yes
if no backup babysitta then child gwine learn how fi handle stressful situations

[twiney]

Re: She got In trouble and

Gen ... mi never understand why Adale wanted to go to my sis one day but "poor" child cry desperately to go ...then him admit to him auntie is because him never want to clean him room...we dont get to choose our parents and as long as is not hurt him hurting her shi no need time out from her pa.

[kia027]

Re: She got In trouble and

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Twiney</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Gen ... mi never understand why Adale wanted to go to my sis one day but &quot;poor&quot; child cry desperately to go ...then him admit to him auntie is because him never want to clean him room...we dont get to choose our parents and as long as is not hurt him hurting her shi no need time out from her pa. </div></div>

sounded like he need some down time from his house and wanted a little fun. He could clean the room later when he had his likkle break

[CeaBee]

Re: She got In trouble and

maybe the fada discipline her some way and she dont want to go back there cause a that.

mother should try get to the bottom of it and if is something simple like that the mother should mek her go .