He said yes

**CeaBee** · 04-23-2008, 06:09 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

That wasn't my point. So it's better to sit and wait and hope? </div></div>

oh, i wouldnt be hoping...maybe that's why me wouldn't dweet. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

**MarieK** · 04-23-2008, 06:10 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

That wasn't my point. So it's better to sit and wait and hope? </div></div>

or move on when the man was just shy? What about opening the door and inviting him in.

Lord have mercy mi wudda dead from stress living by the rules of who should do dis and who should do dat.

man nuh want no fenkeh fenkeh ooman now a days dem want a ooman who dem sure will have dem back hold dung di fort strong and can state her mind and him nuh inna no guess an spell bout wah she want or who she is. Demya relationship fullup a tuhmuch rule rule fi mi yaah

**kingy** · 04-23-2008, 06:11 PM

Re: He said yes

i likes you....

BTW...beg you a smalls nuh...u a drive big benz.

**Compry** · 04-23-2008, 06:12 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

That wasn't my point. So it's better to sit and wait and hope? </div></div>

If a woman has to sit, wait and hope then there is something extremely wrong with that relationship. Both of them should know where the relationship is heading or not.

**MarieK** · 04-23-2008, 06:13 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

That wasn't my point. So it's better to sit and wait and hope? </div></div>

oh, i wouldnt be hoping...maybe that's why me wouldn't dweet. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] dis nuh mek no sense. So basically you would be in a relationship to just be in it then. I told a young man here yesterday who was having second thoughts on moving in with his girl. They have been together three years I said Tony that's enough time for you and LaShawn to know each other after three years baby what's left. If you hven't grown in 3 years then leave because you can be stagnant by your damn self. kissteet.

But di gyal eediat an fool fool for she well want fi married an him unsure wedda she want to be suh yuh see eff she did propose him wudda accept an baby cuddan deh mek yah now.

I can't get women who don't hope and wish for more juss siddung deh an a watch di same old wheels spin.

**CeaBee** · 04-23-2008, 06:13 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

That wasn't my point. So it's better to sit and wait and hope? </div></div>

If a woman has to sit, wait and hope then there is something extremely wrong with that relationship. Both of them should know where the relationship is heading or not. </div></div>

yes mi gree wid dis.

**MarieK** · 04-23-2008, 06:14 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

That wasn't my point. So it's better to sit and wait and hope? </div></div>

If a woman has to sit, wait and hope then there is something extremely wrong with that relationship. Both of them should know where the relationship is heading or not. </div></div>

Ahhh Compry, some men are different

**CeaBee** · 04-23-2008, 06:15 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsMarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

That wasn't my point. So it's better to sit and wait and hope? </div></div>

oh, i wouldnt be hoping...maybe that's why me wouldn't dweet. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img] </div></div>

[img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] dis nuh mek no sense. So basically you would be in a relationship to just be in it then. I told a young man here yesterday who was having second thoughts on moving in with his girl. They have been together three years I said Tony that's enough time for you and LaShawn to know each other after three years baby what's left. If you hven't grown in 3 years then leave because you can be stagnant by your damn self. kissteet.

But di gyal eediat an fool fool for she well want fi married an him unsure wedda she want to be suh yuh see eff she did propose him wudda accept an baby cuddan deh mek yah now.

I can't get women who don't hope and wish for more juss siddung deh an a watch di same old wheels spin. </div></div>

I'm at a different stage of my life than leshawna ..suh maybe that while that is what she want, the paper and the ring wouldnt be suh important to me.

suh it mek sense *to me*

**Compry** · 04-23-2008, 06:15 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsMarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

yes but there is something about an assertive woman who sees a treasure or a gem and decides I want that and goes after it that is quite intriguing is it not?

Then again, as I said I don't have a problem showing my man exactly what it is that I want and if I want this relationship to go further then hell yes I am going to make it known that I want it to go further. If he says no then so be it.

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Is a lucky ting sey mi is a nice quiet, law abiding citizen addawise mi woulda tump yuh. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] You already have a husband so you can tan deh.

Some men do not particularly care for a pushy, assertive woman and some men do want the privilege fi pop di question.

**MarieK** · 04-23-2008, 06:16 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

That wasn't my point. So it's better to sit and wait and hope? </div></div>

If a woman has to sit, wait and hope then there is something extremely wrong with that relationship. Both of them should know where the relationship is heading or not. </div></div>

yes mi gree wid dis.

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lol suh in di mean time unnu both siddung deh a look pan wan anedda an a hope seh him seet by di time u leff. lol.

A dem kine a siddung an wait ooman get bun when a woman walk past an si di good good man siddung deh an decide fi walk up to him an seh "baby, you are a good man these are the things I'd like from you and here's what I have to offer" den di fuss ooman bawl an deh pan antidepressant tuh rahtid. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

**kingy** · 04-23-2008, 06:17 PM

Re: He said yes

not true compry. Its the degree of the pushiness. plus there is a difference between confidence and pushy.

**CeaBee** · 04-23-2008, 06:17 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsMarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

That wasn't my point. So it's better to sit and wait and hope? </div></div>

If a woman has to sit, wait and hope then there is something extremely wrong with that relationship. Both of them should know where the relationship is heading or not. </div></div>

yes mi gree wid dis.

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lol suh in di mean time unnu both siddung deh a look pan wan anedda an a hope seh him seet by di time u leff. lol.

A dem kine a siddung an wait ooman get bun when a woman walk past an si di good good man siddung deh an decide fi walk up to him an seh "baby, you are a good man these are the things I'd like from you and here's what I have to offer" den di fuss ooman bawl an deh pan antidepressant tuh rahtid. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

the marriage part doan mean seh him naah leff, when him ready to leff...a suh me seet.

**MarieK** · 04-23-2008, 06:17 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsMarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

yes but there is something about an assertive woman who sees a treasure or a gem and decides I want that and goes after it that is quite intriguing is it not?

Then again, as I said I don't have a problem showing my man exactly what it is that I want and if I want this relationship to go further then hell yes I am going to make it known that I want it to go further. If he says no then so be it.

</div></div>

Is a lucky ting sey mi is a nice quiet, law abiding citizen addawise mi woulda tump yuh. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] You already have a husband so you can tan deh.

Some men do not particularly care for a pushy, assertive woman and some men do want the privilege fi pop di question. </div></div>

lol gweh. Yes mi have a husband but that is neither here nor dere, he just happens to be as assertive as I am him mek it known seh mi wish to be married an mi seh June 27 is good for me a joke [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] but seriously assertive is different from being pushy.

**MarieK** · 04-23-2008, 06:18 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsMarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Compray</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: May_Pen_Yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should it matter who proposes?
You see something you want and you go after it...before somebody else tek yuh place. </div></div>

You do realize that if a man doesn't want a woman, no amount of proposing will change his mind? </div></div>

That wasn't my point. So it's better to sit and wait and hope? </div></div>

If a woman has to sit, wait and hope then there is something extremely wrong with that relationship. Both of them should know where the relationship is heading or not. </div></div>

yes mi gree wid dis.

</div></div>

lol suh in di mean time unnu both siddung deh a look pan wan anedda an a hope seh him seet by di time u leff. lol.

A dem kine a siddung an wait ooman get bun when a woman walk past an si di good good man siddung deh an decide fi walk up to him an seh "baby, you are a good man these are the things I'd like from you and here's what I have to offer" den di fuss ooman bawl an deh pan antidepressant tuh rahtid. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

the marriage part doan mean seh him naah leff, when him ready to leff...a suh me seet. </div></div>

a non committed relationship is easier to walk out of.

CB I have many friends who after 5 years are still waiting some have been left by these men who marry assertive women.

**MarieK** · 04-23-2008, 06:19 PM

Re: He said yes

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: KaBoom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">not true compry. Its the degree of the pushiness. plus there is a difference between confidence and pushy. </div></div>

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