can summen really gu so

[tsophra]

Re: can summen really gu so

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">where she live? people spitting at har when she walking down the street? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]

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dat would have been when she live in Manhattan..now she dey a crooklyn.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] an hates it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]


me nah lie CB..did woman if half the stuff she tell me is chroo..have some of the worst karma I've every come across..even outside the interracil slurs..people are just nasty to her..unbelievably so

[CeaBee]

Re: can summen really gu so

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">where she live? people spitting at har when she walking down the street? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]

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dat would have been when she live in Manhattan..now she dey a crooklyn.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] an hates it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

and that kind of behaviour is common in Manhattan?

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">now mind yu this was just one in a litany of slurs she was reciting to me..slurs caused by her choice of partner..like people spitting at her when she walk down the street with him..

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... and some black women would wear dem deh hawk and spit wid pride as lang as is a white man by dem side.

o dear i rhymed. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] ~~ tee hee ~~

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[tsophra]

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well me have friends in interacial relationships..some livded in manhattan..they've never mentioned any a dat to me..they say peeps will sometimes give them a look but dats about it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

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if <u>everyone</u> is so nasty to her, do you think maybe it's her? her entire mien?

[tsophra]

Re: can summen really gu so

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">now mind yu this was just one in a litany of slurs she was reciting to me..slurs caused by her choice of partner..like people spitting at her when she walk down the street with him..

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... and some black women would wear dem deh hawk and spit wid pride as lang as is a white man by dem side.o dear i rhymed. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] ~~ tee hee ~~

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yu knoe me tink deres some chroot to dis? sometimes she feels people are hating on her cause she got a white man..but OTOH..she doesn't seem really comfortable about the relationship..this is the woman who said she had to "warned" me her SO was white before I met him

[julie*mango]

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in all honesty I would not be comfortable dating a white man in America... maybe in Europe but definately not here...

[Suesumba]

Re: can summen really gu so

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> sometimes she feels people are hating on her cause she got a white man..but OTOH..she doesn't seem really comfortable about the relationship..</div></div>

... she's projecting. just like how some white women try to engage you with staring because they're walking with a black man and it's annoying as heck, because they think as a black woman you're threatened by them [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

she's doing the same thing.

but aye gavalt!!! the spitting is a bit extreme.

[tsophra]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">if <u>everyone</u> is so nasty to her, do you think maybe it's her? her entire mien? </div></div>

Could be. .my Mother swore she was the problem [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] but bway sometimes me cyaan se wha she do fe deserve some a dem tings she tell me bout...

fe instances..she was working on a mailing list..realise one of the persons on the list lived in the complex..when she sen the woman har info..she included a note to say BTW we're neigbours..I live in bldg xxxx..the woman right back seh "that is of absolutely no interest to me" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] mine yu she neva ever met the woman

[Suesumba]

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k. she's an idiot. first fi deh wid dat deh spinless man. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

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[MrsBlue]

Re: can summen really gu so

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">where she live? people spitting at har when she walking down the street? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]

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dat would have been when she live in Manhattan..now she dey a crooklyn.. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/grin.gif[/img] an hates it [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]


me nah lie CB..did woman if half the stuff she tell me is chroo..have some of the worst karma I've every come across..even outside the interracil slurs..people are just nasty to her..unbelievably so </div></div> <span style="color: #3333FF">I find that hard to believe, in NYC. It sounds to me like she's feeling very self-conscious about herself and her relationship and is either magnifying things or self-fulfilling. </span>

[CeaBee]

Re: can summen really gu so

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">if <u>everyone</u> is so nasty to her, do you think maybe it's her? her entire mien? </div></div>

Could be. .my Mother swore she was the problem [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] but bway sometimes me cyaan se wha she do fe deserve some a dem tings she tell me bout...

fe instances..she was working on a mailing list..realise one of the persons on the list lived in the complex..when she sen the woman har info..she included a note to say BTW we're neigbours..I live in bldg xxxx..the woman right back seh "that is of absolutely no interest to me" [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img] mine yu she neva ever met the woman


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well is NYers she dealing wid [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img]

[MrsBlue]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body">well is NYers she dealing wid [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek.gif[/img] </div></div> [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/nahtalktoyuh.gif[/img]

<span style="color: #3333FF">It's true, though. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </span>

[Bizzy]

Re: can summen really gu so

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so is she italian i.e., a putana? dem deh chef really skillz fi can write alla dat pan coffee. or di cup well big.

</div></div>LOL. Nuh done read de threa d yet. but das de fuss ting come to mi mine. slut cooden even spell out inna coffee wid whip cream much less sitten longa [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

maybe she got issues wit being in an IRR

[St_Bess]

Re: can summen really gu so

OK - so I look and take a second look at inter racial couples especially (black woman/white male). Me even tun round and look at them when dem pass mi and mi live and work a Manhattan - but for someone to spit at them on the street without any provocation (supposed they had a argumint over parking space or at a club scene) then maybe I could understand that. People no pay that much attention to demm things anymore dis is not in the 60's - it's not illegal anymore.