Cheating spouses. Why do they do it?

[jammin]

Just read yesterday that the famous Barbara Walters was a big time cheater on her husband for many years.

I didn't expect this from her but nowadays, nothing surprises me anymore.

For anyone who has ever cheated on a spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, why did you do it?

Is there ever a good enough reason to cheat?

[MarieK]

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wat a way all a di peeple dem pan di bwoad quiet eehhhh

Each person's situation is different some a dem warrant some bun while others do not.

I am not really surprised just disappointed that she felt hte need to disclose this information. Somethings need to be kept yourself. It wasn't necessary.

[julie*mango]

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I agree RE: Barbara Walters...

What yu was asking again Jammin? Why people do it?

Let's see...mi nuh sure if mi waan get dis personal wid yu RE: Why SOME ppl do it...


I don't...not since mi married anyway..

Thought about it many times though I will admit...

But at di end of the day yu conscience is a hell of a ting...

But I know other cheaters in my life...and I can tell you why some of them do it...but like I said..I don't know if I want to get this personal today...

[jammin]

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I think Barbara was going to be outed so that is why she confessed.

That is usually how it happens.

[loops]

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should we come back tomorrow when you're less shy?

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jammin</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I didn't expect this from her but nowadays, nothing surprises me anymore.
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why wouldn't you expect that from her? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

[jammin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jammin</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I didn't expect this from her but nowadays, nothing surprises me anymore.
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why wouldn't you expect that from her? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img] </div></div>


Maybe its me being naive but I have KNOWN so many people who have cheated, so nothing surprises me anymore.

[julie*mango]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">should we come back tomorrow when you're less shy? </div></div>

I'm not shy...I just don't feel like getting into sexual politics today... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img]

[jammin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Weekend_Puss</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I agree RE: Barbara Walters...

What yu was asking again Jammin? Why people do it?

Let's see...mi nuh sure if mi waan get dis personal wid yu RE: Why SOME ppl do it...


I don't...not since mi married anyway..

Thought about it many times though I will admit...

But at di end of the day yu conscience is a hell of a ting...

But I know other cheaters in my life...and I can tell you why some of them do it...but like I said..I don't know if I want to get this personal today...

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I read an article sometime ago that most cheaters ignore their conscience and just do it without regard for their significant other or if the other party might be involved with someone else.

[jammin]

Re: Cheating spouses. Why do they do it?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Weekend_Puss</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">should we come back tomorrow when you're less shy? </div></div>

I'm not shy...I just don't feel like getting into sexual politics today... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] </div></div>

Come on tell us. Mi waan hear suss tiday [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img]

[MarieK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jammin</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Weekend_Puss</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I agree RE: Barbara Walters...

What yu was asking again Jammin? Why people do it?

Let's see...mi nuh sure if mi waan get dis personal wid yu RE: Why SOME ppl do it...


I don't...not since mi married anyway..

Thought about it many times though I will admit...

But at di end of the day yu conscience is a hell of a ting...

But I know other cheaters in my life...and I can tell you why some of them do it...but like I said..I don't know if I want to get this personal today...

</div></div>

I read an article sometime ago that most cheaters ignore their conscience and just do it without regard for their significant other or if the other party might be involved with someone else. </div></div>

if there isn't a tinge of guilt on his/her part for their respective persons there HAS to be a reason. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img]

[jammin]

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I used to watch this show called "Cheaters" on TV and it just amazes me the length the people go to to cheat and cover it up from their significant others. Too bad they didn't know the cameras were watching.

[MarieK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jammin</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I used to watch this show called "Cheaters" on TV and it just amazes me the length the people go to to cheat and cover it up from their significant others. Too bad they didn't know the cameras were watching.

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lawd jeezas yuh wid di cheaters ting tuh. I swear smaddy gwine bax dung Joey ennuh

[julie*mango]

Re: Cheating spouses. Why do they do it?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jammin</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Weekend_Puss</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: loops</div><div class="ubbcode-body">should we come back tomorrow when you're less shy? </div></div>

I'm not shy...I just don't feel like getting into sexual politics today... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70361-embarassed.gif[/img] </div></div>

Come on tell us. Mi waan hear suss tiday [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/smile.gif[/img] </div></div>


One instance..here's and old married couple...married from in di 60's..have 3 children...somewhere in the 70's di husband start see another woman...dis was an ongoing affair...the wife never fine out bout it til inna di early 90's...an di husband and di mistress had a pickney... anyway wife stay wid di husband...while husband stay wid di mistress...

mi a seh..a wah kine a eediat sitten dat I would never keep no man after him do all a dat to mi...

come fi learn dat di wife did leff go a Merica in di mid 60's cheat pon di husband while she was there an him mussi fine out so comes him never care bout cheating on her after...

[CeaBee]

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was the wife financially independent?

how old was she when she found out about it?