good blakk man fii marry

[blugiant]

Re: good blakk man fii marry

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BanDanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">All do respect to your momma blu... I would not consider a human life baggage [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/wink.gif[/img]


Children are the innocent victims in divorce/seperation.

If Imanni grew up and met a woman who had a child, I would want him to love that baby like his own. To try his best to heal those wounds and help raise a happy person.



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baggage iss mi wurd natt mii mother. mii mother iss a likkle more pc even iff dat watt shii meant

mii doan see children aff divorce ar separation as victims

still yu avoided da qwestian iff yu wass advisinn yu son bout witch ooman fii choose wan widd a youth ann wan widd noo yuth awl addar ting beeninn equal. witch wan wood yu prefer fii yu yuth

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MrsMarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">thank u Bandanna, no human life is baggage, a child is a blessing not a curse they need ot be accepted not rejected, loved not hated and least of all their youth should be appreciated and enjoyed.

It is disgraceful to consider a child a baggage a dirty shame </div></div>

yu agreeinn widd mii even iff yu doan see itt

wood itt bee better iff mii sedd xxtra luggage. like itt ar natt yu affii pay fii more wen a yuth invalve. itt increase da xxpense ann potential fii strife

dating iss dat moas men knoo oww fii gawn like dem real interested inn da mother child too gitt da mother fii luv dem. yu knoo look inn too da mothers yeyes like yu real intarested wen shii chatt bout ar child caw men knoo dat moas mother ar lookinn fii sumbadee fii play father

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SistaCtry</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Blu, u right, is too much of dese young women not thinking about the future of them self or dem yutes fe a breed up so fast and furious, is too much, too much of the young black women are having kids with no husband~ and dat is not right!

on the other hand Blu, its a DEEPER problem than that, which me no have time or patience yaa now fe go into~~ [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

I know why its happening and its not all their fault, but it doesnt make seeing it happening any easier to bear~~

like it is, seeing so many young black men go to jail, and those who get in trouble, find it so hard to come out of the system and be left alone to make it, [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

mek me come outta dis yaa man, </div></div>

yu rite dat a latt aff oomen breed widdout cansidarinn iff da parsan dem breed fa will bee good fathers. wan day wen mii ave more thyme mii will doo wan tredd bout wat mekk a man a good father. da ting ere iss dat out aff awl da race blakk men ar da moas invalved widd dem affsprings wen dem no langar widd da oomen.

yu knoo tropi luv fii chatt sey callege oomen ar less likelee fii find good man widdout lookinn att sum undalyinn reason pon den college oomen part, like dem extra [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70374-lipsrsealed.gif[/img] .

yu knoo a latt aff thyme young unemployed blakk men gitt inna chubble cah dem choose jugs fii mine dem yuths

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: NeezAynat</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Blugiant [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] Mi woulda like fi hear bout di black man dem wid di 6 pickney an 5 baby madda [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

yu a come chat bout single madda [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] yu betta galang goh check some a yu bredrin dem [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] at least di ooman dem a try fi do dem best fi dem pickney ...can't say the same fi nuff a di man dem [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img] </div></div>

mii knoo wan bredren widd 11 yuths widd 8 babee maddars. da last babee maddar wass bawlinn bout oww imm natt mininn ar yuth, secand yuth shii ave. ar friend tell ar dat imm doan support annee aff imm addar 10 yuths. babee maddars sey shii neva knoo imm ave 10 addar yuths. ar friend tell ar dat watt shii gitt fii avinn babee xxactlee 9 months afta shii furst meet da man. now da babee maddar lookinn fii wan respansible man fii he [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

like itt ar natt babee maddar iss da wan fii tink aff da cansequences cah itt usuallee dem dat end upp supportinn da yuth

[kia027]

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and what would the men do if the woman dem decide fi close dem legs till the man prove himself to commit to the woman in marriage? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]


edited to add:

and for the women who have kids why is it their fault if they are divorced or widowed or the father of the child left them??

[RichD]

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how long dat take?

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichDD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">how long dat take? </div></div>

depend on how bad the man want fi **ehem** dont it.. or im will stop and look into the long term

[diabolical_Tanya]

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Memba seh is Blu's world unno a deal wid [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and what would the men do if the woman dem decide fi close dem legs till the man prove himself to commit to the woman in marriage? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70402-thinking.gif[/img]


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and for the women who have kids why is it their fault if they are divorced or widowed or the father of the child left them?? </div></div>

mii tink mii read wan aff dem greek mythologee bout wives whoo decide natt too lett aff ann dat ended wan war. da realitee iss dat moas oomen luv sex too much fii doo dat. mii natt reallee chattinn bout avinn sex cah deer iss a bigg diffarance between avinn sex ann avinn wan baby. too much cantraceppshan fii soo mannee oopps. da ting dat dem ave inn camman dough iss dat sum oomen misstakenlee beeleevee dat sex ann babee caan oole a man

yu knoo mii chattinn bout baby maddars ann natt divorced ar widowed oomen. baby maddars ar more dan seventee parcent aff blakk oomen

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">baby maddars ar more dan seventee parcent aff blakk oomen </div></div>

i guess I am glad to be in the 30% then..

but everytime you have sex there is a chance for conception.. how bout this.. all the men have vascetomies and reverse it when dem ready fi breed so then the men will know fi a fact dat is nat a woman trick him cause he would have enabled the process [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">how long dat take? </div></div>yu dissagree widd mii richd dat moas babee maddar afta dem ave babees look fii responsible men fii father dem yuths. da intarestinn ting iss dat dem look fii certain qualites inna baby fathers ann den dem look fii addar qualities dat mekk a good fathers. baby dadee iss bout physical qualities while good fathers iss bout good supporters.

yu knoo mii wood disturb a latt aff oomen cah dem knoo mii raisinn legitimate issues bout dem

richd oww cum yu doan tell dem bout oww manee men view oomen widd xxtra baggage ann y dat limit dem abilitee fii fine wan good man

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">baby maddars ar more dan seventee parcent aff blakk oomen </div></div>

i guess I am glad to be in the 30% then..

but everytime you have sex there is a chance for conception.. how bout this.. all the men have vascetomies and reverse it when dem ready fi breed so then the men will know fi a fact dat is nat a woman trick him cause he would have enabled the process [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/bubble.gif[/img]

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mii natt chattinn bout limitinn annee badee abilitee fii procreate. watt mii chattinn bout iss manee oomen wey look fii babees daddee fii procreate widd based pon physical kyaarakkteristikk den tunn arund ann look fii men widd diffarant kyaarakktarrisktikk fii bee fathers too help dem raise dem youth. itt iss juss like da reason y oomen give sum men jacket cah dem knoo woo ave da qualitee fii bee da best father

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

so all of the women in this church meeting had kids? </div></div>

mii neva ask butt itt look soo

wat a ting iff mii didd tell dem dat mii grandma maddar sey church iss natt a good place fii find good oomen [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70390-shhh.gif[/img] </div></div>

well I dont think church is a good place to find men.....

so for the women who dont have children, why is it that they cant find a good blakk man? </div></div>

tink bout watt oomen meen by wan good blakk men ann oww manee blakk men qualifii

mii doan tink itt dat dem cyaan find good menn itt juss dat dem veree pickee. dere iss a price fii pay fii beeinn veree selective

[Blackstar*]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">baggage iss mi wurd natt mii mother. mii mother iss a likkle more pc even iff dat watt shii meant

mii doan see children aff divorce ar separation as victims

<span style="color: #CC0000">still yu avoided da qwestian iff yu wass advisinn yu son bout witch ooman fii choose wan widd a youth ann wan widd noo yuth awl addar ting beeninn equal. witch wan wood yu prefer fii yu yuth</span> </div></div>
Yeah, I wish someone would answer this question...honestly.

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlackStar</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">baggage iss mi wurd natt mii mother. mii mother iss a likkle more pc even iff dat watt shii meant

mii doan see children aff divorce ar separation as victims

<span style="color: #CC0000">still yu avoided da qwestian iff yu wass advisinn yu son bout witch ooman fii choose wan widd a youth ann wan widd noo yuth awl addar ting beeninn equal. witch wan wood yu prefer fii yu yuth</span> </div></div>
Yeah, I wish someone would answer this question...honestly. </div></div>

dem fraid fii anwsar itt hanestlee cah dem knoo dem aagree widd mii. itt easier fii gawn like mii wan missoggnoonist dat fii deal widd da issue

same oomen pon yah wey chatt bout dem doan deal widd men widd yuths tryinn fii sey mii wrang dat oomen widd yuths ar less desirable material