When an Old DateWants to Reconnect.

[halfwaytree]

Twice in the last year I have had women who I dated phone me or email me a few months after the initial first date(s) and hint about wanting to reconnect.

In both cases these women gave me th signal that they thought I was OK but they were not really into me so I took the hint and just stopped calling them.

Now they are wanting me to see them again.

I guess they wanted to try and find something better out there and now realize they may be better off "settling" for me.

I realize that <span style="font-weight: bold">SOME</span> men do this to women often enough. In my case I would never think about going out with someone who did this to me, no matter how much I liked them.

Anybody else have this happen to them? What did you say to the person who was pursuing you for another kick at the can?

[neutral]

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Good on you mate,it sounds to me like they did the rounds and is falling back on &quot;mr safe but dependable&quot; after they`ve had their fingers burnt,..tell dem fe gweh !

[kingy]

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had a girl did this to me. She came back point blank asking me if I would consider...I told her point black no, i would never consider dating her. lol left her speechless.

[diabolical_Tanya]

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pan di chree a yu

[Jazz]

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forwards evva and ah backward nevva - thats what I always say.

[Hush Darlin]

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as mi granny always sey a ingle dawg vamit and eat ie back up

[CeaBee]

Re: When an Old DateWants to Reconnect.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: a_lil_Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">forwards evva and ah backward nevva - thats what I always say. </div></div>

u and jacob miller

suh tanya what u saying?

[dr. bones]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">as mi granny always sey a ingle dawg vamit and eat ie back up </div></div>

Got a visual on this one

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: When an Old DateWants to Reconnect.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: coolbeans</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: a_lil_Jazz</div><div class="ubbcode-body">forwards evva and ah backward nevva - thats what I always say. </div></div>

u and jacob miller

suh tanya what u saying? </div></div>

I am saying that this &quot; <span style="font-style: italic"> guess they wanted to try and find something better out there and now realize they may be better off &quot;settling&quot; for me </span> &quot; is not necessarily the case.

Sometimes you meet someone and the time is just not right, could be that your personal life is in turmoil or your professional life is just plain busy so you don't have the time or emotion to invest in building a new relationship. So maybe a few months pass and thing calm down and you decide that now you have the time to invest in getting to know Miloman??? what's so wrong with that?? ....unless it's the type of women you are dating that is the issue.

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Newt</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Good on you mate,it sounds to me like they did the rounds and is falling back on &quot;mr safe but dependable&quot; after they`ve had their fingers burnt,..tell dem fe gweh ! </div></div>

like mi and you pan di same wavelength man. not even dogs return to their vomit.

[julie*mango]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: a_lil_JAZZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">forwards evva and ah backward nevva - thats what I always say. </div></div>

[chitowngirl]

Re: When an Old DateWants to Reconnect.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: a_lil_JAZZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">forwards evva and ah backward nevva - thats what I always say. </div></div>

[kingy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: a_lil_JAZZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">forwards evva and ah backward nevva - thats what I always say. </div></div>

not always true still.

mi aunty did break up wid har hubby. now dem been married for close to 20 years.

[jah_yout]

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juss tek di salting and done wid har

[Jazz]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingaling</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: a_lil_JAZZ</div><div class="ubbcode-body">forwards evva and ah backward nevva - thats what I always say. </div></div>

not always true still.

mi aunty did break up wid har hubby. now dem been married for close to 20 years. </div></div>

Well it may work for her - it's just not a practice of mine...