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[Phatty]

Let's say you had a choice between two people.

Person number 1 is currently stable. He has a good job, his own place and when he looks at you, you tend to melt. He seems okay now, but has no investments. He seems to care for you a lot, but with just a good job and no investments his future could be a struggle with nothing to fall back on, but he's so damn sexy! WL:

Person number 2 has been stable as long as you've known him. His foundation gets even more stable every year. He is not as attractive as number one but his businesses are lucrative and when you are with him you are never in need of anything. His personality is sweet and when you are his Queen your are his QUEEN. He doesn't melt your heart with looks but his words are powerful.

Would you take a chance on number 1 because your are so much more attracted to him than number 2?

[Bizzy]

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Been there, done that. Ain't start regrettin anything yet

[Phatty]

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yuh nah tell mi nuttin which one yuh pick

[neutral]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Phatty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Let's say you had a choice between two people.

Person number 1 is currently stable. He has a good job, his own place and when he looks at you, you tend to melt. He seems okay now, but has no investments. He seems to care for you a lot, but with just a good job and no investments his future could be a struggle with nothing to fall back on, but he's so damn sexy! WL:

Person number 2 has been stable as long as you've known him. His foundation gets even more stable every year. He is not as attractive as number one but his businesses are lucrative and when you are with him you are never in need of anything. His personality is sweet and when you are his Queen your are his QUEEN. He doesn't melt your heart with looks but his words are powerful.

Would you take a chance on number 1 because your are so much more attracted to him than number 2? </div></div>

Pick the one who gives you multiple orgasms.

[Boricua_papi]

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Dats a dilemma deh Phattu. Mi a mek wan sujestun dat resolve di prablem deh. Pick mi.

[Jazz]

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#1 jus cause he doenst have invetsments now - he has the potential to get there - u nevva seh him wutless... if im mek u knees buckle go for it...

its gonan be kinda hard to look at investments when your physical attraction to #2 wears off...

[Bizzy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Phatty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yuh nah tell mi nuttin which one yuh pick </div></div>I would pick the one I could enjoy having sex with

[Phatty]

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Mi nuh hab sex wid dem yet so mi cyan only go on what I have. So come wid sinting else man.

[LusciousJohnson]

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It depends on what you want...so my advice to YOU is this:

If u are lookin to settle down and be with one of them forever then i would say #2 just because u would be assured that there will be stability

but...

if u are looking to date and see what happens then i would say #1

But if it were ME, i would take #1. Just because he doesnt have investments now doesnt mean he wont in the future and even if he never does that doesnt necessarily mean he will struggle since u said he does have a good job.

[Phatty]

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Yea but with a good job nowadays and the economy that's not gauranteed.

If all you have is a good job that kind of leaves the future to your job.

but if you have investments in other countries and so on and so on you seem to have a little assurance in the future, nuh?

[Phatty]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: PRastafarian</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Dats a dilemma deh Phattu. Mi a mek wan sujestun dat resolve di prablem deh. Pick mi. </div></div>

hmmm seems so much easier...send mi a copy of your financial plans and investments and we may talk business

[Bizzy]

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what r u bringin to the table??

anyways nutten nuh guaranteed fi #2 either. Anything can happen wid him an him portfolio too

ETA: AT least if u deh wid #1 and tings take a downturn, u can still have some kinda happiness an enjoyment . where as wid #2, him lose everyting an den yuh nuh attracted to him, u unhappy..nutten else nuh diddeh fi maintain de relationship.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Phatty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Yea but with a good job nowadays and the economy that's not gauranteed.

If all you have is a good job that kind of leaves the future to your job.

but if you have investments in other countries and so on and so on you seem to have a little assurance in the future, nuh? </div></div>

[Phatty]

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Being old skool the question is can he take care of a family. I dont know if you noticed but when it comes down to being on the grind and hustle for a family a woman will always come through.

Men do but not as much as women. I can always take care of me. The question is...can he do the same?

What I bring to the table is whatever they ask...i've never known a man to be unsatisfied in my presence so there's no question in that. (Yes, i'm cocky)

[Bizzy]

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But yuh neva seh if #1 and #2 have de 'hustler' mentality (and mi not talkin street hustlin)

[Bizzy]

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anyways, as wahalla would say. Have sex with both of them, use a condom.

Then come back an tell us about it