Drama

[LusciousJohnson]

I dont know if this should be in parenting or dear k

anywho..so my co-worker is married right. Her husband has a daughter that is 24. The daughter has a babygirl. Di baby is 9 mos old. The daughter is not such a good mumma caws she party all the time and drink and do drugs and lef di babygirl wid all sorts of ppl that she doan really know that well or are not suitable fi tek care of pickney. soh to mek a lang story shawt...CPS come fi tek di babygirl fram her mumma and my co-worker and her husband got temporary custody of the babygirl...

[kingy]

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a nawmal sinting dat. been going on fi years now.

[LusciousJohnson]

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Soh di dawta supposed to go to parenting classes and some kinda psychological classes too. She could visit her babygirl at her parents (my co-worker and har husband) house whenever she wanted as long as she called ahead to let her parents know. Well she would call and make visits but the visits were only about 30 minutes each which is shocking to me sayka if my baby was taken and i could go see har when i wanted i would visit ALLA di time. Anywho, di dawta showed up late fi alla di visits and never stayed more than 30 minutes. Then lately she had been showing up with her partying buddies at her parents house when she supposed to be visiting wit har babygirl. so since she was showing up wid har friends of course she would be ready to go asap so she can get back to drinkin and doin drugs.

[LusciousJohnson]

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Well the fadda (my co-worker husband) got fed up wit his dawta comin over wit har friends. So my co-worker got upset caws shi doan want her husband to be upset. so she chry to talk to the dawta and aks har to stop showing up with the friends and bringing them to the house when shi come for har visits. The dawta gets mad and she didnt show up for any visits for a whole week straight. Well of course the fadda is upset caws he see that his dawta not tryna to get har babygirl back. Then mi co-worker get upset caws she tired of tryin to mek things easy for the dawta and the dawta not even tryin to better herself and go to the classes and dem tings so shi can get har baby back.

[LusciousJohnson]

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i forgot to mention this early on but

<span style="color: #CC0000"> My co-worker has had 2 miscarriages and it appears she cant carry a child to term so she wont be able to have kids of her own</span>

Both miscarriages were with her husband because he wants to have another child with my co-worker and of course my co-worker wants to have a child of her own but shi cant

Soh my co-worker calls the CPS lady and tells her EVERYTHING! What the dawta has been doing (drugs and partying and bring the friends over) and alla dem tings deh. Well the CPS lady stawt to investigate and found out the dawta hadnt been going to the classes and the dawta had been telling har parents that she WAS going. So the parents mad wit har.

[LusciousJohnson]

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My question is this...

Do you think my co-worker did the right thing by calling the CPS lady and telling har everyting?

[Phatty]

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Yes cuz if she didn't the child would go back to the mother and this whole mess would start over again. Maybe that's God's way of giving your co-worker the baby she so badly wants.

Mi si seh yuh badglish deh improve doah gwaan chroo chaaa!

[LusciousJohnson]

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i do chry to type regular English (sometimes) but some words i type &quot;badglish&quot; as yuh say when i am typing fast and figget and den it ends up all mixed up

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MissDiva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">My question is this...

Do you think my co-worker did the right thing by calling the CPS lady and telling har everyting?

</div></div>

Yes fi co-worker, now shi need fi stop enabling di bad breed drukkie drunkard gyal. Some people just need to learn the hard way, dat girl is choosing party an fren an drugs over her baby...mek shi galang and NOH TEK HAR BACK

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Phatty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Yes cuz if she didn't the child would go back to the mother and this whole mess would start over again. Maybe that's God's way of giving your co-worker the baby she so badly wants. </div></div>


True. But di dawta still had to complete classes and alla dat before the CPS ppl would even consider giving har di babygirl back. And she was a lang way away fram completing the classes.

So you doan tink that my co-worker shoulda let the dawta get har ownself in chobble?

[LusciousJohnson]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Tanya_to_Rhatid</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MissDiva</div><div class="ubbcode-body">My question is this...

Do you think my co-worker did the right thing by calling the CPS lady and telling har everyting?

</div></div>

Yes fi co-worker, now shi need fi stop enabling di bad breed drukkie drunkard gyal. Some people just need to learn the hard way, dat girl is choosing party an fren an drugs over her baby...mek shi galang and NOH TEK HAR BACK </div></div>

True. I think shi doan want har babygirl either. My thing is this...the CPS ppl were going to see really soon that di dawta wasnt doing what she was supposed to be doing. My co-worker sorta expedited things by calling and telling on the dawta.

Uno tink das di right ting fi har to do?

[Phatty]

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I think that's exactly what the daughter did. Her actions led up to having your co worker call so thats why the situation has turned out.

She outta awda ie?

[LusciousJohnson]

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yes VERY!!! she tanning by the pool, going out and getting tatoos and stuff. Still doing drugs and not tryna do nothing to see har babygirl

[diabolical_Tanya]

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Yes yu co-worker absolutly did the right thing

[LusciousJohnson]

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I guess i kwestion har motives

i wonder if she called them really because of the dawta's behavior of did shi do it to MAKE SURE the dawta couldnt get har babygirl back EVER since she can't have pickney so shi can keep di dawta baby?

Caws hearing from odda ppl experience wid dem CPS ppl, di dawta would haffi PROVE shi fit to tek har babygirl back. So if she cyaan prove it den my co-worker would have di babygirl anyway. I juss doan think it was necessary for har to call and tell. i think the dawta woodan dug har own hole juss by not doing wah shi was supposed to do...