noo child support oomen

[blugiant]

since oonnoo luv fii bawl no good man wey doan pay oonnoo child support, mii decide fii doo wan tredd pon wat sum oomen doo fii child support?


da luv aff child support iss da root aff y sum men natt close too dem yuth

oonnoo fii bee careful wat oonnoo teachinn likkle children. mekk sure itt natt sintinn dat will hurt cah dem likkle yuth see ann remember

[blugiant]

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wan aff mii yuth faddar wood cum visit imm dawtah ann give ar a small. da gurl maddar give ardar dat dii man wass noo langar allowed fii cum too da buildinn ann see imm dawtah widdout ar written parmission cah shii doan knoo wear shii fii serve imm fii child support papers

[blugiant]

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oomen wey bawl bout shii natt gittinn child support ann lookinn fii lack upp ar babee faddar ar undesirable oomen. oww den feel dem mekk dem baby faddar wan jailbird. doo dem reallee tink wen dem yuths gitt older dem nah remembah wat shii didd too dem

[jaith]

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i don't really believe in locking up the cheap so & so's....cuz you never gonna see a dime out of that.....BUT....i have no respect for a man who doesn't pay child support for the daily day to day expenses but comes by to slip the child some money.....that makes big points with the child, but doesn't put food on the table.

i never made a big deal of this with my children....i did my best with what i got....but they could see that their father's dogs got more attention from him than they did.....i never had to say a word cuz they're smart kids....& now, at 34 & 39, they have very little to do with their father....

you're right blu, the yuths remember

[Phatty]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jaith</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i don't really believe in locking up the cheap so &amp; so's....cuz you never gonna see a dime out of that.....BUT....i have no respect for a man who doesn't pay child support for the daily day to day expenses but comes by to slip the child some money.....that makes big points with the child, but doesn't put food on the table.

i never made a big deal of this with my children....i did my best with what i got....but they could see that their father's dogs got more attention from him than they did.....i never had to say a word cuz they're smart kids....&amp; now, at 34 &amp; 39, they have very little to do with their father....

you're right blu, the yuths remember </div></div>

I don't recieve child support and i'm not gonna persue it...

My son is well taken care of and if he wants to see the bastard later he is more than welcome.

Children nowadays are smart enough to know an idiot when they see one.

It's hard at times, but I won't bad mouth his father.

My mother never did that to me and I still saw the stinker for what he was...

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">since oonnoo luv fii bawl no good man wey doan pay oonnoo child support, mii decide fii doo wan tredd pon wat sum oomen doo fii child support?

da luv aff child support iss da root aff y sum men natt close too dem yuth

oonnoo fii bee careful wat oonnoo teachinn likkle children. mekk sure itt natt sintinn dat will hurt cah dem likkle yuth see ann remember </div></div>

So what do you suggest we do when the father refuses to voluntarily take care of his child? The love of child support is <span style="font-weight: bold">NOT </span>the root of why some men are not close to their kids. The problem is these men who feel like they can drop seeds all over the place and not have to be involved in any kind of way. Let's talk the truth Blu.....

These men need to be careful of what they are teaching their children when it comes to responsibilities. Having a child and walking away is not a good example.



<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blugiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">oomen wey bawl bout shii natt gittinn child support ann lookinn fii lack upp ar babee faddar ar undesirable oomen. oww den feel dem mekk dem baby faddar wan jailbird. doo dem reallee tink wen dem yuths gitt older dem nah remembah wat shii didd too dem </div></div>


Men who have to be forced to take of their children should be castrated. What kind of man forces a women to go to court and make him take care of his child financially? Do the men really think that when the child gets older there will be any level of respect? That's what they really need to think about. The fact that mommy had to be FORCED to go that route (violation of a court order is punishable by law Blu) say's enough about the bastard.

I've seen some things said about this topic and it really surprised me. The rationale regarding child support from some of you are just

[jaith]

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there was a time when both my children sought out their father....in their 20's.....they got to know him &amp; realized on their own why i left him. it took a long time for those chickens to come home to roost.....but it's done now...

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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The truth will always come to light......

[MrsBlue]

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<span style="color: #3333FF">A joke.

How about a father that refuses to pay child support, even works off the books to avoid it. (The reaction when he discovered that he could get neither passport nor driver's license had to be priceless.) Despite that, his children have NEVER been kept from him and <span style="color: #FFFFFF"> almost</span> never a bad word spoken about him.

His idea of providing? Clothes? Camp fees? Nope. He bought them an Xbox 360.

Yep, children don't forget. And while they see things as a child when they're children, eventually they grow up and perspective changes. </span>

[UKBlackLady]

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As Jaith and TLC say.

The truth will always out in the end. I never had to bad word (well not in front of the kids anyway) him to them.

I worked hard and supported my children financially and emotionally, and over and through it all I think they did good without him &quot;being there&quot;.

[neutral]

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Like I said in the other thread, <span style="font-weight: bold"> some women</span> do use child support to try and hurt a man out of pure vindictiveness,even if she knows what she`s asking is unreasonable,...its worse if the man is seeing a younger and prettier woman than them,...lawd help him,dawg nyam him suppah.

[UKBlackLady]

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Oh Lawd Newt!

I have male friends who have been brought to their knees by vindictive and bitter women. It is very sad when children are used as pawns in a game.

[LusciousJohnson]

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I know someone like that. She goes on about how much money she will get from him because the amount is based on how much he makes. Well he had one good job where he made a lot of money so she tells the ppl bout that job so she can get paid based on his income from that job. Well he dont even work there no more and all she could say was how that is the last job the child support ppl know about so thats what she will be paid off of. i juss lissen cuz i dont know how child support and all that works. But it shocked me that she didnt want him to have nothing to do with the kids no matter how much he tries to see them and by them stuff. It dont matter to her that he wants to see them and tries to help her out with what the kids needs. She wants the child support checks instead because she is getting the dollas instead of the items(clothes, shoes, school supplies, etc) from him. i couldnt believe it!

[jah_yout]

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yes nuff people use the children as weapons to attack each other...
really gets me vex because they let their own hatred of the man/woman cloud the fact that the child should not be kept from having a relationship with their parent...if that parent wants nothing to do with the child then it's a different story...
men who don't support their children are wrong...but so are the women who use this as a measuring stick of whether the man can see his child or not...
or to try to use crippling him financially as punishment for leaving them...

in any case i never saw how locking up people does any good for their children

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jaith</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i don't really believe in locking up the cheap so &amp; so's....cuz you never gonna see a dime out of that.....BUT....i have no respect for a man who doesn't pay child support for the daily day to day expenses but comes by to slip the child some money.....that makes big points with the child, but doesn't put food on the table.

i never made a big deal of this with my children....i did my best with what i got....but they could see that their father's dogs got more attention from him than they did.....i never had to say a word cuz they're smart kids....&amp; now, at 34 &amp; 39, they have very little to do with their father....

you're right blu, the yuths remember </div></div>

seeeeth deh

yuths will see wat a gawn ann oole itt against dem parent wen dem parents gitt oldah.

sinting sick wen oomen lack upp dem children faddar fii child support money. imagine likkle yuths chattinn bout dem faddars inn jail cah dem neva pay mommy child support so shii mekk dem lack upp dem faddars. iss dat inn da best intarest aff yuths

mii ave noo respekk fii men wey doan support dem yuths iff dem caan afford itt. still dat dii xxception natt da rule cah moas men support dem yuths. dat child support argument iss natt bout men supportinn dem yuths butt da level aff support oomen feel dem need fii raise da yuths. sintinn wrang wen da system caan force poor unemployed men fii pay chile support ar goo to jail fii natt beeinn able fii support imm children

mii lose respekk fii oomen wey feel dem ave da rite stigmatize likkle yuths as da children aff men woo went to jail cah aff dem maddar