no child support men

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

This thread is for the men who feel that enforcing child support is wrong.

Why do you force women to have to take your sorry [censored] to court? Why not just help take care of your child voluntarily?

Do you know what kind of lesson you are teaching your sons and daughters about responsibility? Do you know that it makes you look wutless and undesirable......

[jah_yout]

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in my experience no money given is ever enough...i'm sure there are cases where everything works out but often i find the women never satisfied, always want more...some willing to take the majority of the man's money so he has to cotch somewhere to live...if that doesn't do they want him locked up...
some women won't admit it but revenge drives some of these cases more than the child's financial need- especially if she is in a new relationship;
i'm still puzzled how destroying a man helps his child out (a convict record seriously diminishes future job chances)...

now yes some men deserve the worst, but not all...some deadbeat dads deserve destruction but some women deserve to ease off if it is revenge & bitterness driving them

[twiney]

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all need fi happen in cases where the woman abuse things is encourage her to take him to court like a friend of mine did ... when the case reach court and the judge hear how much the man a pay out ... full prep school fee fi the pickney, taxi fare for school every day (him go cayman go werk fi make sure him could afford it) plus money fi take care of her food and clothing and anything else she need/want ... The mother decided him making good money and she never want to work ... the judge cut it more than half ... of course him still pay him daughter way but my girl learn fi quat.

[kingy]

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I heard heard of cases where the woman alla throw salt inna de cut..de man finally couldnt tek de pain..went to his car, took out his 9 and shoot the woman and her mom right outside of the court house.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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Jah yout it's called basic economics.....

Do fadda mek more....di pikney get more
rice gone up......di pikney get more
ile gone up.....di pikney get more

This is the problem as well.....men don't understand why the woman needs more than she is already getting.....KIDS GROW UP AND THE NEEDS BECOMES MORE AND MORE.......geesh

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingaling</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I heard heard of cases where the woman alla throw salt inna de cut..de man finally couldnt tek de pain..went to his car, took out his 9 and shoot the woman and her mom right outside of the court house. </div></div>


an yu ago deh behind bars fi life caws yu too wutless.....man ah real eediat fi troo

yu tink judge ago enforce yu fi oay sumtin weh yu nuh have? kisteet, if di judge enforce yu fi pay is caws yu have it fi give.....suh tap gripe an help tek care ah yu pikney......

[kingy]

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aie sah

[blugiant]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body">This thread is for the men who feel that enforcing child support is wrong.

Why do you force women to have to take your sorry [censored] to court? Why not just help take care of your child voluntarily?

Do you know what kind of lesson you are teaching your sons and daughters about responsibility? Do you know that it makes you look wutless and undesirable......

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tink pon da chile support lagtrikks. lackinn upp a latt aff poor blakk men wey noo ave money. ole thyme slaveree sintinn cum bakk again ann poor tax ting. awl aff da money callected fii chile support callection aff enforcement doan goo too da yuth

da best argument iss dat men neva cansent fii pay chile support bye sleepinn widd oomen. itt dat lagtrikk dat lead to men wey faddar ann men woo ar natt da faddar iss beeinn force pay chile support. even iff da man natt da faddar imm caan bee held upp bye chile support babylon system

sintinn wrang wen oomen caan force a man fii pay ar badd decision fii ave babies fii men wey neva agree fii help support da yuths inn da furst place

da lesson bout respansibilitee beeinn taught iss oomen ar natt totallee respansible fii mekkinn badd decision widd regard too woo shii decide fii breed fah.

[blugiant]

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oomen blaminn men butt dem fail fii see da bandulo bizz. woo gittinn rich aff chile support iss natt da maddar butt da system aff callectinn money

[applepie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Jah yout it's called basic economics.....

Do fadda mek more....di pikney get more
rice gone up......di pikney get more
ile gone up.....di pikney get more

This is the problem as well.....men don't understand why the woman needs more than she is already getting.....KIDS GROW UP AND THE NEEDS BECOMES MORE AND MORE.......geesh







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just a question........so if the man pays does not go up but rice and oil is up he must pay increase?

[twiney]

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Applepie I should think that if there is an increase in the cost of living that both parties will need to contribute more to their child ...

If the situation is where the man/woman is struggling to pay what they are currently paying or if the primary caregiver is in a position to take care of things then they should do what they can without distressing the other party.

[Boopie2]

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What about these men who beg a women to have his child, then turns everything around like it was the woman's idea.