Qwestian fi JA.com...

[countryspeng]

wo/men.


wat would you do if your Significant Other was perfect in every single way....everything you imagined...rub dung foot wen yu tiyad, tek care of awl responsibility, family wo/man....sensitive, empathetic, funny, ....just everyting you ever imagined.......



but the only flaw is, they could not/would not stay faithfull to you and only you. would you give up on all that you know you love....for the one flaw, or would you bear the brunt and learn to live with it...?

[Nylah]

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if the parnter was so perfect, why the need to be unfaithful? ppl are unfaithful if something is missing, no?

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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First off, perfection is relative.....

I personally would give it all up if that man could not remain faithful to me. What does all that other stuff mean, if they can't deal with the most important part of a relationship....monogamy......


To bear and brunt means you settle and don't believe you deserve better......

[Nylah]

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plus, why are u asking? u planning on giving me bun

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

plus, why are u asking? u planning on giving me bun </div></div>



mi madda

[countryspeng]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

if the parnter was so perfect, why the need to be unfaithful? ppl are unfaithful if something is missing, no? </div></div>


not always...some people are just plain narcissists and they believe they can &quot;handle&quot; more than one...

[sistacaf]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ppl are unfaithful if something is missing, no? </div></div>

<span style="font-weight: bold">no</span>

[countryspeng]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body">First off, perfection is relative.....

I personally would give it all up if that man could not remain faithful to me. What does all that other stuff mean, if they can't deal with the most important part of a relationship....monotony......


To bear and brunt means you settle and don't believe you deserve better...... </div></div>


is MONOTONY the MOST important aspect of a relationship?

[Nylah]

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<span style="font-weight: bold">for the one flaw, or would you bear the brunt and learn to live with it...?</span>

and what does this mean exactly? living with your cratches being on fire cause he/she did bring something into my home from another bed?

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

if the parnter was so perfect, why the need to be unfaithful? ppl are unfaithful if something is missing, no? </div></div>


not always...some people are just plain narcissists and they believe they can &quot;handle&quot; more than one...

</div></div>

hmmmmm. enough times I hear this and I cant now or ever believe it is such. Ppl sometimes are conscious of what motivates them to do things - not everyone has self awareness to realize why they do things.

but hey, that is just me.

[countryspeng]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

plus, why are u asking? u planning on giving me bun </div></div>


bun? wah name suh? NYLAH

[countryspeng]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">for the one flaw, or would you bear the brunt and learn to live with it...?</span>

and what does this mean exactly? living with your cratches being on fire cause he/she did bring something into my home from another bed? </div></div>


ar you more worried abouit the emotional part of it, or the fact that he/she could be bringing something home?

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

plus, why are u asking? u planning on giving me bun </div></div>


bun? wah name suh? NYLAH </div></div>

yuh lucky

[countryspeng]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

if the parnter was so perfect, why the need to be unfaithful? ppl are unfaithful if something is missing, no? </div></div>


not always...some people are just plain narcissists and they believe they can &quot;handle&quot; more than one...

</div></div>

hmmmmm. enough times I hear this and I cant now or ever believe it is such. Ppl sometimes are conscious of what motivates them to do things - not everyone has self awareness to realize why they do things.

but hey, that is just me.

</div></div>

so you believe that something is always lacking in order for the SO to step out?

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">for the one flaw, or would you bear the brunt and learn to live with it...?</span>

and what does this mean exactly? living with your cratches being on fire cause he/she did bring something into my home from another bed? </div></div>


ar you more worried abouit the emotional part of it, or the fact that he/she could be bringing something home? </div></div>

i may or may not be able to deal with the emotional aspect of it - that is as honest as i could be because it would depend on the person for me - but the physical danger that messing around can possibly impose on me given the state of the world today - implies a level of disrespect that I would have a far harder time dealing with or even forgiving.

nuff guys still like to ride bareback. Now, I can only speak for my cratches, that they wont spread nothing untowards - but someone elses? If you are gonna be at peace with your SO stepping out, then you have to trust that they would have some good sense with who they choose - and how can that be guaranteed?

some things cannot be undone. No amount of &quot;I'm sorry&quot; will get rid of Herpes or Aids.