Qwestian fi JA.com...

[evanovitch]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body">First off, perfection is relative.....

I personally would give it all up if that man could not remain faithful to me. What does all that other stuff mean, if they can't deal with the most important part of a relationship....monotony......


To bear and brunt means you settle and don't believe you deserve better...... </div></div>


is MONOTONY the MOST important aspect of a relationship? </div></div>

mi tink is anodda wud was suppose fi use but u cyan tell rung yah still

[Nylah]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

if the parnter was so perfect, why the need to be unfaithful? ppl are unfaithful if something is missing, no? </div></div>


not always...some people are just plain narcissists and they believe they can &quot;handle&quot; more than one...

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hmmmmm. enough times I hear this and I cant now or ever believe it is such. Ppl sometimes are conscious of what motivates them to do things - not everyone has self awareness to realize why they do things.

but hey, that is just me.

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so you believe that something is always lacking in order for the SO to step out?

something MUST be lacking - whether that is in what they <span style="font-weight: bold">perceive</span> is lacking in their partner or <span style="font-weight: bold">in themselves</span>.

I am not saying I am right - just that I have a hard time believing otherwise. No one has ever argued against it well enough for me to think otherwise.

[countryspeng]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">for the one flaw, or would you bear the brunt and learn to live with it...?</span>

and what does this mean exactly? living with your cratches being on fire cause he/she did bring something into my home from another bed? </div></div>


ar you more worried abouit the emotional part of it, or the fact that he/she could be bringing something home? </div></div>

i may or may not be able to deal with the emotional aspect of it - that is as honest as i could be because it would depend on the person for me - but the physical danger that messing around can possibly impose on me given the state of the world today - implies a level of disrespect that I would have a far harder time dealing with or even forgiving.

nuff guys still like to ride bareback. Now, I can only speak for my cratches, that they wont spread nothing untowards - but someone elses? If you are gonna be at peace with your SO stepping out, <span style="font-weight: bold">then you have to trust that they would have some good sense with who they choose - and how can that be guaranteed?</span>

some things cannot be undone. No amount of &quot;I'm sorry&quot; will get rid of Herpes or Aids.

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yu rite, becah mi si some guys step out wid some ............ \0/!

tell you the truth, dat is one of da many ting dat keep mi from steppin out....mi cyan badda wid di hide an seek an its 2008 disease deh every weh..

[Nylah]

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plus the presumption to all of this is that you and your SO dont have an open relationship, so then this question/concern would arise.

but if 2 ppl decide out loud during the course of their relationship that they are willing to be at peace with one or both possibly stepping out then the question is moot, no?

[countryspeng]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body">First off, perfection is relative.....

I personally would give it all up if that man could not remain faithful to me. What does all that other stuff mean, if they can't deal with the most important part of a relationship....monotony......


To bear and brunt means you settle and don't believe you deserve better...... </div></div>


is MONOTONY the MOST important aspect of a relationship? </div></div>

mi tink is anodda wud was suppose fi use but u cyan tell rung yah still </div></div>

monogamy-monotony...same sittn

[Nylah]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<span style="font-weight: bold">monogamy-monotony...same sittn</span>


****<span style="font-style: italic">lick SpengDon in his headback</span>****

[countryspeng]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

plus the presumption to all of this is that you and your SO dont have an open relationship, so then this question/concern would arise.

but if 2 ppl decide out loud during the course of their relationship that they are willing to be at peace with one or both possibly stepping out then the question is moot, no? </div></div>


prezactly...but <span style="font-weight: bold">SOME WO/MEN</span> will say anything to get weh dem want and agree to certain things.....den a year or so down the line...all of a sudden tings change, an now yu waan frigg up di systim....

[countryspeng]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">monogamy-monotony...same sittn</span>


****<span style="font-style: italic">lick SpengDon in his headback</span>**** </div></div>




I'm just sayin....baskin robins....31 flavors...gotta try em all...before you choose one....

[Nylah]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

plus the presumption to all of this is that you and your SO dont have an open relationship, so then this question/concern would arise.

but if 2 ppl decide out loud during the course of their relationship that they are willing to be at peace with one or both possibly stepping out then the question is moot, no? </div></div>



prezactly...but <span style="font-weight: bold">SOME WO/MEN</span> will say anything to get weh dem want and agree to certain things.....den a year or so down the line...all of a sudden tings change, an now yu waan frigg up di systim.... </div></div>



I have to agree with you on that

I promise though I wont change my mind

[countryspeng]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

plus the presumption to all of this is that you and your SO dont have an open relationship, so then this question/concern would arise.

but if 2 ppl decide out loud during the course of their relationship that they are willing to be at peace with one or both possibly stepping out then the question is moot, no? </div></div>



prezactly...but <span style="font-weight: bold">SOME WO/MEN</span> will say anything to get weh dem want and agree to certain things.....den a year or so down the line...all of a sudden tings change, an now yu waan frigg up di systim.... </div></div>



I have to agree with you on that

I promise though I wont change my mind
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heard that before....

[countryspeng]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">First off, perfection is relative.....</span>

I personally would give it all up if that man could not remain faithful to me. What does all that other stuff mean, if they can't deal with the most important part of a relationship....monotony......


To bear and brunt means you settle and don't believe you deserve better...... </div></div>

list out your perfect man....an tell mi if yu a give up awl dat cah im nuh waan bi faithfull.

[kia027]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body">First off, perfection is relative.....


What does all that other stuff mean, if they can't deal with the most important part of a relationship....monotony......

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oh dear.. sorry to hear that monotony is the most important pawt of relationships

[countryspeng]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body">First off, perfection is relative.....


What does all that other stuff mean, if they can't deal with the most important part of a relationship....monotony......

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oh dear.. sorry to hear that monotony is the most important pawt of relationships </div></div>


stap it.....yuh kno wat shi mean Keyer....

[kia027]

Re: Qwestian fi JA.com...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body">First off, perfection is relative.....


What does all that other stuff mean, if they can't deal with the most important part of a relationship....monotony......

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oh dear.. sorry to hear that monotony is the most important pawt of relationships </div></div>


stap it.....yuh kno wat shi mean Keyer....
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no cause fimi monogamy is farrrr from montonous

[DearK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

no cause fimi monogamy is farrrr from montonous </div></div>

Well done!