Qwestian fi JA.com...

**countryspeng** · 06-30-2008, 06:34 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Originally posted by TLC_30

First off, perfection is relative.....

What does all that other stuff mean, if they can't deal with the most important part of a relationship....monotony......

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oh dear.. sorry to hear that monotony is the most important pawt of relationships </div></div>

stap it.....yuh kno wat shi mean Keyer....
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no cause fimi monogamy is farrrr from montonous

monogamy falls in and out of monotony for me.....makes me ponder marriages that last 50 and 60 years....

being with one person for so long, brought new meaning to me of having "more to the relationship than sex" boy oh boy is that true

**countryspeng** · 06-30-2008, 07:04 PM

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weh everybaddy deh....

**Shine_Eye_Girl** · 06-30-2008, 07:09 PM

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monogamy

sorry...i'm bored at my job.....why yu haffi shame mi suh.....

**julie*mango** · 06-30-2008, 07:12 PM

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I couldn't be with someone who knowingly cheats on me...

**countryspeng** · 06-30-2008, 07:22 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly_n_Belly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I couldn't be with someone who knowingly cheats on me... </div></div>

no matter the positives....yu seh yu cyaan deh wid im if im a share out?

**julie*mango** · 06-30-2008, 07:24 PM

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only if it was jus a eff ting not smaddy mi deh wid

**countryspeng** · 06-30-2008, 07:26 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly_n_Belly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">only if it was jus a eff ting not smaddy mi deh wid </div></div>

no mi a tawk smaddy weh yu have deep emotional connection, smaddy weh yu si as yu ife pawtner and it come to di point where yu decide wat yu gonna put up with and wat yu nah guh in fa....

**julie*mango** · 06-30-2008, 07:30 PM

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well if is someone i have that deep connection with then i give myself to him 100% and expect the same from him..if him a bun mi I am not to know because I am jealous and have a serious temper....

**Nylah** · 06-30-2008, 07:36 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly_n_Belly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">only if it was jus a eff ting not smaddy mi deh wid </div></div>

no mi a tawk smaddy weh yu have deep emotional connection, smaddy weh yu si as yu ife pawtner and it come to di point where yu decide wat yu gonna put up with and wat yu nah guh in fa.... </div></div>

but if u have a deep emotional connection what is it that a "fling" gives you? is it just cuase u are bored with the *ehem* and want another flavour? and once that taste done, you can go back to your <span style="text-decoration: line-through">monotony</span> monogamy?

what happens if u develop feelings for the person that you are having a fling with? what happen then to the current relationship?

**countryspeng** · 06-30-2008, 07:40 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly_n_Belly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">only if it was jus a eff ting not smaddy mi deh wid </div></div>

no mi a tawk smaddy weh yu have deep emotional connection, smaddy weh yu si as yu ife pawtner and it come to di point where yu decide wat yu gonna put up with and wat yu nah guh in fa.... </div></div>

but if u have a deep emotional connection what is it that a "fling" gives you? is it just cuase u are bored with the *ehem* and want another flavour? and once that taste done, you can go back to your <span style="text-decoration: line-through">monotony</span> monogamy?

what happens if u develop feelings for the person that you are having a fling with? what happen then to the current relationship? </div></div>

well I fell victim to dat....where I developed FEELINGS for somebody I NEVER did nothing physical with..... and I can say that was the time that I thought something was lacking.... and I think that is WORSE dan the physical cheating...

**Nylah** · 06-30-2008, 07:44 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Originally posted by Skelly_n_Belly

only if it was jus a eff ting not smaddy mi deh wid </div></div>

no mi a tawk smaddy weh yu have deep emotional connection, smaddy weh yu si as yu ife pawtner and it come to di point where yu decide wat yu gonna put up with and wat yu nah guh in fa.... </div></div>

but if u have a deep emotional connection what is it that a "fling" gives you? is it just cuase u are bored with the *ehem* and want another flavour? and once that taste done, you can go back to your <span style="text-decoration: line-through">monotony</span> monogamy?

what happens if u develop feelings for the person that you are having a fling with? what happen then to the current relationship? </div></div>

well I fell victim to dat....where I developed FEELINGS for somebody I NEVER did nothing physical with..... and I can say that was the time that I thought something was lacking.... and I think that is WORSE dan the physical cheating...

there u go. for me as a woman, emotional cheating would hurt most.

plus, i have been the one that the guy has developed feelings for and that always puts you in the loser postion.

**countryspeng** · 06-30-2008, 07:52 PM

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Miserable_Speng</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Empress_Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Originally posted by Miserable_Speng

Originally posted by Skelly_n_Belly

only if it was jus a eff ting not smaddy mi deh wid </div></div>

no mi a tawk smaddy weh yu have deep emotional connection, smaddy weh yu si as yu ife pawtner and it come to di point where yu decide wat yu gonna put up with and wat yu nah guh in fa.... </div></div>

but if u have a deep emotional connection what is it that a "fling" gives you? is it just cuase u are bored with the *ehem* and want another flavour? and once that taste done, you can go back to your <span style="text-decoration: line-through">monotony</span> monogamy?

what happens if u develop feelings for the person that you are having a fling with? what happen then to the current relationship? </div></div>

well I fell victim to dat....where I developed FEELINGS for somebody I NEVER did nothing physical with..... and I can say that was the time that I thought something was lacking.... and I think that is WORSE dan the physical cheating...

there u go. for me as a woman, emotional cheating would hurt most.

plus, i have been the one that the guy has developed feelings for and that always puts you in the loser postion.

but mi naw talk about di emotional aspect of it, cah wi all kno dat <span style="font-weight: bold"> SOME GUYS </span> have the ability to have sex wid NO feelings, dat still doan mek it bearable even if him is di man of yu dreams in every other aspect?

**Nylah** · 06-30-2008, 07:56 PM

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okay, i am tired so forgive me in advance....

i think i am lost Speng cause i am not following what u are saying now?

**Nylah** · 06-30-2008, 08:21 PM

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i still am a bit confused but are you now saying.....actually I dont know really

**Bandana** · 06-30-2008, 08:24 PM

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*sigh* mek mi translate for the Miserable ones

He is saying if it was JUST SEX no emotion, would that make it better...

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