my friend who i know for a long time married to one chinese girl. they had a baby 5 months ago. anyways, his wife doesnt like ANY of his friends and "wont allow him" to hang out with his friends.(shes a lunatic with mental issues as far as im concern).
now there going to have a christning for the baby. he tells her he invited his brother and his wife. She flips out cuz "she doesnt like his brother"
she even influences his career goals. for example, he used to haul gasoline tankers for Petro Canada making $30 hr, except he had to work nite shifts and day shifts and overtime. She "didnt" want him doing that anymore (reason unknown) the guy had a WICKED pention plan.done-quit. now hes driving a Transit bus for way less money and he HATES it. today he told me hes making 35,000 a year less. he was making close to 100 grand ayear.
its like she want to pick his friends (i think she insecure),doesnt like his brother.
I told him today he need to fix this. NOW.
i told him that he need to tell her and REMIND her that my friends were around before i married you, AND my brother is my brother and she better cut out this almshouse bizniz. he need to tell her staight whether or not she like it. he said she probably end up divorce him. i tell him well then if that the case, she wasnt the one you should be with. such is such. he need to correct this-cuz whos next? his mother? she want to control everything.
if it was me i think at about this point, id be packing and going to a Provincial court and filing my papers. seriously, i wouldnt put up with it
now there going to have a christning for the baby. he tells her he invited his brother and his wife. She flips out cuz "she doesnt like his brother"

she even influences his career goals. for example, he used to haul gasoline tankers for Petro Canada making $30 hr, except he had to work nite shifts and day shifts and overtime. She "didnt" want him doing that anymore (reason unknown) the guy had a WICKED pention plan.done-quit. now hes driving a Transit bus for way less money and he HATES it. today he told me hes making 35,000 a year less. he was making close to 100 grand ayear.
its like she want to pick his friends (i think she insecure),doesnt like his brother.
I told him today he need to fix this. NOW.
i told him that he need to tell her and REMIND her that my friends were around before i married you, AND my brother is my brother and she better cut out this almshouse bizniz. he need to tell her staight whether or not she like it. he said she probably end up divorce him. i tell him well then if that the case, she wasnt the one you should be with. such is such. he need to correct this-cuz whos next? his mother? she want to control everything.
if it was me i think at about this point, id be packing and going to a Provincial court and filing my papers. seriously, i wouldnt put up with it
thats a goood point though
OR he might end up arrested, with a restraining order, evicted from his home, unable to see wife or child, in divorce court and paying alimony and child support. </span>
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