Suicide

[Gen]

Re: Suicide

Sue i *had* a friend like that, same one up top weh did try suicide. she was a nanny and dweet at the people dem house, but mi nuh know how accurate that is.

anyhoo, she sucked the life outa mi till mi couldnt dweet anymore mi juss tap chat to har. she cannot get ovah the fact that har parents nevah want her till this day, she is paralyzed by that and cannot move forward with har life.

one 2 minute phone call wid har leff me drained

[Suesumba]

Re: Suicide

Tek, it reminds me of the unhappy girls i knew in high school that would *cut* their wrists, but not just not deep enuff to bleed out. and then proudly display their war wounds.

not being cold hearted, because that kind of behaviour HAS to be coming from a sad place - but at the same time she either needs help from a professional or she really needs to kill herself.

[Bandana]

Re: Suicide

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BanDanna</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Thanks for all the replies.


I guess all I can do is be here for her when she needs me. I am just afraid she will not reach out to me in time.
She seems like she wants to close herself off from the world right now. It took a lot just for her to tell me what had happened...


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wasn't gonna say anything.

BUT

she took sleeping pills in a bout to supposedly kill herself. no ambulance was called, no stomach pumping.

THEN

she told you about this attempted suicide?

not to be mean, but i doubt there was any attempt in the first place and she's one of those emotional vampires that thrive on making others their emotional footstools and guilty consciences.

i'm more concerned for you at this point Bandanna. </div></div>


Sue



yah know I struggled with this for real...


The reason I get is I think that this is just a cry for attention, a &quot;poor me&quot; mindset that I just can't wrap my mind around... I don't handle it well at all...

But I had to stop and think of all the people out there who DO kill themselves...


The feelings start somewhere...



Being her friend for so long, and being right next door... I fell like I should help... somehow...

[Fyah]

Re: Suicide

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Tanya, it reminds me of the unhappy girls i knew in high school that would *cut* their wrists, but not just not deep enuff to bleed out. and then proudly display their war wounds.

not being cold hearted, because that kind of behaviour HAS to be coming from a sad place - but at the same time <span style="font-weight: bold">she either needs help from a professional or she really needs to kill herself.</span> </div></div>

Thank you!

So many people want to be a friend and do not really understand what that really mean and the toll someone's downloading can have on them.

I would not put myself in the position for someone with that depth of sadness to lean on, because all they would do is transfer their negative energy and leave me feeling like krap when they are finally successful. But then again, those never are.