The real issue

[Yvonne N.]

So there is this couple where the fella is the clean, spic-an-span one and the wifey is not as concerned.

He is the handyman, the chief bread-winner and the cleaning person.

She takes it easy.

How much of an issue is this...or this is not really the issue?

[CeaBee]

Re: The real issue

it's an issue if it's an issue to them. otherwise, not an issue to me

[Yvonne N.]

Re: The real issue

Mi asking because I have heard of folks getting divorced for stuff like this...curious...

[LusciousJohnson]

Re: The real issue

does shi at least cook for di man? or do laundry??

[ReggaeGirl2000]

Re: The real issue

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Shandra</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So there is this couple where the fella is the clean, spic-an-span one and the wifey is not as concerned.

He is the handyman, the chief bread-winner and the cleaning person.

She takes it easy.

How much of an issue is this...or this is not really the issue?



</div></div>

If it's an issue for HIM, then there is a problem, if him not bothered by it all, then no issue Personally, that is very one sided, mi nah eva live dat way!

[kingy]

Re: The real issue

she could never get any respect from me. or a hope she suck a good.....

[Kurlie]

Re: The real issue

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Shandra</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So there is this couple where the fella is the clean, spic-an-span one and the wifey is not as concerned.

He is the handyman, the chief bread-winner and the cleaning person.

She takes it easy.

How much of an issue is this...or this is not really the issue?



</div></div>

it works fi mi and di mister...so why mess up a good ting.

[nadzie22]

Re: The real issue

I personally think that whoever is the breadwinner the other one sould take care of cleanin up the houseand if both partners are workin they should both do their fair share in cleaning up and makin sure that the house is in a decent condition at all time it should not be left for any one person

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: The real issue

Without some sort of balance, there will be an issue......not my kind of living....

[Yvonne N.]

Re: The real issue

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Fancy</div><div class="ubbcode-body">does shi at least cook for di man? or do laundry?? </div></div>

Lovely personality from what mi see and hear... but ...no; she doesn't do stuff like that.

[Yvonne N.]

Re: The real issue

I don't have the full story but I have a feeling that she tends to think that she should not be working...period.

She's great with the kids...I have a feeling that she would prefer to be a SAHM.

[Yvonne N.]

Re: The real issue

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kingaling</div><div class="ubbcode-body">she could never get any respect from me. or a hope she suck a good..... </div></div>

Now... why meeda know dat?

Would that make the situation tolerable? in your opinion?

[Yvonne N.]

Re: The real issue

Mrs K:
You juss relax up eena di house? Explain ie to mi...

Please.

[Yvonne N.]

Re: The real issue

Nadzie, that's exactly what my source is reporting to me: teh unfairness.

The source feels that it noh fair and it seems to be getting strenuous because helper noh easy fi afford in foreign. Dem married lang time but helper used to tekk care ah tings in Ja.

Now dem deh ah farin, di imbalance ting rearing its ugly head.

[Yvonne N.]

Re: The real issue

Exactly Miss Badwerd...

Mi agree..but who gwine bell di cat..?