Black and White - sigh

[Kurlie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Badwerd_TLC_30</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Although I don't agree with everything that's written in the this of blog, I do enjoy reading them.

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and to me it get to point of 'who gives a damn' these blogs have a very short attention span

[seemiyah]

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I love reading peoples blogs, it is thier personal diary for the public view an mi faas bad!

Anyway when I read stories/articles on this topic I get the feeling that the black woman are trying to let people know that their reason for being with a white man are not the same as the black men who wont date a black woman because - insert negative stereotype here - and date white women because - insert positive stereotype here. No, they <span style="font-style: italic">love </span>black men and <span style="font-style: italic">wanted </span>a black man, blah blah blah they just couldn't find one and they not with the white man because of any self hate.....blah blah blah and dem just waan mek sure everybody know it. Di end.

[julie*mango]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
these blogs just strike me as a bit militant with nothing to be militant about. </div></div>

precisely...if I want to date another man outside my race I don't need to provide a whole host of reasons as to why...I love the guy and he loves me and thats all that should matter..nuh so?

[Kurlie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skells</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
these blogs just strike me as a bit militant with nothing to be militant about. </div></div>

precisely...if I want to date another man outside my race I don't need to provide a whole host of reasons as to why...I love the guy and he loves me and thats all that should matter..nuh so? </div></div>

same so

[Nylah]

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<span style="font-weight: bold">these blogs just strike me as a bit militant with nothing to be militant about.</span>



I've dated outside of my so-called race and dont feel the least bit of need to justify it to anyone: family, friends, or complete strangers.

[seemiyah]

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start a blog so mi can read bout it nuh...

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: seemiyah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">start a blog so mi can read bout it nuh... </div></div>

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I've dated outside of my so-called race and dont feel the least bit of need to justify it to anyone: family, friends, or complete strangers.
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I've never dated outside of my race, but mi too shame fi reveal why.....

Nuh badda ask mi why needa

[Ja. Jewel]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">here's another one.



I married a white man and am now triumphant!

it almost seems like there's a war on between black man and women on the relationship front. well, to listen to some it would seem that way.


~~~ sigh ~~~

<span style="font-style: italic"> mi betta tankful fi di likkle piece a wan mi have even though his butt is now fused to the sofa</span> </div></div>

Where is Tropicana to see this link about many white men who are &quot;nonsuperficial&quot; enough to just LOVE someone for what kind of person they are, instead of what they look like or what they &quot;have&quot;.....I agree that this type of thinking is unusual in good ole US, whose minds have been brain-washed by the media into persuing the elusive &quot;dream&quot; women!

[Nylah]

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I have no idea what to do with your above statement

I just have no patience for chicks like her than need to get on a soapbox to explain themselves. I wont explain myself for nobody cause it is my damn life.

when u control my happiness then I will live my life according to what you want.

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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[Ja. Jewel]

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I AM NOT SAYING THAT BLACK WOMEN ARE &quot;UNATTRACTIVE&quot;, merely saying that SOME men are able to look beyond what &quot;society&quot; has programmed them to think is beauty!

[Nylah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Ja. Jewel</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I AM NOT SAYING THAT BLACK WOMEN ARE &quot;UNATTRACTIVE&quot;, merely saying that SOME men are able to look beyond what &quot;society&quot; has programmed them to think is beauty! </div></div>


hush

I understood you

[Ja. Jewel]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Ja. Jewel</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">here's another one.



I married a white man and am now triumphant!

it almost seems like there's a war on between black man and women on the relationship front. well, to listen to some it would seem that way.


~~~ sigh ~~~

<span style="font-style: italic"> mi betta tankful fi di likkle piece a wan mi have even though his butt is now fused to the sofa</span> </div></div>

Where is Tropicana to see this link about many white men who are &quot;nonsuperficial&quot; enough to just LOVE someone for what kind of person they are, instead of what they look like or what they &quot;have&quot;.....I agree that this type of thinking is unusual in good ole US, whose minds have been brain-washed by the media into persuing the elusive &quot;dream&quot; women! </div></div>

Those &quot;dream&quot; women are the ones who are tall with big boobs and long blonde hair....the American ideal that men have been programmed from birth to think attractive by the media!

[Ja. Jewel]

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SO much of the media hype that has programmed both Black &amp; White American men, when it comes to their &quot;ideal&quot; woman, comes from trying to promote products that can &quot;create&quot; that &quot;look&quot; in women....hair products, skin products, ever young products, diet products, hair-removing products...alla dem!...it's a $$$ ting, part of the economy of the good ole USA!...tink pon ie!