Dear Pastor,
It's a pleasure for me to write to you. I read in the paper how you have solved many problems, so I hope you can help with mine.
I am 23 and involved with a man who is 65. He is very caring. He does everything for me and is sending me to school. He cares for my family, too, because whatever he gives to me, he tells me I can share it with my mother. I get money from him to buy what I want and also gives me money to buy groceries. In addition, he goes out and buys what he wants. He eats a lot of fish and cooks most of the times.
When I come home from school, I don't have to worry about the cooking. One thing he doesn't like to do is clean the house but, whenever he takes his shower he cleans the bathroom.
Pastor, I used to have a boyfriend but stopped because I wasn't getting anything from him. Whenever we met, all he wanted was sex.
When I met this man, he asked if I had a boyfriend and I told him yes. He asked me what he was doing for me. I told him nothing. He told me whatever my boyfriend was doing for me, he could do that, and more. I stopped seeing my boyfriend and took on this man, but I did not leave home.
One day he came to my house and asked my mother if he could have me. My mother told him he was too old for me, but the both of them went aside and talked. My mother asked me if I wanted to be friendly with him. I told her I would try him.
This man is more than I expected, but he lost pure his teeth in his mouth. When we are having sex he takes out his dentures. It is pure gum I am dealing with. At first, I tried to get him to keep them in, but he doesn't pay me any mind. He doesn't look attractive without his dentures and he can't talk well without them.
I can't open my eyes and look at him when we are kissing. I wonder if something can happen to me by kissing a man, I mean real kissing a man without teeth.
This man is a good lover. I have my own bank account. When he goes away, he buys me nice clothes and expensive underwear.
I was ill for about a week and had to stay home. He washed every piece of my clothes. When my mother came by to do the washing, it was only bed linens that were left to wash.
Pastor, what do you think about this man? We don't have sex often, but whenever we have sex, I enjoy it. He was married but he is divorced and does not have children. He has his own house and a nice SUV. I will be looking in the paper to see your response.
L.F
Dear L.F.,
I can see that you love this man very much. Some people would say you are very fortunate. You are a little concerned, not because this man wears dentures, but because he takes them out whenever you are making love. By now you should get accustomed to it. Perhaps you should discuss your concerns with a dentist.
I can tell you, for sure, this is a good man and there aren't many like him around. He is sending you to school and he provides all you need. Perhaps you should really hold on to him, with all your might. Your mother was concerned about his age but, evidently, she is not worried anymore about it, neither are you. I wish both of you well and I hope you would treat this man well. You should get married. Don't allow any young dude to get between the both of you.
Pastor
It's a pleasure for me to write to you. I read in the paper how you have solved many problems, so I hope you can help with mine.
I am 23 and involved with a man who is 65. He is very caring. He does everything for me and is sending me to school. He cares for my family, too, because whatever he gives to me, he tells me I can share it with my mother. I get money from him to buy what I want and also gives me money to buy groceries. In addition, he goes out and buys what he wants. He eats a lot of fish and cooks most of the times.
When I come home from school, I don't have to worry about the cooking. One thing he doesn't like to do is clean the house but, whenever he takes his shower he cleans the bathroom.
Pastor, I used to have a boyfriend but stopped because I wasn't getting anything from him. Whenever we met, all he wanted was sex.
When I met this man, he asked if I had a boyfriend and I told him yes. He asked me what he was doing for me. I told him nothing. He told me whatever my boyfriend was doing for me, he could do that, and more. I stopped seeing my boyfriend and took on this man, but I did not leave home.
One day he came to my house and asked my mother if he could have me. My mother told him he was too old for me, but the both of them went aside and talked. My mother asked me if I wanted to be friendly with him. I told her I would try him.
This man is more than I expected, but he lost pure his teeth in his mouth. When we are having sex he takes out his dentures. It is pure gum I am dealing with. At first, I tried to get him to keep them in, but he doesn't pay me any mind. He doesn't look attractive without his dentures and he can't talk well without them.
I can't open my eyes and look at him when we are kissing. I wonder if something can happen to me by kissing a man, I mean real kissing a man without teeth.
This man is a good lover. I have my own bank account. When he goes away, he buys me nice clothes and expensive underwear.
I was ill for about a week and had to stay home. He washed every piece of my clothes. When my mother came by to do the washing, it was only bed linens that were left to wash.
Pastor, what do you think about this man? We don't have sex often, but whenever we have sex, I enjoy it. He was married but he is divorced and does not have children. He has his own house and a nice SUV. I will be looking in the paper to see your response.
L.F
Dear L.F.,
I can see that you love this man very much. Some people would say you are very fortunate. You are a little concerned, not because this man wears dentures, but because he takes them out whenever you are making love. By now you should get accustomed to it. Perhaps you should discuss your concerns with a dentist.
I can tell you, for sure, this is a good man and there aren't many like him around. He is sending you to school and he provides all you need. Perhaps you should really hold on to him, with all your might. Your mother was concerned about his age but, evidently, she is not worried anymore about it, neither are you. I wish both of you well and I hope you would treat this man well. You should get married. Don't allow any young dude to get between the both of you.
Pastor
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