Promise but never deliver until...

[Yvonne N.]

the wedding nite.

Does that feeling/saying/adage/concept/belief/argument still hold true? or was it ever true?

Does the game really swing in his favour once you have had (unmarried) sex?

[julie*mango]

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personally, I believe in taking a car for a test drive before buying it...couldn't stay married to someone who disappoints me in bed


don't know if the game swings in his favor...depends on the individual's attitude towards sex, self esteem, etc

[Yvonne N.]

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Denn is how di place so quiet...?


I'm hearing you Skelly...
but
today I asked some students for their opinion on this issue and the boys claimed that they wanted something brand new on their wedding day. They actually said, "something fresh"...

What then do we tell our girls?

[julie*mango]

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something fresh


well it is easy for a guy to say that...its not hard for them to enjoy sex with a woman...even those with the most undesrable equipment...

[KgnJa69]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Shandra</div><div class="ubbcode-body">What then do we tell our girls? </div></div>
How about... Keeping it fresh

[Yvonne N.]

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Scarface...stap dat! What shall we tell our girls?

Seriously, what's the new plan?

[kia027]

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lets think about what would be fresh on the wedding day..
i guess if you did everything but the actual penetration it would qualify as 'fresh' because the prize is still 'untouched'

so it could be said that women could have a fair view of what is to be without the actual penetration

[Yvonne N.]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">lets think about what would be fresh on the wedding day..
i guess if you did everything but the actual penetration it would qualify as 'fresh' because the prize is still 'untouched'

so it could be said that women could have a <span style="font-size: 14pt"><span style="font-weight: bold">fair view</span></span> of what is to be without the actual penetration

</div></div>

That sounds realistic ...

and reasonable for these times...

[julie*mango]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">lets think about what would be fresh on the wedding day..
i guess if you did everything but the actual penetration it would qualify as 'fresh' because the prize is still 'untouched'


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they way you just said it solidifies my belief that virginity is just a man's bragging rights to say he was the first one to &quot;conquer&quot;...kind of like caveman chauvinism...

[Fyah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Shandra</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">lets think about what would be fresh on the wedding day..
i guess if you did everything but the actual penetration it would qualify as 'fresh' because the prize is still 'untouched'

so it could be said that women could have a <span style="font-size: 14pt"><span style="font-weight: bold">fair view</span></span> of what is to be without the actual penetration

</div></div>

That sounds realistic ...

and reasonable for these times... </div></div>

That should be made MANDATORY.

[Fyah]

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In the world of crickets

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Although genetically programmed to play a particular song, male crickets can determine when, where and how loud to play.

A successful male attracts a female of his species, mates and passes his genes on to the next generation. But in an insect version of fatal attraction, he may attract a completely different kind of female. This female is looking not for sex, but a place to lay her eggs.

She’s a parasitic fly of the genus Ormia. Once she’s found a male cricket, Ormia lays an egg. The developing maggot burrows into the male and grows, eventually eating him from the inside out. Ormia is a true fly, the size of a house fly and related to mosquitoes.

In a sense, a female Ormia has the same goal as the female cricket, to hear and home in on a male cricket. In places where the parasitic flies and crickets coincide, cricket evolution must balance the desirability of mating with the fatal possibility of becoming a meal for a growing fly maggot.

The males try to sing only when the flies are least active, during the hours of darkness. This way they attract female crickets and mostly avoid attracting female Ormia flies. </div></div>

[St_Bess]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">lets think about what would be fresh on the wedding day..
i guess if you did everything but the actual penetration it would qualify as 'fresh' because the prize is still 'untouched'


</div></div>

they way you just said it solidifies my belief that virginity is just a man's bragging rights to say he was the first one to &quot;conquer&quot;...kind of like caveman chauvinism... </div></div>


Aye Skells you are so right. Can you imagine getting married and going on your honeymoon and after all the &quot;feel-up, touch up, suck face&quot; over the many months or years de man caan perform, de wooman can lay back but the man have to rise to the occasion and 'stay up'. Would frustrate the wooman to no end. I believe that it is either total abstinence(sp) especially those who believe that it is a sin to partake before marriage then both parties would be without experience on their honeymoon. Let's face it alot of people talk the talk but they don't practice what they preach.

[Diplomat]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">lets think about what would be fresh on the wedding day..
i guess if you did everything but the actual penetration it would qualify as 'fresh' because the prize is still 'untouched'
</div></div>
they way you just said it solidifies my belief that virginity is just a man's bragging rights to say he was the first one to &quot;conquer&quot;...kind of like caveman chauvinism... </div></div>
So it (her virginity) doesn't mean anything to the female?

[Yvonne N.]

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When we were growing up we were held to strict moral codes by our parents, peers and potential mates...plus...we di frade.


Yes,St. Bess, some people do practice what they preach.


Nowadays, there's hardly a code and those with one are made to feel <span style="font-style: italic">less cool</span>...we're not even pretending...so where are we headed?

[St_Bess]

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Right you are Shandra but everything has changed for the worst. Aye sah I remember me fren did get pregnant in high school and the nuns knew and asked her to leave but she said she was not pregnant and stayed until she took her GCE exams. That child is her only child - I believe she is on her 4th husband.(She is only 16 years older than him. He is now a lawyer and her pride and joy). It was a big disgrace in those days to have children without being married but now like hollywood stars it is the norm. I was reading a jehova witness tract this morning and it speaks about the break down of morality among other things. Even christians nowadays having sex without the benefit of marriage - in the old days that was fornication.