What the heck goes wrong

[Bizzy]

so dunno if unu memba likkle ova a year ago mi post inna style say mi was a help mi fren man wid ideas on rings caw him was gwaan propose..

anyways, dem did en up married mid nov 2007

and mi call my friend early this month fi ask what shi plannin on doing fi her anniversary an how it feel after 1 year an ray ray.

my girl tell mi say dem lef from inna september

i mean, mi jus nuh get it..

de ppl dem deh from mi inna high school..nearly 10 year now..ahve 2 kids..and dem married an few month later a divorce

an is not dem alone mi hear weh gwan wid dem ting deh..

but mi cyaan unnastan how dem sitten deh can gwaan
is wah bout marriage so?

[MarieK]

Re: What the heck goes wrong

smaddy wenna pretend fi get di ring now ring has been gotten chroo colors a come out anyway i wouldn't advise anyone to make the decision to separate in teh first three years of marriage those are the hardest to deal with

[Bizzy]

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true colors after living together 8 yrs and having 3 kids a deal wid

mi cyaan gree wid dat one..

u can explain u 3 yr ting dowe...soun intresting

[Kurlie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_Q</div><div class="ubbcode-body">true colors after living together 8 yrs and having 3 kids a deal wid

mi cyaan gree wid dat one..

u can explain u 3 yr ting dowe...soun intresting </div></div>

mi nuh agree wid the true color ting too..after so much years..no sah...Bizi you hafi talk to her and hear fi har story.

[ILP]

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is one ting fi &quot;date&quot; samddy.
one whole neddah ting fi married ahn live wid dem.

you see dem as dem is ahn sometimes it just aint pretty.

[Bizzy]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Hibern8ting_ILP</div><div class="ubbcode-body">is one ting fi &quot;date&quot; samddy.
one whole neddah ting fi married ahn live wid dem.

you see dem as dem is ahn sometimes it just aint pretty. </div></div>

maybe i didn't word the post right.


they are/were not dating.

dem deh from 1999 an live tigedda from 2000. him mine de pikney shi had an dem mek 2 others since then..
dem married last yr and dem separate september gone

[ILP]

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oh...

then you need fi go inquire wah really happen then.

[Bizzy]

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Mi talk to har last night..

caw shi call mi from friday say she having a divorce celebration satdeh an shi waan mi come heng out an party wid har..

so last night wi a talk an mi ask har is wah happen mek dem lef...cause truss mi when mi say dem been troo nuff

to make a long story short...de man cheat an probly been cheating for a while now..but shi jus a get de evidence an he admit it an den get bex wid har an a say a good fi har an shi wooden know if shi neva so faas

[kia027]

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dat one I cant fathom.. something more to the story... the ring &amp; wedding may have been the 'save' he was trying to mek?

[Kurlie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_Q</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Mi talk to har last night..

caw shi call mi from friday say she having a divorce celebration satdeh an shi waan mi come heng out an party wid har..

so last night wi a talk an mi ask har is wah happen mek dem lef...cause truss mi when mi say dem been troo nuff

to make a long story short...de man cheat an probly been cheating for a while now..but shi jus a get de evidence an he admit it an den get bex wid har an a say a good fi har an shi wooden know if shi neva so faas </div></div>

lef him [censored] yes and she shoulda babbit him before she left too

[Bizzy]

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but even if him was cheatin long time why bother wit marriage..

an if as u say de ring ting was fi save de relationship...den him shooda quit the bun ting an calm himself one him married.

what a waste

[ILP]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_Q</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but even if him was cheatin long time why bother wit marriage..

an if as u say de ring ting was fi save de relationship...den him shooda quit the bun ting an calm himself one him married.

<span style="font-weight: bold">what a waste</span> </div></div>

yup.

[Bizzy]

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messed up thing is dat mi used to always a tek up feem (de man) an feel sorry feem when mi fren a call an a tell mi de drama or complain bout him..

[Nunya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_Q</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
to make a long story short...de man cheat an probly been cheating for a while now..but shi jus a get de evidence an he admit it an den get bex wid har an a say a good fi har an shi wooden know if shi neva so faas </div></div>

Familiarity breeds contempt.

btw, ho much dem did deh an lef, deh an lef since HS?

[seemiyah]

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I think its very psychological, it don't matter how long they were together once you get married you stop turn a blind eye to things and she probably had all the clues beforehand but believe once the relationship was &quot;official&quot; then all that would stop, but a no so it go. I think that is why you see that happen to some people who are together forever den mash up once dem married cause dem tink it would put a stop to all the crap dem was putting up with before.