Sterotypes...mind killers!

[new2Xaymaca]

Hi all, i'm new on this site...well, i live in london and i've been around for 5 good years...i've met some Jamaican ppl, but there's always this damned cultural barrier built with i-don't-know-where-they're-coming-from stereotypes which prevent us to get on...they say that human beings are raised to be afraid of what they don't know...well, either i'm not a human being or i've got something wrong in my head, because i want to know more about how to respect and treat well jamaican ppl, especially ladies, cos there's no reason why i wouldn't...besides, there's that exquisite Jamaican girl...well educated, eloquent, simple yet tremendously attractive...i want to befriend her, but a friend of mine tells me i'm going right in the wall...well, don't care, at least i'll check out the painting of the wall...anyway, what's the psychlogy driving a Jamaican demoiselle (french for Miss).
Maybe someone has already answered this kind of subject, if so, just give me the thread. thanx.

new2Xaymaca

ps: my origin: i'm a black african, but i've got at least 5 nationalities in my blood!!! soooo mixed, yet still have a dark skin...

[Nylah]

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well, this can go either one of two ways....let's see what happens.

[diabolical_Tanya]

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What is your usual approach to a lady?

[ILP]

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hello.
dont have any answers for you, but just came to welcome you.
smaddy soon come fi ansa you.

[Bizzy]

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you can start out by posting ur pic so we can see who we talking to..

plus dat can help us jcan ladies figure out if de jcan miss u pursuing will give u de time of day ..

so come wid it so we can continue

[new2Xaymaca]

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usually there has to be some common ground, a place where we meet but we don't necessarily need to know each other...i'm a kind of a discreet guy who takes his time studying the girl before making a move, cos i don't like short relationships, i don't even know how to start one of those!
but most of my female friends tell me that i look very intriguing, like someone they would really like to approach, but the look in my eyes is very intimidating...that's not good, isn't it!!!!

[ILP]

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intriguing, eeh?

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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Please keep it coming

[new2Xaymaca]

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well i have 2 be careful, i speak french as well, i might mix the meanings! lol...so let me be more specific by what i mean by intriguing: inviting yet somehow a bit scary...a friend of mine told me that there's a kind of penetrating light in my eyes, but when i gaze at her, she doesn't know if i'm happy or angry! lol! well when i'm walking in the street i'm quite serious, focused, but i can be quite cheerful, but only when i'm comfortable with the person...YET, when it is a stranger, it is hard for me to have a more welcoming look, unless like last time my Jamaican demoiselle caught me watching her with a very soft look...i didn't want her to see that! not at that time!!!

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: new2Xaymaca</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...besides, there's that exquisite Jamaican girl...well educated, eloquent, simple yet tremendously attractive...i want to befriend her, but a friend of mine tells me i'm going right in the wall...... </div></div>

he's right. the educated, exquisite, eloquent, simple yet tremendously attractive jamaican girl is not a woman. she's a beast from hell and unlike any other woman on the planet. avoid her at all costs.

i'm sure there's a nice white man who can see her worth as a person and treat her better than you would ever be able to. let her be.

she simply doesn't deserve you. this way you can spend all your days complaining how all the &quot;nice sistas&quot; don't deal wid black man agen.

kindest regards

[ILP]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: new2Xaymaca</div><div class="ubbcode-body">well i have 2 be careful, i speak french as well, i might mix the meanings! lol...so let me be more specific by what i mean by intriguing: inviting yet somehow a bit scary...a friend of mine told me that there's a kind of penetrating light in my eyes, but when i gaze at her, she doesn't know if i'm happy or angry! lol! well when i'm walking in the street i'm quite serious, focused, but i can be quite cheerful, but only when i'm comfortable with the person...YET, when it is a stranger, it is hard for me to have a more welcoming look, unless like last time my Jamaican demoiselle caught me watching her with a very soft look...i didn't want her to see that! not at that time!!! </div></div>

so why not live a little and let di Jamaican demoiselle see the penetrating light in your eyes

[Suesumba]

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i'm forgetting my manners. welcome to the board.

[Gen]

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den sue how yuh know him nuh casion

[kia027]

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new2Xaymaca welcome to the boards.

what is your heritage and do you have any pictures to share and we can provide an assessment as to why she may feel intimidated by you.

are you tall, short, are you studying at university or are you working?

[Gen]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
well, this can go either one of two ways....let's see what happens. </div></div>

dwl