When your friend call

[Fyah]

Re: When your friend call

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: RichD</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yuh si most time it come down to are they <span style="font-weight: bold">prepared to walk or not</span>..if dem not prepared to walk den no matter what dem haffi work it out..and before you give any advice you have to mek sure you understand if dem ready to walk or not. Nuttin worse dan tellin dem dat if it was you yuh gone and dem in a postion dat dem dont want to (or feel they cant ) me dat move. </div></div>

I don't know anyone who is ever &quot;ready&quot; to walk. The whole thing is such a psychological drama. It is a process that one has to really plan and execute.

[Fyah]

Re: When your friend call

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Boopie2</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-weight: bold">Better to just listen,</span> I have a friend who has been in the same mess fpr several years now. </div></div>

I agree. Unless s/he ask me for advice, I would only be there to hear them out and make myself available each time s/he wants to talk.

Sometimes the last thing friends want from us is &quot;advice&quot;.