Friends after being in love

[Emperah]

Re: Friends after being in love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yup </div></div>

so if she feels to come chat to you about her new found love or sex life, you have no problem listening to all of it and giving advice? </div></div>

bin dere done dat.

[Emperah]

Re: Friends after being in love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i c

but wait, that isnt a friend that is a buddy partner </div></div>

no is juss a buddy

[Nylah]

Re: Friends after being in love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yup </div></div>

so if she feels to come chat to you about her new found love or sex life, you have no problem listening to all of it and giving advice? </div></div>

bin dere done dat. </div></div>

bin dere done dat isnt an answer really.

Are you doing it because you want to be a bigger person, or do you really feel comfortable with it and look on them as a friend?

[Bizzy]

Re: Friends after being in love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">yup </div></div>

so if she feels to come chat to you about her new found love or sex life, you have no problem listening to all of it and giving advice? </div></div>

my ex know nuff a my bizniz...mi nuh go inna de sex part wid him caw dat nuh necessary.

he don't gimi no advice an mi nuh ask fi none, but mi can vent an him can vent as him pls an we jus listen to one annedda then move on to the next subject.

Mi no emotionally tied to none a dem an when time mi single dem come in very handy if dem available as well

[Emperah]

Re: Friends after being in love

if I didn't want to do it I wouldn't. if i ws uncomfortable wid it I'd tell dem so. For some reason mi always a council ppl, even de ex dem sometime.
I am quite comfortable in dat roll, we are not tuhgeddah fi a reason.

[Bizzy]

Re: Friends after being in love

u right caw when mi si him, no long talkin naw gwaan i wonda weh him up to nowadays

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i c

but wait, that isnt a friend that is a buddy partner </div></div>

[Nylah]

Re: Friends after being in love


okay

[Bizzy]

Re: Friends after being in love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">if I didn't want to do it I wouldn't. if i ws uncomfortable wid it I'd tell dem so. For some reason mi always a council ppl, even de ex dem sometime.
I am quite comfortable in dat roll, we are not tuhgeddah fi a reason. </div></div>

[Emperah]

Re: Friends after being in love

[Nylah]

Re: Friends after being in love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_Q</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: dahJahPawtTwo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">if I didn't want to do it I wouldn't. if i ws uncomfortable wid it I'd tell dem so. For some reason mi always a council ppl, even de ex dem sometime.
I am quite comfortable in dat roll, we are not tuhgeddah fi a reason. </div></div>




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a litttle to altruistic for me but i am not dahJah

[Bizzy]

Re: Friends after being in love

unu can cancel mi argument dem

caw mi jus a si dat dis topic say after being in love...

[Nylah]

Re: Friends after being in love

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Bizi_Q</div><div class="ubbcode-body">unu can cancel mi argument dem

caw mi jus a si dat dis topic say after being in love...

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so that changes the equation for you?

[Bizzy]

Re: Friends after being in love

Yes caw de one *I* was in love wid was de wukka man :whistle* an mi nuh tink mi would call him fi advice or fi vent..

The other one weh did inlove w/me, a de one mi can talk to bout love n life n BS

[Nylah]

Re: Friends after being in love


ah. So it depends a little on who left who as to what is comfortable

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Friends after being in love

one guy I broke up with, we were friends, best friends before we had gotten together. When we were friends we used to talk about everything.

When we broke up we never spoke for a whole year. Then just by chance we ran into each other and started talking again.

we would hang out just as friends and talk about everything just like we had before, when we were just friends.

Then we decided to try again......dat neva work

So we decided it's best to just cut off all contact.

I still miss him as a friend. And when something big happens in my life today, he is the first one I want to share it with

ahhhhh water under the bridge......