Very Interesting

[diabolical_Tanya]

Mi juss buck dis up on another Jamaican forum similar to Ja.com


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Long-term Relationship (no, seriously)

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I am a very busy professional and don't have time to go out a lot to find that certain someone. I'm always online because of my profession so online is where I bump into a JamCan man (from chatrooms and networking websites) in my city. If I talk to them on the phone for a few weeks and their ethics and morals are inline with mine, I'll agree to meet them in a coffee shop, midday, to talk face-to-face. Always, we don't click face-to-face or I discover they are a jerk or lied about something and the union is ended by me immediately.

People think I am a very religious Christian because of my views on marriage and long-term relationships but I am not. I believe in God, but I am more spiritual than religious. I have found balance in every area of my life.

Dating someone outside my culture is not an option (my comfort lies with Jamaican people). Sadly, the Jamaican men I encounter are lacking in many areas such as ambition, honesty, family-values, ethics, morals and just knowing how to treat a good woman right. (I can see now why more and more black women are choosing white men over black men). I know many people will have strong views on this topic because I am very passionate about it as well. I value your feedback and if you're a single black male, living in or around Toronto, here are my stats:




I am:
34 y/o
Single/never married
5'6
Thick-curvy
Great sense of humor
average looks
Medium brown complexion
Jamaican-born
Living in North York/Toronto (for 29 years)
Have one daughter (16), wish to be married and have more children in the future (with the right person)
Very intelligent/Quick witted
He is:
My equal counter-part
Single
Above 5'11
Medium complexion
Humorous, ambitious, family and goal oriented
Looking for a LTR/marriage with the right 'woman'
Not into mind games
Living in or around Toronto/Ontario/Canada
Has no baby mama drama or emotional baggage
Someone who wants a happy life and future
Not shallow or materialistic
Someone who will pay attention to my mind, heart and soul and my body (in that order)
Sensitive, thoughtful and kind
Are sensual and affectionate
Love kids and want more in the future
From another Caribbean country (maybe)
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[Boricua_papi]

Re: Very Interesting

Above 5'11&quot;?



She wi end up alone but at leas shi have har standards.

[Bizzy]

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u thinkin what i'm thinkin

veddy intrestin indeed

[Boricua_papi]

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A tropicana personal ad?

[Gen]

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medium complexion? what dat look like

po ting

[ILP]

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mi haffi find these other sites fi real...

at least di smaddy consistant

[tsophra]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">medium complexion? what dat look like

po ting </div></div>

a dat me a wanda to..bway she specific..

[UKBlackLady]

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Naw man is nat she. Didn't Trops have <span style="font-weight: bold">a son </span>and is <span style="font-weight: bold">divorced</span>?

Well even if it is her, at least it shows consistency! She knows what she wants and doesn't sway from that.

[Suesumba]

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LOL at curvy

[Boricua_papi]

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curvy = fat

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: B_P</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

A tropicana personal ad? </div></div>



BOAL.....

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: B_P</div><div class="ubbcode-body">curvy = fat </div></div>

no it equals 5'0 and 200 lbs on the internet

[Tropicana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: YuhSiMi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Naw man is nat she. Didn't Trops have <span style="font-weight: bold">a son </span>and is <span style="font-weight: bold">divorced</span>?

Well even if it is her, at least it shows consistency! She knows what she wants and doesn't sway from that. </div></div>

Well at least SOMEBODY is paying attention....any you're right, I know what I want and I don't sway from that.

Alas, sorry to disappoint some of you but the ad is not mine. Here are the disconnects.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I am a very busy professional and don't have time to go out a lot to find that certain someone. I'm always online because of my profession so online is where I bump into a JamCan man (from chatrooms and networking websites) in my city. </div></div>

The only place I run into JamCan men on-line is here and there aren't very men.


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If I talk to them on the phone for a few weeks </div></div>

NO WAY would I speak to someone on the phone for a few weeks before meeting. Been there, done that and it's a waste of time. If there is interest, you meet PERIOD!

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and their ethics and morals are inline with mine, I'll agree to meet them in a coffee shop, midday, to talk face-to-face. Always, we don't click face-to-face or I discover they are a jerk or lied about something and the union is ended by me immediately. </div></div>

Naw this doesn't ring true for me, they usually take about a week to morph
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People think I am a very religious Christian because of my views on marriage and long-term relationships but I am not. </div></div> I am

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> I believe in God, but I am more spiritual than religious. I have found balance in every area of my life. </div></div>

Nope not me

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Dating someone outside my culture is not an option (my comfort lies with Jamaican people). </div></div>

I have no preferences with respect to racial our cultural background. There aren't enough Black Jamaican men to go around. Period. <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Sadly, the Jamaican men I encounter are lacking in many areas such as ambition, honesty, family-values, ethics, morals and just knowing how to treat a good woman right. (I can see now why more and more black women are choosing white men over black men). </div></div>

Not going to touch that one with a 10 foot pole. But wait, isn't this supposed to be a personal ad to ATTRACT men. It sounds very negative.


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> I know many people will have strong views on this topic because I am very passionate about it as well. I value your feedback and if you're a single black male, living in or around Toronto, here are my stats: </div></div>

I am:

Single/never married <span style="font-weight: bold"> Divorced </span>
5'6 <span style="font-weight: bold"> Not 5'6&quot;</span>
Thick-curvy <span style="font-weight: bold">Not thick-curvy </span>
Great sense of humor <span style="font-weight: bold"> check</span>
Medium brown complexion <span style="font-weight: bold">Don't understand </span>
Jamaican-born <span style="font-weight: bold">check </span>
Living in North York/Toronto (for 29 years) <span style="font-weight: bold">I have never lived in North York </span>
Have one daughter (16), wish to be married and have more children in the future (with the right person) <span style="font-weight: bold">have 1 son, I have been married and I don't want more children </span>
Very intelligent/Quick witted <span style="font-weight: bold"> Oh yes baby I am too</span>

He is:
My equal counter-part <span style="font-weight: bold">you mean he can't spell either </span>
Single <span style="font-weight: bold">or divorced or widowed </span>
Above 5'11 <span style="font-weight: bold"> you mean taller than don't you and no I don't insist on that </span>
Medium complexion <span style="font-weight: bold">irrelevant </span>

This is too long and boring..mi done

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Humorous, ambitious, family and goal oriented
Looking for a LTR/marriage with the right 'woman'
Not into mind games
Living in or around Toronto/Ontario/Canada
Has no baby mama drama or emotional baggage
Someone who wants a happy life and future
Not shallow or materialistic
Someone who will pay attention to my mind, heart and soul and my body (in that order)
Sensitive, thoughtful and kind
Are sensual and affectionate
Love kids and want more in the future
From another Caribbean country (maybe)
</div></div>

[Tropicana]

Re: Very Interesting

Speaking of personal ads, did you see this:

http://ca.yahoo.com/s/833973

and this is here website:

52 Weeks to Find Him

This is what she is looking for:

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Neenah: I'm not looking for perfection.


So, what kinda man she lookin' for?



Neenah: I think I'm looking for a guy who is clever, witty, street-smart, nice to his mother, doesn't sweat the small stuff, prays every day, doesn't mind asking for help.


But how handsome should he be?



Neenah: Although I don't find every man I meet physically attractive, I don't think I have a physical type. The basics would be he's between 38 - 52 years old, Taller than my 5'2&quot; frame. And an average build and I'm open to a all ethnicities.


What other qualities does he have?


Neenah: I'd like to meet someone who is a Christian. Someone who looks for opportunities to laugh and be a little silly. Someone who is ready to pursue a committed relationship.
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She even has an application form for the men to fill in:

How to arrange a date for yourself or set Neenah up on a blind date!

http://www.52weeks2findhim.com/men.html

No one could ever accuse her of not being creative.

[QK13]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Gen</div><div class="ubbcode-body">medium complexion? what dat look like

po ting </div></div>

medium = psychic

Maybe kind of like the ghost whisperer??