Moral dilemma......to be Cuckolded or Philandered??

[franksterr]

Based on bluegaint thread "can't please my wife"

1. All other things being the same.......If for some medical reason or other etc you are no longer capable of sexually pleasing your spouse, would you stay married whilst allowing your mate to the seek sexual fulfillment elsewhere?

Or

2. All other things being the same, Would you cheat (or have permitted sex outside the marriage) on a spouse who can no longer satisfy your sexual needs?

[DearK]

Based on bluegaint thread "can't please my wife"

1. All other things being the same.......If for some medical reason or other etc you are no longer capable of sexually pleasing your spouse, would you stay married whilst allowing your mate to the seek sexual fulfillment elsewhere?

Or

2. All other things being the same, Would you cheat (or have permitted sex outside the marriage) on a spouse who can no longer satisfy your sexual needs?

Hmmm so nobody is going to work on things together? They just decide that it will never happen and thats it- straying is the only recourse?

[Peasie]

If you marry solely for sex then this "moral dilemma" is important to you.

[blugiant]

Based on bluegaint thread "can't please my wife"

1. All other things being the same.......If for some medical reason or other etc you are no longer capable of sexually pleasing your spouse, would you stay married whilst allowing your mate to the seek sexual fulfillment elsewhere?

Or

2. All other things being the same, Would you cheat (or have permitted sex outside the marriage) on a spouse who can no longer satisfy your sexual needs?

mii might affii gitt a side piece

[franksterr]

Hmmm so nobody is going to work on things together? They just decide that it will never happen and thats it- straying is the only recourse?

It is a given that sex is no longer possible by one of the parties involved, so yes you have worked on it and sexual intercourse is impossible. So the question becomes......
Would you allow your spouse extramarital sex or would you indulge in permitted extramarital sex?
Or
Would you part ways?

[Xavier]

It is a given that sex is no longer possible by one of the parties involved, so yes you have worked on it and sexual intercourse is impossible. So the question becomes......
Would you allow your spouse extramarital sex or would you indulge in permitted extramarital sex?
Or
Would you part ways?

A tough question. If the relationship is based on sex alone it never had a foundation. I think the couples would have to discuss how to move forward if that need (one of the many) cannot be filled.

[franksterr]

If you marry solely for sex then this "moral dilemma" is important to you.

Lets just say that sex (whether in or out of the marriage) is one of the top five reason why most marriages end in divorce. So it may not be the sole reason but it is big enough to end a marriage.
Plus there can be no true Marriage without sex - Consummation and an expressed willingness to respect and apply the Conjugal Rights of the Union.



So you are perfectly at peace with a sex free marriage?
What if your mate needs sex, do you deny your spouse?
What if you want sex, do you repress your desires?

Would you stay in a Marital Relationship in which either you or your spouse are fully capable of enjoying sex yet none is forthcoming, whilst one of you are desirous of sex?

[franksterr]

mii might affii gitt a side piece

I agree.
The question then becomes.
Would you be open about or deceptive?
And if the situation is reverse.
Would you allow your spouse the same freedoms you wish for yourself?

[blugiant]

I agree.
The question then becomes.
Would you be open about or deceptive?
And if the situation is reverse.
Would you allow your spouse the same freedoms you wish for yourself?

mii wood be open

iff da situation was reverse wood depend pon woo mekkinn da moas.