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There are many women who walk planet Earth, but not all of them can be 'taken home to mom'.
So Flair asked <span style="font-weight: bold">some 'playaz' how to identify who's the cupcake and who's the keeper</span>. What Flair found is that some men come to their conclusions after days of looking at the behaviour patterns of the opposite sex. But others just need a few minutes.
"You can know the tief dem from early enuh!" says Jacob. "Like if you offer to buy her a drink and she orders the most expensive thing and wants you to buy one for her friend too," he said. <span style="font-weight: bold">For Ronald, spotting 'wifey' is all about the woman being your equal.</span>
"<span style="font-weight: bold">The 'wifey' is the one who you can actually have a meaningful conversation with, spend quality time with and she should be the one you share your joys and sorrows with," he said. He also said she is the one who you should have by your side when attending important functions or events.</span>
Randyshares similar views; <span style="font-weight: bold">you and the wife share things other women simply don't.</span>
"She looks out for you in that, if she comes to your house, she will clean up if things are not neat. She calls, at worst, every other day to find out if you are all right; she remembers birthdays and you are able to talk to her about anything because she listens," he reasoned.
Randy went on to say that the girl on the side may not look out for your overall well-being, and can't be relied upon to make you comfortable. Ronald also <span style="font-weight: bold">admitted that he has 'an arrangement' with the girls who are just good enough for sex or what he calls the 'servicing'.</span>
"There are no strings attached and we both can exchange 'goods and services' that are mutually beneficial. There are usually no expectations past that, like commitment or stuff like that," he explained.
Bottom line: if you trust your instincts PLUS parents/family/ friends and you figure there might be a few too many faults, she may not be the one to take home.
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