Clue that it was over...

[Peasie]

What clue did you get that the relationship was not going to work?

You are in a good relationship. All seems well. But the one you love surprises you one day. He or she wants out of the relationship. Once you recover from the shock, you think back to some of the clues that he or she may have given. What were some of the clues?

[RichD]

dem used to check in regularly but all of sudden dem stop.

[kia027]

- They used to consider you in decisions and was mindful of your time to do things together but then that stopped

- Changes in body language

- Your gut says something is off

[Peasie]

Yes. The gut thing but you ignore it.

my clue was for Christmas he gave me a department store pre-wrapped generic item.

[kia027]

[Peasie]

- They used to consider you in decisions and was mindful of your time to do things together but then that stopped

this

[Peasie]

Clarification...and since unno curious...this is not Mr. Cannot Dance

Since the relationship reset, as Xavier put it, tings good

[Tropicana]

dem used to check in regularly but all of sudden dem stop.

Yes I was going to say that. All over you one day and then suddenly starts pulling disappearing acts.

Starts talking about doing things with one or more female "friends". Trust me they are all and he is rooksin every last one a dem.

The lesson, when suddenly another woman is in the picture whether it is a co-worker or "friend" it should be........

Stick around and he'lll play the you're confused, I was never attracted to you, we were never dating card......

even if you have been for years and de two a you ave 6 pickney.

[Tropicana]

Clue...things are barely starting. He is all over you calling, emailing, messaging...then, he falls off the face of the earth. Then a month or more later he gets in touch asking how you are, indicating he lost your number and asking for it again. Trust me, he was rooksin someone else during the time he pulled the disappearing act and he still might be but they had a fight.

RUN FOR THE HILLS!!

[Suesumba]

bad fashion sense. i'm vain. but even after start suggesting things/buying him things and he just doesn't get it ...well...

[Peasie]

bad fashion sense. i'm vain. but even after start suggesting things/buying him things and he just doesn't get it ...well...

[j-kid]

Shi changed di door lock!

[applepie]

Shi changed di door lock!

[Peasie]

Shi changed di door lock!

sure sign

[Diplomat]

Shi changed di door lock!

Even the blind can "see" that sign.