Why are the best looking Jamaican men...

[Tropicana]

.......disappointing?

It happens a LOT and it happened again this week.

We ordered Jamaican food and the man who delivered it was . I mean....





The accent was pretty nice...until he dropped an "h"

What cinched it as deal breaker is that he is from the same area as my ex.



Why is it that I can't meet a guy who looks like that a a business meeting, conference or church?

[j-kid]

Yuh ansa yuh own question uppa tap. Yuh too darn picky. How yuh ah goh nit-pick bout wan "H"? Mi would neva tek yuh wid me into ah negotiation session!

[Tropicana]

Yuh ansa yuh own question uppa tap. Yuh too darn picky. How yuh ah goh nit-pick bout wan "H"? Mi would neva tek yuh wid me into ah negotiation session!

What would I be doing with a delivery man who drops his h's. Since I was not compatible with my ex it is unlikely I would be compatible with anyone else from the same area of Jamaica.

Mind you he was REALLY REALLY hot...man oh man...was he ever hot.....I nearly fainted...



I am sure he must have a lot of women hitting on him when he delivers the food.

So men, when a guy is THAT good looking does he know it? I would think it would be hard not to be swell headed. Men, would you be friends with a man who looked that good?

How come I never see men like that at business meetings, trade shows, conferences, and church where I am more likely to be compatible.

[Tropicana]

Mi would neva tek yuh wid me into ah negotiation session!

Tell me more about these negotiation sessions. What happens at them? Are there any good looking men with strong moral standards?

[Tropicana]

pon J-Kid. Hope Diplomat will weigh in too. Mi tell you mi was so



when mi did open de door. Mi just couldn't believe it. I hope he didn't catch me with my mouth wide open

[j-kid]

No talking in general. mi would would not tek yuh in caa yuh stall di progress wid yuh nit-picking di small stuff.

pon J-Kid. Hope Diplomat will weigh in too. Mi tell you mi was so

[Xavier]

There is give an take in relationships...some women may find dropping the "H" cute. There is no perfect match out there...

[Tropicana]

So you wouldn't see the dropping of "h" as an immediate knockout factor Xavier? What about the fact that he is SO good looking that he likely gets hit on regularly. It would take a strong man to resist that. Would you be friends with a man who was THAT good looking?

Honestly. I haven't seen anyone that good looking since the guy in the Latin American country and this one has him beat by a longshot. Any time you see a man and find yourself with your mouth wide open in shock upon seeing him.....it is never a good thing.

[Xavier]

So you wouldn't see the dropping of "h" as an immediate knockout factor Xavier? What about the fact that he is SO good looking that he likely gets hit on regularly. It would take a strong man to resist that. Would you be friends with a man who was THAT good looking?

Honestly. I haven't seen anyone that good looking since the guy in the Latin American country and this one has him beat by a longshot. Any time you see a man and find yourself with your mouth wide open in shock upon seeing him.....it is never a good thing.

Don't see the "h" as a factor at all. Why would you be in secure if he looks good. Cheating is one of the risks that you take when you get into a relationship. Not everyone cheats

[Tropicana]

If "h" is not a factor why did my Dad go absolutely ballistic when a guy called and asked for me and dropped and added "h"s? He really freaked out on me and spoke specifically about the way the man spoke and how he dropped his h's. It has stuck with me. Dropping h's may not reveal anything about a man's character but it does say something about his background.

Re: cheating, it would be a nightmare to have a man cheat on you...the worst rejection ever. I know ugly men cheat too. but there would be a lot of temptation for a guy who looked so good women were throwing themselves at him.

[Diplomat]

So he dropped a "H" and as a result you consider him a disappointment? IMO, that is shallow. If that is the least of his "flaws", assuming he is single, he probably won't be for very long.

[Tropicana]

There are 3 sources of disappointment:

- h's
- the fact that he is from the same part of the country as my ex
- his profession

So you don't see anything wrong with dropping h's either? So why did Dad flip out on me?

[DearK]

There are 3 sources of disappointment:

- h's
- the fact that he is from the same part of the country as my ex
- his profession

So you don't see anything wrong with dropping h's either? So why did Dad flip out on me?

Frenchmen also drop Hs. IJS

[Tropicana]

Not the majority of them:

[DearK]

I bet the interviews started with "Bonjourrr. Allo, 'ow are yew", Kiss kiss. "Enchante enchante".