Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

[Suesumba]

Re: Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

tell them in a diplomatic way.

[CeaBee]

Re: Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Don't start talking &quot;feelings&quot; with your man. Forget it. Don't even go there. Play like a hot and cool chick.
</div></div>

i dont agree that u should play hot and cool..(whatever that means) but i think that from your actions the man probably already knows how u feel about him.


if smaddy do something that annoy you..upset u...then yes tell them calmly.

[Bandana]

Re: Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If a woman asks a man out and he says ‘no,’ at least she knows where she stands with him and she doesn’t waste any time pining over someone who isn’t interested. Same thing goes if she makes a move on him and she’s rejected. If she’s in a serious relationship — one where the expression of love as been made clearly by both partners — and she’s eager to make a deeper commitment, there’s nothing wrong with proposing. At the very least, it’ll start a conversation of where the relationship is headed so the woman can decide for herself if and how long she’s willing to wait if man isn’t interested in getting married yet. <span style="font-weight: bold">But an “I love you” uttered too soon, before the man has processed his feelings and reached the same level of adoration could end a relationship that just as easily could have had an eternal shelf life. As soon as those words are said, they change the dynamic. </span>If a man isn’t feeling the love quite yet, he may suddenly feel pressure to manifest that emotion. And if the woman doesn’t get the response she expected, it could damage her confidence enough to derail the whole relationship entirely.

I guess my advice to my future daughter would be this: “If you love a man and want to have a long relationship with him, give him time to get there. <span style="font-weight: bold">If you think you’ve given him enough time and you’re ready to move on if he doesn’t feel the same way for you, then go ahead and tell him you love him. But only say those words if you’re prepared to let him go.” </span>
source
</div></div>



I wonder if the men here agree with this

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

Okay suppose my feelings is dat a person is a natural born eeediat an I honestly think they need to have a mental evaluation

Should I say something to them?

[CeaBee]

Re: Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

unless it's something that applies to a specific situation (eg: when dem did do so and so and it caused x and y to happen) or something that they can change, then what's the use

[Bandana]

Re: Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

why yuh neva say that to begin with?


Yes, gwan tell dem


or choose from the following...

Funny Insults

&quot;Don't let you mind wander - it's far too small to be let out on its own&quot;



&quot;I don't know what makes you so dumb but it really works&quot;


&quot;Are you always this stupid or are you making a special effort today&quot;


&quot;I've come across decomposed bodies that are less offensive than you are.&quot;


&quot;I've had many cases of love that were just infatuation, but this hate I feel for you is the real thing.&quot;


&quot;Converse with any plankton lately?&quot;

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

[SandiF]

Re: Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

too much woman a chat in ya so... mi want to hear what the men have to say on this

[Fossil]

Re: Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SandiF</div><div class="ubbcode-body">too much woman a chat in ya so... mi want to hear what the men have to
say on this </div></div>

I wouldn't go with the &quot;Bible&quot; quotings up top ^^^treat each man as an individual, dem &quot;rules&quot; deh mek up couple hundred years ago.

[mariane]

Re: Expressing your feelings...is it ALWAYS good to tell

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">someone how you feel about them...or is it sometimes better to just keep it to yourself? </div></div>

Sometimes its a good idea ..and a lot of the time it isnt... Its always going to depend on a lot of things.. but!!! if say we were talking about you!!!!!!!(a woman)telling a man!!!!!!!!!!

then theres usually something not quite right about that senario and I would go over a lot of pros and cons before saying anything!!!!