Guy blogs about his wife's affair and breaks reddit

[kia027]

Part 1

http://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/2snn0q/tifu_by_reading_my_wifes_text_messages_shes/

Part 2

http://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/2suuxr/live_updates_tifu_by_reading_my_wifes_text/

Part 3

http://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/2sw3is/part_3_wupdates_tifu_by_reading_my_wifes_text/

[Peasie]

I read a little of Part I which was enough for me. I see where he read her texts, then tried to break into her phone when she changed her password, he hired a PI ... etc. Why do people go through all that bother? Why don't they just sit down like adults and discuss her cheating, his feelings, etc.? If there is to be no reconciliation, then just do your best to move on. Quietly.

[Tropicana]

Because revenge is sweet and it feels SO good. It's addictive though so it's best to avoid it.

[RichD]

guy sounds like he is 15 years old

[Xavier]

I read a little part of this and it seems like this guys loves torture. I agree with Peasie. Why go on with this. Why not put positive energy into moving on a starting a new life. After the "rush" of the revenge what next...

[CeaBee]

Is only with age that u really get wisdom I think. And new agey

[Peasie]

I disagree. Some greyback adults never evolve. They remain stuck particularly in their teenagey approach to relationships.

[kia027]

I think he needed the proof because he knows she could talk him out of it. All of this apparently happened over the space of a weekend and he had what he needed to end the relationship & move on. As the weekend progresses u hear how the women lie and keep changing their story so if confronted sans evidence I dont think he would have been sure. Not condoning what he did but trying to see his side. He does sound young and life will teach him how to make a better choice in a partner.
He said he needed evidence so the divorce would go through quickly and easily and his prenup would have been not contested.


The pictures on the phone would have been enough for me.