What kind of a FATHER would up

[Travellah]

and tun him back on his 3 black boys?
It seems as though when we divorced,he divorced his children too.
I still cant understand this part of the entire thing.
Does anyone man or woman have insight to lend?

[Hush Darlin]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: IronMama</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and tun him back on his 3 <span style="font-weight: bold">black</span> boys?
It seems as though when we divorced,he divorced his children too.
I still cant understand this part of the entire thing.
Does anyone man or woman have insight to lend? </div></div>
so do u think it is because they are black?

[Travellah]

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no Sweet.Not thinking that way. I am just thinking in terms of our society now a days and the situation our black men seem to be in. I would think he wwould want to help raise his boys into men.

[applepie]

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some times people stay away because they cannot deal with the drama/confrontation.(not stating that this is your case)

[Travellah]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: applepie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">some times people stay away because they cannot deal with the drama/confrontation.(not stating that this is your case) </div></div>

i hear you applepie but no drama here in that sense of the word. I feel as though its because he has to pay the amount he has to, afta him tried so hard to deceive the court bout him income.
Anyhow.

[trelawnysmall]

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I don't know anything about your situation, but give it time. In time many fathers want to be with their children, once the anger and resentment wears off. Then they pride themselves on what wonderful children they have. Sorry for the boys who may not understand all of that and may very well miss having their father in their life.

[diabolical_Tanya]

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mi have a deadbeat fren. When him babymadda dem start to witch wid a b about $$$$ an who him deh wid him stop going to pick up di pickney dem. Him seh him can't tek di drama an cussin.

I not sayin it's right just sayin it is....

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi have a deadbeat fren. When him babymadda dem start to witch wid a b about $$$$ an who him deh wid him stop going to pick up di pickney dem. Him seh him can't tek di drama an cussin.

I not sayin it's right just sayin it is.... </div></div>

k. soh how dat goh? she has to face the day to day expenses of roof overhead, clothing, food, etc. and him can't stand when shi a &quot;b*itch&quot; bout money?????!!!! how dat badwud goh? shi have two seed undah har? !!!! mi r... mekka come awfa dis ra... computah before dem revoke mi posting license.

i just cannot believe the sideway down thinking of these waste of skin men. if i had my druthers i'd personally stab them in the throat, but i'm just angry like that.

bet seh him classet fulla di latest style and him cyar pristine, but shi a &quot;b*itch&quot; bout money. he's a child. so effing typical. weak minded POS.

[Boricua_papi]

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Mi neva seen SueSumba dis bex except di wan time shi call me &quot;dutty jancrow.&quot;

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: B_P</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

Mi neva seen SueSumba dis bex except di wan time shi call me &quot;dutty jancrow.&quot; </div></div>

yyou lie

[LiteBlonde]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: IronMama</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and tun him back on his 3 black boys?
It seems as though when we divorced,he divorced his children too.
I still cant understand this part of the entire thing.
Does anyone man or woman have insight to lend? </div></div>

I hear you but not having him around just might be best for those black boys, just because they have enough to contend with in life.

Allow me to explain. One of my uncles is a deadbeat and if you ask anybody that know him, they will tell you that his kids (broke and fatherless as they are) are better off without them father. He ain't never been to jail or anything like that but the &quot;boy man&quot; have no sense of responsibility.

Him stay away because him SHAME and know that him kids would be shame to call him daddy. Him cannot seem to get it together. From living in one basement to another, him can't hold a job long enough to get a work ID and as soon as it make it spent. Worthless piece of tripe who should not have been blessed with sperm.

Wouldn't you be happy to keep someone like him away from your kids? Think about it. Your kids father is probably hiding from them deliberately for different reasons but one could be because he knows what is best for them.

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: IronMama</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and tun him back on his 3 black boys?
It seems as though when we divorced,he divorced his children too.
I still cant understand this part of the entire thing.
Does anyone man or woman have insight to lend? </div></div>

I hear you but not having him around just might be best for those black boys, just because they have enough to contend with in life.

Allow me to explain. One of my uncles is a deadbeat and if you ask anybody that know him, they will tell you that his kids (broke and fatherless as they are) are better off without them father. He ain't never been to jail or anything like that but the &quot;boy man&quot; have no sense of responsibility.

Him stay away because him SHAME and know that him kids would be shame to call him daddy. Him cannot seem to get it together. From living in one basement to another, him can't hold a job long enough to get a work ID and as soon as it make it spent. Worthless piece of tripe who should not have been blessed with sperm.

Wouldn't you be happy to keep someone like him away from your kids? Think about it. Your kids father is probably hiding from them deliberately for different reasons but one could be because he knows what is best for them. </div></div>

could your uncle have adult adhd? has he ever examined why his behavior is that way (professionally examined that is)

[LiteBlonde]

Re: What kind of a FATHER would up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: IronMama</div><div class="ubbcode-body">and tun him back on his 3 black boys?
It seems as though when we divorced,he divorced his children too.
I still cant understand this part of the entire thing.
Does anyone man or woman have insight to lend? </div></div>

I hear you but not having him around just might be best for those black boys, just because they have enough to contend with in life.

Allow me to explain. One of my uncles is a deadbeat and if you ask anybody that know him, they will tell you that his kids (broke and fatherless as they are) are better off without them father. He ain't never been to jail or anything like that but the &quot;boy man&quot; have no sense of responsibility.

Him stay away because him SHAME and know that him kids would be shame to call him daddy. Him cannot seem to get it together. From living in one basement to another, him can't hold a job long enough to get a work ID and as soon as it make it spent. Worthless piece of tripe who should not have been blessed with sperm.

Wouldn't you be happy to keep someone like him away from your kids? Think about it. Your kids father is probably hiding from them deliberately for different reasons but one could be because he knows what is best for them. </div></div>

could your uncle have adult adhd? has he ever examined why his behavior is that way (professionally examined that is) </div></div>

That is a very good question. I don't know, but I will definitely try and find out. Something is definitely wrong with him though.

[missus_vegas]

Re: What kind of a FATHER would up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: IronMama</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: applepie</div><div class="ubbcode-body">some times people stay away because they cannot deal with the drama/confrontation.(not stating that this is your case) </div></div>

i hear you applepie but no drama here in that sense of the word. I feel as though its because he has to pay the amount he has to, afta him tried so hard to deceive the court bout him income.
Anyhow. </div></div>

he is not angry at the kids he is angry at you. is the money weh him affi falk out a badda him.

i am no expert at this stuff... but have you thought about having the boys call him just to chat????maybe dat will soften him up and make him want o spend time wid dem.

[Travellah]

Re: What kind of a FATHER would up

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi have a deadbeat fren. When him babymadda dem start to witch wid a b about $$$$ an who him deh wid him stop going to pick up di pickney dem. Him seh him can't tek di drama an cussin.

I not sayin it's right just sayin it is.... </div></div>

k. soh how dat goh? she has to face the day to day expenses of roof overhead, clothing, food, etc. and him can't stand when shi a &quot;b*itch&quot; bout money?????!!!! how dat badwud goh? shi have two seed undah har? !!!! mi r... mekka come awfa dis ra... computah before dem revoke mi posting license.

i just cannot believe the sideway down thinking of these waste of skin men. if i had my druthers i'd personally stab them in the throat, but i'm just angry like that.

bet seh him classet fulla di latest style and him cyar pristine, but shi a &quot;b*itch&quot; bout money. he's a child. so effing typical. weak minded POS.

</div></div>

Sue..I neva see u so mad fi true..but I tell you I am worst mad, mi just try to keep mi composure and take tings one day at a time. My lawyer said to me one day in his office...if it was him in my place he would kill him and go a ail...i had no response