If you were dating someone

[LiteBlonde]

For over three years and recently you went to his hometown to a family event and while you were there, you heard rumors that people use to say him gay.

You wasn't told directly, you just heard bcuz the people talking didn't know you were together.

What you you do? Would you ask/tell/confront him or would you get an investigation going.

[LiteBlonde]

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By the way, him no show any signs and not homophobic. Him go on like a regular man to you and you never had any reason to think it, ever.

[Serenity82]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">For over three years and recently you went to his hometown to a family event and while you were there, you heard rumors that people use to say him gay.

You wasn't told directly, you just heard bcuz the people talking didn't know you were together.

What you you do? Would you ask/tell/confront him or would you get an investigation going. </div></div>

So Donnika is that really you?

[LiteBlonde]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">For over three years and recently you went to his hometown to a family event and while you were there, you heard rumors that people use to say him gay.

You wasn't told directly, you just heard bcuz the people talking didn't know you were together.

What you you do? Would you ask/tell/confront him or would you get an investigation going. </div></div>

So Donnika is that really you? </div></div>

Me was going to curse you for asking me that but me think, why waste me keystrokes xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

To answer you ?? <span style="font-weight: bold">No me is not Donnika</span>. Me wish me was as intelligent and patient as she was.

Now go and tell all your midnite cyberfriends xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[diabolical_Tanya]

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I would tell him what I heard and ask him why such rumors used to go around about him...there could possibly be an explanation. Nuff people peg men as gay for a varity of reasons...like they have never seen him with a girlfriend...or because he dresses stylish...dem kinda ting.

I know at my current job, the HR man that interviewed me I automatically assumed he was gay because of his hairstyle. yu fi si how mi frighten when mi buck up him wife an 3 pickney but seeing the wife explained the hair. mi juss glad I kept my assumptions to miself.

[missus_vegas]

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you know dot.com sometimes mi no know wedda fi or but u do play the role of biatch quite well

[ILP]

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if i laugh anymore, i will poop.



DotCom...weeeiiiii. tek time, tek time

anyhow to ansa you question.
mi'd juss tell dem wah mi ovahear and see how dem respond.

[LiteBlonde]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_One</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I would tell him what I heard and ask him why such rumors used to go around about him...there could possibly be an explanation. Nuff people peg men as gay for a varity of reasons...like they have never seen him with a girlfriend...or because he dresses stylish...dem kinda ting.

I know at my current job, the HR man that interviewed me I automatically assumed he was gay because of his hairstyle. yu fi si how mi frighten when mi buck up him wife an 3 pickney but seeing the wife explained the hair. mi juss glad I kept my assumptions to miself. </div></div>

That is close to what me say too about the girlfriend thing. People quick to assume when a guy from a small town is not seen to be the village PIMP. LOL

@ your HR guy. Me try to keep it quiet too but me must admit, me make the same mistake plenty times as well.

[LiteBlonde]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: missus_vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body">you know dot.com sometimes mi no know wedda fi or but u do play the role of biatch quite well </div></div>

Ain't no playing. Me is always accused of being somewhat of a perfectionist.

[LiteBlonde]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: 212_Finish_ILP</div><div class="ubbcode-body">if i laugh anymore, i will poop.



DotCom...weeeiiiii. tek time, tek time

anyhow to ansa you question.
mi'd juss tell dem wah mi ovahear and see how dem respond.
</div></div>

LOL, you making me laff and this is serious thing.

You can only take time for so long. These people play with them life and somebody gotta tell them.

The freaks that come out at night seem to think I am someone else so I had to slap that idiot back into frame. She is too stupid for words.

Not at bad idea bout telling them, but YIKES, it might not go over too well. Some men take things like that really hard. No pun intended.

[diabolical_Tanya]

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but dotcom if the rumor been going around his neighborhood from long time I am willing to bet that he has heard it before. So if you ask him I doubt he will be shocked. And if the rumors are unfounded he will probably just tell you how they originated (if he knows) and how the people dem weh a spread it a eeediat.

[LiteBlonde]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_One</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but dotcom if the rumor been going around his neighborhood from long time I am willing to bet that he has heard it before. So if you ask him I doubt he will be shocked. And if the rumors are unfounded he will probably just tell you how they originated (if he knows) and how the people dem weh a spread it a eeediat. </div></div>

This didn't happen to me, it is me friend business me bringing to the public.

Me agree though, but still, some people are oblivious to what others are saying bout them. Me did say from the get go, that it might be because him wasn't running around with all the fast girls in the small town why them started that rumor. Him is from down South so you never know. Me will find out more when me speak with her on Monday.

[britisha]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

So Donnika is that really you? </div></div>

xxxxxxx

To answer you ?? <span style="font-weight: bold">No me is not Donnika</span>. Me wish me was as intelligent and patient as she was.

xxxxxxxxx </div></div>

Yuh noh si di hug whey yuh did a get...mi seh diss mek mi laff and almoas PUMS...yuh good to ratatail.. Now mi figget wha mi did agguh answah to yuh kwestian...when mimembahmi wi cum back.

[LiteBlonde]

Pepper,, you forgot to edit this

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: missus_vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body">you know dot.com sometimes mi no know wedda fi or but u do play the role of biatch quite well </div></div>

Unless of course the word BIATCH is not as bad as the word Stupid.

[LiteBlonde]

Re: Pepper,, you forgot to edit this

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: missus_vegas</div><div class="ubbcode-body">you know dot.com sometimes mi no know wedda fi or but u do play the role of biatch quite well </div></div>

Unless of course the word BIATCH is not as bad as the word Stupid. </div></div>

I better shut my mouth. Pointing out these things could land me in BIG, BIG trouble...I heard that it is seen as CHALLENGING the powers that be which can result in a ban from the board.

Thanks for that! Good looking out!