Asexuality

[Serenity82]

Is it a sin to never desire intercourse? To have 'those feelings' but never want to have sex? I'm almost 30 and that way and was watching some vids online of others like that. I know many other females like that(mostly educated women who were always more into their books than into dating).

Is it sinful to never have intercourse? What do you think?

AND YES WE(asexual women-most of us plainly scared of intercourse) are HETEROSEXUAL as in love men!

[skins]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Is it a sin to never desire intercourse? To have 'those feelings' but never want to have sex? I'm almost 30 and that way and was watching some vids online of others like that. I know many other females like that(mostly educated women who were always more into their books than into dating).

Is it sinful to never have intercourse? What do you think?

AND YES WE(asexual women-most of us plainly scared of intercourse) are HETEROSEXUAL as in love men! </div></div>




No....Its biology, every female &quot;creature&quot; on this planet goes into &quot;heat&quot; for lack of a better word. If you want a biblical reference try Gen. 3:16

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

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But wait...yu no almost tuddy odd bout 3 years ago

run gone.....

[Mutty]

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Asexual
bi-sexual
homosexual
heterosexual

Nature gives you a hand and you play it. It's when those of the larger group tries to tell you who you SHOULD be is when we have problems.

[Suesumba]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TLC_Beauty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">But wait...yu no almost tuddy odd bout 3 years ago

run gone..... </div></div>

just because you can't stop time doesn't mean you have to be jealous.

[loops]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Is it sinful to <span style="font-weight: bold">never have </span>intercourse? What do you think?
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what good book have you been reading? how you gonna be fruitful and multiply?

[tsophra]

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chalk it up to nature's form of bc..population control, etc

sinful? why you mixing up sex and religion?

[neutral]

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Yeah,it figures !

[mountaingal]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> have 'those feelings' but never want to have sex? </div></div>
1. contradiction in terms
2. not asexuality

[Gen]

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weh yuh a worry bout the cookie fah ? yuh nuh hear steve seh yuh fi leff it mek it bake and den put it pan shelf

[diabolical_Tanya]

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dat cookie muss dry up by now

[skins]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> dat cookie muss dry up by now </div></div>

dont thoughts can make the juices flow ?

[rufian]

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dem say people dat get rape wen dem likkle just fraid a sex when dem tun big.

me wonda a wa mek

[Bandana]

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(((Serenity)))


I think the first step is finding the right person. The right person will understand and help you overcome your fear.

That said, I don't really understand where the &quot;fear of sex&quot; comes from so it is hard for me to relate.

Is it sinful to not have sex? I say no...

Although I don't think it is healthy to abstain from sex forever


Here are some tips on overcoming the fear of sex that I found in a google search:


1. Get to know the person you're thinking of having sexual relations with. And know their intentions. Make it clear whether you will be emotionaly involved or if it is just a fling. If your feelings do change, tell your partner.

2. Discuss with them about your fear of having sexual relations. Try to have the person understand your feelings and your fear.
Find a comfortable setting. Overcoming your fear takes time and requires a comfortable, relaxing environment.

3. Take it slow. With your partner in the comfortable setting of your choice, try to slowly approach the situation.

4. Start with kissing and holding hands, next move into deeper kissing. If you feel you're starting to get uncomfortable again, pull back a little or let your partner know.

5. The following night, you could try touching each others bodies over your clothing and get used to your bodies together.

6. Another night when you are ready, try being naked with each other. This part could take a while getting used to, but remember to relax and enjoy your partner's company. Next, try touching and exploring each other's bodies. It's all about taking it slow and helping you become comfortable.

7. After the naked touching, try lying down comfortably together and talk about the ways you felt during the touching. Letting your partner know how you felt during different parts is very helpful. Unknowingly, a good sound could come out of your mouth but deep down you feel a bit uncomfortable at a gesture, let your partner know about it to be sure that you won't feel like that again or he/she can help you get used to feeling it but still taking into consideration your feelings.

<span style="font-style: italic">If you get as far as something as touching each others bodies through clothing or even just kissing deeply, don't worry about it. There's nothing wrong with just a few weeks of that, just try to move onto the next step as soon as you feel you're able to. There's no pressure.</span>

8. Once you've gotten used to the touching, try more intimate touching and try experimenting with each other but of course within reason. Tell your partner so you could go first, touch them a bit and try to please them a bit, even if you don't go all out, just get used to closely touching them. Have them touch you next, try not to be nervous, sit back against the pillows and take deep breaths, your partner will be able to tell if you're uneasy if you try to relax.

source

[loops]

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whew bandy. is it HOT in here?