Should I go?

[diabolical_Tanya]

So my Ex-BF's sister finally died Sunday night.

I have mentioned him here before, he's married now and has a very insecure wife.

His cousin is my BFF and now her husband can't make it to the funeral and she has asked me to go with her.

I would love to go with her, as she and the deceased were close growing up and she is devastated.

But if I go I know crazy wifey will have an issue with it.

What do I do???

[julie*mango]

Re: Should I go?

go
pay respects
leave

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Should I go?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Just_Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">go
pay respects
leave </div></div>

Mi was thinking of that, but mi know His Mom is going to want to chat and my girlfriend's daddy an the rest of the aunties ago want to seh howdy as is donkey years now mi noh si dem

Maybe if mi wear a big hat mi can juss hide inna di back

[julie*mango]

Re: Should I go?

howdy tenky no bruk no shut...greet dem wen yu go right before di stawt den mek yu exit as di preacha seh amen...

[mariane]

Re: Should I go?

Yep Tanya I would go ..his wifes insecurity is her prob ..&amp; likely always will be

[Hush Darlin]

Re: Should I go?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So my Ex-BF's sister <span style="font-weight: bold">finally</span> died Sunday night.

I have mentioned him here before, he's married now and has a very insecure wife.

His cousin is my BFF and now her husband can't make it to the funeral and she has asked me to go with her.

I would love to go with her, as she and the deceased were close growing up and she is devastated.

But if I go I know crazy wifey will have an issue with it.

What do I do???

</div></div>
was she suppose to die a long time ago

[kia027]

Re: Should I go?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Just_Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">go
pay respects
leave </div></div>

Mi was thinking of that, but mi know His Mom is going to want to chat and my girlfriend's daddy an the rest of the aunties ago want to seh howdy as is donkey years now mi noh si dem

Maybe if mi wear a big hat mi can juss hide inna di back </div></div>


will there be a wake? can you go to the wake only?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Should I go?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So my Ex-BF's sister <span style="font-weight: bold">finally</span> died Sunday night.

I have mentioned him here before, he's married now and has a very insecure wife.

His cousin is my BFF and now her husband can't make it to the funeral and she has asked me to go with her.

I would love to go with her, as she and the deceased were close growing up and she is devastated.

But if I go I know crazy wifey will have an issue with it.

What do I do???

</div></div>
was she suppose to die a long time ago </div></div>Yes she has been terminal since high school but she made it to almost 50.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Should I go?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Just_Skelly</div><div class="ubbcode-body">go
pay respects
leave </div></div>

Mi was thinking of that, but mi know His Mom is going to want to chat and my girlfriend's daddy an the rest of the aunties ago want to seh howdy as is donkey years now mi noh si dem

Maybe if mi wear a big hat mi can juss hide inna di back </div></div>


will there be a wake? can you go to the wake only? </div></div>

Well they are having the viewing an ting in BC where she has lived all her adult life but the funeral and burial will be Alberta at the family plot. I don't think them having a wake Usually this family does the viewing, church ceremony wid eulogy and what not, then the burial and then a reception. (yes is a big family and I have been to nuff a dem funerals)

[kia027]

Re: Should I go?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

go
pay respects
leave </div></div>

Mi was thinking of that, but mi know His Mom is going to want to chat and my girlfriend's daddy an the rest of the aunties ago want to seh howdy as is donkey years now mi noh si dem

Maybe if mi wear a big hat mi can juss hide inna di back </div></div>


will there be a wake? can you go to the wake only? </div></div>

Well they are having the viewing an ting in BC where she has lived all her adult life but the funeral and burial will be Alberta at the family plot. I don't think them having a wake Usually this family does the viewing, church ceremony wid eulogy and what not, then the burial and then a reception. (yes is a big family and I have been to nuff a dem funerals)

well barring a trip to BC to avoid the ex-bf wife I guess the only choice is to go to the funeral. I was thinking maybe the church ceremony but den I thought if you left after that exbf-wife may think is guilty you feeling if you dont go to the rest of the events.

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Should I go?

yu seet, I am liking Mariane's solution as mi TIRED fi tell dat ooman seh there is NOTHING between me an har husband, an ex is an ex for a reason...but she knows her karma.

[Andrewnaqi]

Re: Should I go?

let the dead bury the dead

[Seveen]

Re: Should I go?

i wouldn't go

cuz will be fine alone - it's her family

[Stormmey]

Re: Should I go?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">So my Ex-BF's sister <span style="font-weight: bold">finally</span> died Sunday night.

I have mentioned him here before, he's married now and has a very insecure wife.

His cousin is my BFF and now her husband can't make it to the funeral and she has asked me to go with her.

I would love to go with her, as she and the deceased were close growing up and she is devastated.

But if I go I know crazy wifey will have an issue with it.

What do I do???

</div></div>
was she suppose to die a long time ago </div></div><span style="font-weight: bold">Yes she has been terminal since high school but she made it to almost 50. </span></div></div>

Brave lady

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Should I go?

well I decided to go, the service is Wednesday so we going up Tuesday night. I talked to my Ex Friday night and he is simply devastated poor ting.


he had bought her a plot next to their daddy, but she chose to be creamated. So they are burying her urn in the same grave as the dad never heard of such a thing.