So my homeboys and I sat down for a chat

[Phatty]

the other night about dating and relationships today. A few things jumped out at me that shocked me.

1. Sex is the easiest thing to get nowadays. A girl is so scared of not "getting" the man, they're ready to give up the goods to show him why he should stay...

2. The guys all want serious relationships, but the girls they meet (here in Atlanta) are looking for: sex, money, or arm candy

3. They feel they attract the wrong women all the time

4. They've met women that they're willing to settle down with but the woman, on the first date, make it a point to get in their pants and there is no conversation.

5. The woman doesn't feel to call, or get back afterwards. Or they play games on the guys emotion (trying to make them jealous, or see how much $$$ they can get out of him) to make a decision on what she wants from him.

I was like WOW

Now we're talking like 4 guys, good guys that feel it's hard to find someone awesome and true. I'm all like, but I have a lot of girl friends that want the serious relationship they're looking for. They've dated some of them and came back saying, she's not serious she playing games...

[Nylah]

Re: So my homeboys and I sat down for a chat


unno need to find one hilltop and go meditate for a while

[Phatty]

Re: So my homeboys and I sat down for a chat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
unno need to find one hilltop and go meditate for a while

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We were meditating

[Nylah]

Re: So my homeboys and I sat down for a chat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Phatty</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
unno need to find one hilltop and go meditate for a while

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We were meditating </div></div>






So why u dont play madam and hook these guys up with the girls that you know?

[Phatty]

Re: So my homeboys and I sat down for a chat

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Phatty</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
unno need to find one hilltop and go meditate for a while

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We were meditating </div></div>






So why u dont play madam and hook these guys up with the girls that you know?
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I actually have before, but the girls go into some crazy game mode.

&quot;I'm not gonna call him, he want me let him call me.&quot;
&quot;Girl I ain't like how he was dressed.&quot; (he just got off of work )
&quot;How much does he make? uh unh...(Girl he's better than the baby daddy you got that don't make...at all.)
&quot;I told him I was dating around.&quot; (but your not, he's not the jealous type)

and on and on and on...

[Nylah]

Re: So my homeboys and I sat down for a chat



good lord, then they aint ready for what they say they are looking for

back to the mountaintop for them......