Why people think their life choices should be yours???

[diabolical_Tanya]

So mi link up wid a friend from HS. I have not spoken to her since she left JA the end of 3rd form.

so we doing the usual Q&A married kids blah blah blah ting.

So shi seh shi married wid 4 kids an mi seh good for you dats nice blah blah.

Den shi seh what about you, an mi seh mi not married an mi noh have noh pickney.

di gyal noh stop going awn an awn bout what am I waiting for, it's such a blessing, how can I choose to be childless, and basically that I should just run right out an goh breed



why people can't just accept that others will make different choices from what they do/did and IT's OKAY?

[ILP]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

when you get di ansa mek mi know what it is.
mi need one fah mi own sister.

[Phatty]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

Woman to Woman...Don't listen it's a trap.

Teef nuh love fi si Teef wid long bag. Ah yuh freedom shi deh tek

Yuh go breed and den yuh nuh hab money fi hair, nails, and ting cah yuh deh pay daycare...

Yuh go pick up man an yuh haffi deh home by 5 suh dinna cyaa done by 7

Then everytime yuh go someweh, smaddy hitch tuh yuh hip or yuh haffi explain like yuh deh tell yuh granny weh yuh deh go.

It's a cult

Run while you can

(Mi love mi pickney. Ah joke mi deh mek. Fi all who tink seh Days of Our Lives is real )

[CeaBee]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

i remember when my sister tell my other sister that she right and shouldn't have children

mi madda look pon the first one like >>>>

[twiney]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

since morning somebody ask mi if mi not getting married ... somebody who I went to high school with ... but if I werent wouldnt be their problem... If I somebody is interested in marriage/children I will bother them ..<span style="font-style: italic">mi still think Beans need to have the little girl</span>

[Dr.Dudd]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ceabee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i remember when my sister tell my other sister that she right and shouldn't have children

mi madda look pon the first one like &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;




</div></div> <span style="font-size: 11pt"> having children is the most distinct trans formative experience for parents. It change you from a calculated intellectual technician, to a soft headed wuss for your children.,

They teach you a lot but especially forgiveness.
Nothing teach forgiveness as much as your own children. You may love your parents ,or your spouse more than any other, but that is until you have kids. the love of a parent for a child,is way beyond the love for any other. That is during the ages where they need it most. after that, all bets are off. </span>

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: ceabee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i remember when my sister tell my other sister that she right and shouldn't have children

mi madda look pon the first one like &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;




</div></div> having children is the most sistinct transformative experience for parents. It change you from a calculated intellectual technician, to asoft headed,wuss for your children.

They teach you a lot but especially fiorgiveness.
Nothing teach forgiveness as much as your own children. </div></div>

what does that have to do wid di topic? galang goh siddung one side wid mi former friend and ILP sister

[Dr.Dudd]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

well youy rfriend just want to invite you t0 experience the most enjoyable experience she had. Not that it is for every body, but most people who experience ot is not aware of this. If you notice she did not invite you to experience the other enjoyable spheres of her life. that is because it has such a great transformative effext on her.

[missus_vegas]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

i agree wid har. time fi a diablical belly JK

[julie*mango]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

lol @ diabolical belly

[julie*mango]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

time fi a portland belly to

[ILP]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Skelli0n</div><div class="ubbcode-body">time fi a portland belly to </div></div>




who dis be?

[Suesumba]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

... because misery loves company.

yu really tink shi happy wid har four (probably unlanned accidents) children?

yu tink shi really happy wid har gloryhole secret life husband?

[diabolical_Tanya]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">... because misery loves company.

yu really tink shi happy wid har four (probably unlanned accidents) children?

yu tink shi really happy wid har gloryhole secret life husband?

</div></div>

[Suesumba]

Re: Why people think their life choices should be yours???

having children requires no special skills.