Mi hab one smaddy...

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

weh mi know fi how much years. She get married an hab 3 beautiful pikney. In addition to di pikney dem, shi put on hole heap a weight. Mi fren no happy wid harself caws shi tell mi dat all di wile. An wen shi si mi, har husband an fren dem always ah check mi out. Dat is one nexx tredd....so no badda

Henyway.....
Mi seh di ooman house dutty is a shame. Yu guh deh an diplace full ah roach. Food deh all bout di place, di pikney nose dem dutty till dem haffi nyam ie, clothes deh all bout....di place just dutty. Mi feel bad fi har caws shi dweet all by harself, but as a ooman yu fi tek betta care ah di place.

She always want mi fi come by, but mi nuh like guh ova deh caws di place dutty likka wah......

How yu wooda hangle dis......mi feel di need fi talk to har bout ie, but mi nuh know how fi approach it widout it hurt har feelings. Caws henybady else, mi wooda cuss dem ah seh how dem nasty.....

[julie*mango]

Re: Mi hab one smaddy...

maybe her environment is a direct reflection of how she feels on the inside...

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Mi hab one smaddy...

Troo enoh, caws shi no happy atall. Shi stop tek care harself an ting. But Skelly, if yu si di place.......jesas....mi neva si suh much roach.....

[kia027]

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sounds like she is depressed and needs some therapy 3 kids can wear a lot on a person



and transferring to dearK where it belongs

[Nylah]

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sounds like the woman needs some help

[twiney]

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help her clean up by cleaning up the pickney dem ... seriously though apart from the weight gain what else is happening in her life... maybe she is feeling overwhelmed and you really need to go over.

[Nylah]

Re: Mi hab one smaddy...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Twiny</div><div class="ubbcode-body">help her clean up by cleaning up the pickney dem ... seriously though apart from the weight gain what else is happening in her life... maybe she is feeling overwhelmed and you really need to go over. </div></div>

well said

[julie*mango]

Re: Mi hab one smaddy...

agreed


on my off days mi mek di kids dem tear dung di place an it fayva war zone...

imagine having an off day everyday?

[MarieK]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Shine_Eye_Girl</div><div class="ubbcode-body">weh mi know fi how much years. She get married an hab 3 beautiful pikney. In addition to di pikney dem, shi put on hole heap a weight. Mi fren no happy wid harself caws shi tell mi dat all di wile. An wen shi si mi, har husband an fren dem always ah check mi out. Dat is one nexx tredd....so no badda

Henyway.....
Mi seh di ooman house dutty is a shame. Yu guh deh an diplace full ah roach. Food deh all bout di place, di pikney nose dem dutty till dem haffi nyam ie, clothes deh all bout....di place just dutty. Mi feel bad fi har caws shi dweet all by harself, but as a ooman yu fi tek betta care ah di place.

She always want mi fi come by, but mi nuh like guh ova deh caws di place dutty likka wah......

How yu wooda hangle dis......mi feel di need fi talk to har bout ie, but mi nuh know how fi approach it widout it hurt har feelings. Caws henybady else, mi wooda cuss dem ah seh how dem nasty..... </div></div>

she is depressed

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Mi hab one smaddy...

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Twiny</div><div class="ubbcode-body">help her clean up by cleaning up the pickney dem ... seriously though apart from the weight gain what else is happening in her life... maybe she is feeling overwhelmed and you really need to go over. </div></div>


I do help her clean up the kids because I love them like they are my own. I've watched all of them grow up.

I even offer to take the kids off her hands during the week; take them to school and such, but she doesn't respond to it.

The issue is with her husband....he doesn't do a damn thing. Just last week she had job training and he knew that he had to take them because she couldn't. Do you know this man went out of town fishing (I guess that's what they call it nowadays) for 2 days and left her with the kids? I was so [censored]!!! She called me at minutes to seven, asking me if I can come and pick them up and take them to school. I don't live around the corner....it takes me about 10-15 minutes to get to her house. Did I go? Of course I did because I would do anything for her and those kids.

This bothers me to the core because I know her. She would never allow her place to look like this. Nor would she have allowed herself to get the way she has. I wanna say something, but I don't know how.....

[sistactry]

Re: Mi hab one smaddy...

sounds like she 'wants' you to say something, so you guys can talk about whats bothering her, seems to me like she is living in the hell her husband brought to her in a silent way~

....too sad!

[Gen]

Re: Mi hab one smaddy...

she sound overwhelmed and depressed

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Mi hab one smaddy...

Suh mi an mi fren goat yesideh. Wi tek di kids dem to di movies an browse di mall.

Di husband gone fi di weekend. Him normally tek di van fi wukk pan di house, but dis time him need di cyar . Shi seh him neva tek di cyar, but all of a sudden him muss hab di cyar. An him leff har an di tree pikney dem wid no transportation caws dem ongle hab one cyar. Dem tings no rite enoh.

Shi call mi pan frideh an seh shi an di pikney dem gwine tek di buss fi guh ah di movies an ting. Mi ask har if shi mad fi guh pan train wid di tree ah dem. Mi tek care ah mi tings, dem mi an Mali guh ova deh an pick dem up. Di day was well spent caws di kids dem enjoy dem self. But mi seh....di pikney dem wear mi dung so till. Mi mek har relax an mi discipline dem whole day. Dem know mi nuh ramp suh mi ongle haffi tawk once....


Suh pan frideh wi deh pan di fone an ting, an shi stawt seh ting indirectly bout di marriage. Shi nuh really guh into too much detail, but shi seh shi tell him areddi dat him can gwan bout him bizness. Shi also tell him seh shi no name dummy an shi know wah gwan.

Mi nuh wah press har fi info caws mi nuh really like fass inna ppl bizness, but mi know seh tings no rite ova deh.


Aye sah.....

[Gen]

Re: Mi hab one smaddy...

well after yuh seh him tek the cyar and gone fi the weekend I was like

say what ? gone where fi how long ?


is he away on business for his job ?


suh him have odda woman and pickney wid har ? run him yes

[Shine_Eye_Girl]

Re: Mi hab one smaddy...

Si di ting Gen, him NEVA tek di cyar. Him guh up deh fi di weekend fi &quot;wuk pan di house&quot; ar di gyal weh him hab. An di ting bout ie, is dem house weh him ah fix. Him always tek di van caws him tools dem een deh, but all of a sudden him wah tek cyar.

Mi invite har an di pikney dem ova fi dinna an dem nuh show. Suh dem mussi get inna awgument...mi nuh know.


One more ting......
Wen mi drap dem off yesideh, him fren deh ah di house ah wait pan him. Shi ask di fren weh him deh an him seh him nuh know. If yu nuh know....weh di hell yu ah do ah dem house den.....