Mi sister call...

[Kurlie]

mi last night from Jamaica to update mi on her court appointment she go to.

Her son's fadda owe har how muchi hundred thousand dollars in back child support and she had to tek him to court. She sey when the judge ask him how much money him can afford to give har right now him sey $30,000. The judge order him fi pay har dat plus a time to pay di rest to har.

Now hear the kicka...the fadda current ooman wey him got is a police gal and even dough when mi nephew did a mek, she neva deh deh but she now have the awdasity fi tell mi sister sey "dutty whoring gyal, now you can tek di money go buy shoes"

mi sister sey she went straight to the police station wey the gyal wuk and mek a report to the supervisor because this is an onging harrassment by dis police gyal. All the dutty man can do is laugh and walk wey

mi tell her if the supervisor nuh do anything she need to tek it further or even tek out a restraining order against her.

mi sey mi mad all now because if a mi, mi nuh tink mi could a hold me tongue

[St_Bess]

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I would tell your sister not to bother with the court system in JA. It is not going to work she will never be able to collect the amount owed and any man that has to be taken to court to force him to provide for his child is not a man and I would not want him in my child's life. As to the police woman I would not report or antoganize(sp) her - any woman who will speak evil of another woman and support a man from withholding child support from his own child is not worth arguing with. (Remember she has a gun). Please help your sister as best as you can and leave the so-called "father" and his woman to God. In Jamica the laws have no teeth - he will always only have $30K and the judges will not enforce the laws. Before you know it your sister's child will be all grown up and I hope the child does well in school and in life. Don't be surprized if the so-called father does not go around boasting about my child is a 'lawyer' 'doctor', etc. (I know of a 'sperm donor' who just went to his daughter's graduation from dental school and had the audacity to stand up when they asked parents to stand).

[julie*mango]

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The sister can have him arrested for owing the money if he reneges.

[Kurlie]

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wey mi caan fathom is oomen wey support a man not looking after his child(ren)

Mi nephew won't starve because mi sister can hold her own but is jus the audacity of them and dis police chick, wey nuh know nothing both mi sister odda than she mek a mistake and sleep wid her dawg a come disrespect

[SandiF]

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I echo the same as St_Bess.

I'm certain Jamaica's law must have a restraining order but does it really works...there?

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: St_Bess</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I would tell your sister not to bother with the court system in JA. It is not going to work she will never be able to collect the amount owed and any man that has to be taken to court to force him to provide for his child is not a man and I would not want him in my child's life. As to the police woman I would not report or antoganize(sp) her - any woman who will speak evil of another woman and support a man from withholding child support from his own child is not worth arguing with. (Remember she has a gun). Please help your sister as best as you can and leave the so-called &quot;father&quot; and his woman to God. In Jamica the laws have no teeth - he will always only have $30K and the judges will not enforce the laws. Before you know it your sister's child will be all grown up and I hope the child does well in school and in life. Don't be surprized if the so-called father does not go around boasting about my child is a 'lawyer' 'doctor', etc. (I know of a 'sperm donor' who just went to his daughter's graduation from dental school and had the audacity to stand up when they asked parents to stand). </div></div>

[sistactry]

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Kurlie, duh, tell ur sister fe leff de 'dutty whoring police gyal' alone u hear, next ting anyting can happen to har, and it no worth it at all, duh....den the poor child dont have no parents, and mek de dutty dawg gwaan him ways to,

u say ur sister can hold har own, thank God, mek dem gwaan man, a no one day monkey want wife~~

[Gen]

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you could not have said it any better.

matter of fact mi wouldan move far away from di 2 a dem, mi wouldn't even want dat police gyal know weh mi ress mi head a nite time.

waste a time off from work fi guh court dung deh. dat place is useless.

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: St_Bess</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I would tell your sister not to bother with the court system in JA. It is not going to work she will never be able to collect the amount owed and any man that has to be taken to court to force him to provide for his child is not a man and I would not want him in my child's life. As to the police woman I would not report or antoganize(sp) her - any woman who will speak evil of another woman and support a man from withholding child support from his own child is not worth arguing with. (Remember she has a gun). Please help your sister as best as you can and leave the so-called &quot;father&quot; and his woman to God. In Jamica the laws have no teeth - he will always only have $30K and the judges will not enforce the laws. Before you know it your sister's child will be all grown up and I hope the child does well in school and in life. Don't be surprized if the so-called father does not go around boasting about my child is a 'lawyer' 'doctor', etc. (I know of a 'sperm donor' who just went to his daughter's graduation from dental school and had the audacity to stand up when they asked parents to stand). </div></div>

[Gen]

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a ja yuh a talk bout?


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CestMoi</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The sister can have him arrested for owing the money if he reneges. </div></div>

[julie*mango]

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yes, in JA unlike the states you can have soemone jailed for owing u money. my parents recently had a former tenant of theirs in court for owin almost 2 yrs rent and the judge ordered the money be paid back and warned that failure to do so would result in jail time...

[Kurlie]

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a suh everybodi sey fi tell her...fi leave it alone. awh sah...mi a go call and talk to har lata still

[sistactry]

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yep, u r right, and unlike america dem no business bout no statue of limitations,

dats why the other day, those girls who were raped by their father could have sent his baxside to jail, even after dem migrate fe so long~~

[Suesumba]

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weh St. Bess seh.