More mix up...

[julie*mango]

quoted from here: http://www.jamaicans.com/forums/ubbt...;Number=696913

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Boy meets girl. Girl had a steady boyfriend but leff him fi di boy. Dem seh dem sweet in love waan married etc etc


Girl get bored wid boy an cheat on him.

Boy fine out bout di cheating an cheat back on her.

Dem forgive each other and get back together.

Boy tells girl him breed di girl weh him did cheat on her wid.

Girl forgive him because she realize seh if she never cheat him wudden go cheat.

Girl gets pregnant too.

Girl is 5 months pregnant when she notices that boy is no longer interested in her and does not want to move in with her. She finds out that he is in a relationship with the girl he cheated on her with and she was never pregnant.

Girl is devastated. Stops eating. Misses her prenatal checkups.

Girl is 7 months pregnant and gives birth to a stillborn baby in her bathroom.


Boy is devastated and feels it is his fault.

Girl says she is happy it turned out that way and glad she is &quot;rid of her burden&quot;.

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body">mi seh mi buy whole heap a tings fi dat baby...all clothes weh Sarah have an nuh wear...mi was so excited fi her...an now is like she nuh even care...she moving on wid her life she seh...


yu know wah she seh to her fren wen she did finally go a hospital?

seh she glad she di belly gone cah now she can go beach jouvert </div></div>

Well dat was in February of last year..who knows how much man she meet in di time afta dat...well she did sekkle down wid one guy recently...and of course she end up pregnant again...

mi hear di baby was fi bawn in September but di baby born last Thursday..she claim she was 6 months and add... mi caan believe seh 6 months baby bawn at 7 pounds add...plus dem nuh put di baby inna di nursery, him breathing fine pan him own, him cry sound like a normal healthy baby...sitten nuh right at all

so she nah come to mi straight... mi grill ar grill ar grill ar til she finally tell mi seh is not ar bwayfren baby is a nex guy...

so she a bawl an seh she neva know cah she was still seeing di red wen she was obviously preggers...

she tell mi seh she tell di guy an him devastated an seh him nah mine no pickney if a nuh feem...

she a bawl seh she waan kill arself an everybody gwen fine out an she nuh waan keep di baby...

lawd mi feel like di life jus get suckted outta mi

mi love ar like a sister but she make some poor life decisions...

she have a 7 yo son who is my godson and I love him dearly...even his birth was dramatic...she never told the father she was pregnant til she was 8 months and of course he got suspicious and started accusing her of cheating on him..dna test proved that it was his son after all..

anyway mi nuh have no more energy fi ride dis train no more an mi waan fi get off....

what mi muss seh to ar? is like she looking fi words of wisdom from me an mi nuh know wah fi tell ar...cah to be honest i doan know if it will be of any benefit to di baby if she raise him...her son seems to be neglected IMO...and mi cannot do anything from here...

[diabolical_Tanya]

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She should give the baby up for adoption it don't sound like she want it.

[julie*mango]

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I don't know Tanya...I asked her today that if she should give up the baby if she could live with herself...she told me that she does not know...

[missus_vegas]

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blank is your fault still...you shouldnt did grill har u shoulda mek she keep har secret. saykah u grill har she go tell di man. wat him never know nah dah go hurt him. seetdeh now. is ur fault

a joke. mi no know wah fi seh bout dis.mi no know mek some ooman so unlucky fi a breed breed so by accident

[Boricua_papi]

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Mi ongle feel sarry fa di pickney inna disya tory enoh. Sluts and playas on all sides. An dem did outlaw condom or wha?

[applepie]

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Skelly is not much you can say cause it will only be a bandaide on a much bigger issue she is not dealing with.......she is getting temporary fixes from these relationships..........her reality is upside down........unfortunately children involve.

[julie*mango]

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so should i encourage her to give up the child??

[kia027]

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suggest that she do what is in the best interest of the child. If she wants to give the baby up for adoption, there are agencies that will help her make up an adoption plan. If she has a solid support system (minus the man) and can make a good life with the baby then she may want to raise the child herself.

[applepie]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body">so should i encourage her to give up the child?? </div></div>

What Kia says......dont think financial support is what she might not be able to give fully to the child but emotional......children need to feel that they are loved despite the way in which they are conceive.

[Bizzy]

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laddamerci...dis soun sooo familiar...mi hafi go ketch up after work

[julie*mango]

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it is..
ketch dis follow up thread to the first one

http://www.jamaicans.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&amp;Number=741070#Post741070