Why do men lie?

[Peasie]

Re: Why do men lie?

<span style="font-family: 'Arial Black'">Di tumping dung is nat fi you. Dat is fah di fiancee. The nex time yuh see him, AND he wants to start something, your response should be, &quot;Is your fiancee aware of this?&quot; Nex question, please. </span>

[evanovitch]

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half an half..i met a guy di Sunday afta him married di Satiday...him neva tell mi dat until 6 months into knowing him...why mi neva find out..well mi neva move in di AA circle an di yaadies dem was not saying a wud...to dis day wi laff bout it...a mi good fren still

[Stormmey]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Okay

if I tump him dung () next time I see him yu think it's justifiable in court? </div></div>

<span style="font-family: 'Arial Black'"><span style="font-size: 14pt">awwwww just cut him</span></span>

[skins]

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because the truth may derail our plans.

[tsophra]

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cause dem chicken? a so de book seh

[diabolical_Tanya]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">cause dem chicken? a so de book seh </div></div> which book?

[Tropicana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Okay nex question:

If a man ask you out on what appears to be a date and does not inform you that he is involved (engaged) to someone else.....is that a lie of ommision? </div></div>

This is not an ommission. It is a lie of epic proportions. He is misleading you BIG TIME!!

Man the games!! You have a guy asking you out and forgeting to mention that he is engaged. My friend encountered a married man aksing her out for dinner, concerts, swimming and to take off her top and walk around in her sports bra. What's up with these guys that having 1 woman to take care of their needs isn't enough anymore?

[dearjohn]

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During interviews, I have been told that, women find it difficult to handle the truth.

They say they can handle the truth, but when they are told the truth, they usually freak out, so men tell them what they want to hear.

So basically, both sexes lie, just in different ways, and for different reasons.

[halfwaytree]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DearJohn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...They say they can handle the truth, but when they are told the truth, they usually freak out, so men tell them what they want to hear.... </div></div>

[kia027]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Curmudgeon_Milo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DearJohn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...They say they can handle the truth, but when they are told the truth, they usually freak out, so men tell them what they want to hear.... </div></div> </div></div>

and what happens when they get caught (which they eventually do)?

[halfwaytree]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Curmudgeon_Milo</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DearJohn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">...They say they can handle the truth, but when they are told the truth, they usually freak out, so men tell them what they want to hear.... </div></div> </div></div>

and what happens when they get caught (which they eventually do)? </div></div>

<span style="font-weight: bold">Not always!</span>

I broke up with a woman once who said she loved me. She demanded that I tell her <span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="font-size: 14pt">why</span></span>. Instead of being brutally frank and listing the countless reasons and possibly injuring her self esteem I decided to tell her the old &quot;it's not you it's me lie&quot;. It appeased her and saved me having to go through all the drama etc... .

I figured that she, by being the way she was may be a perfect fit for some other guy but it didn't click for me. So why hurt her by being honest? So yes, IMHO she couldn't handle the truth so I lied to save myself from hurting her feelings etc... .

Maybe you have to be a guy to understand.

[tsophra]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Diabolical_Tanya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Jaded</div><div class="ubbcode-body">cause dem chicken? a so de book seh </div></div> which book? </div></div>

de same one whey sey if im nu strait wid yu &quot;he's just not that into you&quot;

[Tropicana]

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So Tanya, what did you do when you found out? Did you confront him? How did he react? What a scoundrel!

[jah_yout]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DearJohn</div><div class="ubbcode-body">During interviews, I have been told that, women find it difficult to handle the truth.

They say they can handle the truth, but when they are told the truth, they usually freak out, so men tell them what they want to hear.

So basically, both sexes lie, just in different ways, and for different reasons. </div></div>

ding ding ding!

[Tropicana]

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But dearjohn, don't you think that an engaged guy trying to pass himself off as free single and disengaged is a bit much. He has no business askig other women out on dates.