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I recently met a man who has been married for 40+ years. He spoke in glowing terms about his wife. He was so glad that he didnt listen to friends and family who told him not to get married. He also shared that as a young man, that he had not been the most faithful 
but he saw eventually that he needed to curb that behaviour. He never told his wife of these indiscretions. 
Is this something that he should or can take to his grave? Since he confessed to me, and will not likely repeat the behaviour, this is good enough right?
If you were wife, would you like to know at this late stage? (Assuming she had no idea back then.)
but he saw eventually that he needed to curb that behaviour. He never told his wife of these indiscretions. Is this something that he should or can take to his grave? Since he confessed to me, and will not likely repeat the behaviour, this is good enough right?If you were wife, would you like to know at this late stage? (Assuming she had no idea back then.)
I dont think of myself as that special to be the only one. So maybe he's nostalgic about those times- although I must say he seemed sincere. He said he purposefully avoids jobs that would reveal a cheating spouse- because pointing the finger at someone who has or is doing that would seem hypocritical. He was an interesting man who made my time waiting pass very quickly.
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