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Why are the Jamaican men using us American Women like dogs??????
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I came and met a Jamaican man on a dating site, he is the 4th of such men, but this one I thought was different, because he used to live in america - but because he was a jailbird, he got deported. Well, me being the lonely loving heart, picked this IDIOT out of the bunch and decided to start chatting with him, chatting, let to emailing, emailing led to phone conversations, before I knew it - it was love, just based on the phone conversations. Next, I flew from the U.S. down to see him, liked what I saw, liked him, but to discover that he didn't really have a job, since he had been out of jail for 1 year - well, me being sympathetic, thought it was okay, he claims he was trying to start up his business, which I fell for. Then, I flew down the next month, and the next month, after talking with him over and over again, we BOTH came to the decision to get married - we're in our late 40's! So, planned the wedding, did the wedding in Jamaica, and after all of his promises, I believed in him. One day, I came into some money and we were planning how we would come together - so he decided that the best thing to do was to spend the money on a ticket to get him into another country where he didn't need a visa - so I bought the ticket, and he told me that I could join him in the next month - well, he got there, started giving me all types of excuses for me NOT to come, we talked for about how we would come togehter, I sent him $100, 200, 300, and so on, and we talked all day and all night while he was there - and then one day, he asked for money for a place to move in with a MAN that he met in that country - and when I didn't have the money to give to him, he got mad, and hung up the phone and he hasn't answered the phone since - that's been 4 Saturdays ago - now I ask you - what make a person be so self-involved and so desperate as to use someone - to go to the extent of marrying them when their intentions all along was to use you until they could get what they wanted - SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ANSWERS - I have cried, cried and cried and having a very hard time finding my way back to civilization - it's been so hurtful that I have thought of ending my life - please give me some answers someone
usedup:
I came and met a Jamaican man on a dating site, he is the 4th of such men, but this one I thought was different, because he used to live in america - but because he was a jailbird, he got deported. Well, me being the lonely loving heart, picked this IDIOT out of the bunch and decided to start chatting with him, chatting, let to emailing, emailing led to phone conversations, before I knew it - it was love, just based on the phone conversations. Next, I flew from the U.S. down to see him, liked what I saw, liked him, but to discover that he didn't really have a job, since he had been out of jail for 1 year - well, me being sympathetic, thought it was okay, he claims he was trying to start up his business, which I fell for. Then, I flew down the next month, and the next month, after talking with him over and over again, we BOTH came to the decision to get married - we're in our late 40's! So, planned the wedding, did the wedding in Jamaica, and after all of his promises, I believed in him. One day, I came into some money and we were planning how we would come together - so he decided that the best thing to do was to spend the money on a ticket to get him into another country where he didn't need a visa - so I bought the ticket, and he told me that I could join him in the next month - well, he got there, started giving me all types of excuses for me NOT to come, we talked for about how we would come togehter, I sent him $100, 200, 300, and so on, and we talked all day and all night while he was there - and then one day, he asked for money for a place to move in with a MAN that he met in that country - and when I didn't have the money to give to him, he got mad, and hung up the phone and he hasn't answered the phone since - that's been 4 Saturdays ago - now I ask you - what make a person be so self-involved and so desperate as to use someone - to go to the extent of marrying them when their intentions all along was to use you until they could get what they wanted - SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ANSWERS - I have cried, cried and cried and having a very hard time finding my way back to civilization - it's been so hurtful that I have thought of ending my life - please give me some answers someone
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