memo to blakk oomen: git real

[blugiant]

Re: memo to blakk oomen: git real

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nylah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

black woman cant catch a break from anyone </div></div>


mii dissagree ere nylah. mii tink da bredren seeinn sintinn dat limitinn blakk males ann females fram hookinn upp more frequentlee soo imm tryinn to pint out. blakk oomen gittinn defensive widdout xxaminn y brothers wood bee seeinn ting dat way wen wii knoo itt natt blakk oomen intention

iff brothers ann sisters cyaan xxaminn relationship problems, den da relationshipp barriers will remain.

yu knoo inn graduate school mii ann sum aff mii bredrens wood chatt bout y wii doan hook upp widd certain blakk sistahs woo wii felt add issues

[Grayskull]

Re: memo to blakk oomen: git real

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: chitown</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I wish we would stop all the finger-pointing and take a hard look at self because that is where the issues really lie. <span style="font-weight: bold">If you ask me my opinion, one of the most fundamental problems I see in black men is their lack of basic courtesy and chivalry toward black women.</span> I know this sounds old-fashioned and corny, but as I said romance, and relationship is a two-way street, folks. Let's all look within and see what we can do to offer ourselves as better mates and companions.
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I agree with you, but I'd also like to add that there are women that get too defensive when a man is trying to be chivalrous to her. it's understandable why you'd be on the defensive but sometimes it's nothing more than a man being a gentleman.

then you have all this damage done to each of us that we carry towards relationships. thinking women are out to ruin us and make us look like punks, women thinking men just want to breed em and leave em. as you said it's about looking within ourselves and bringing that good self back into the world for others to see.

[julie*mango]

Re: memo to blakk oomen: git real

I'm with Sue. Black men are so over...

[Blackstar*]

Re: memo to blakk oomen: git real

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-style: italic">The problem is, there isn’t enough Denzel to go around.</span> </div></div>
Denzel isn't the ideal for everyone. Still, why can't men strive to improve themselves and become *someone's* ideal man? More importantly, why aren't black men asking themselves that question?

[Blackstar*]

Re: memo to blakk oomen: git real

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: _______</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-style: italic">I'm with Sue. Black men are so over...</span> </div></div>


Although I disagree, I definitely see where you and Sue are coming from.

[britisha]

Re: memo to blakk oomen: git real

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: BlackStar</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-style: italic">The problem is, there isn’t enough Denzel to go around.</span> </div></div>
Denzel isn't the ideal for everyone. Still, why can't men strive to improve themselves and become *someone's* ideal man? More importantly, why aren't black men asking themselves that question? </div></div><span style="font-weight: bold">

More importantly why are some black men still beating their women, pimpimg their women and not caring for their children?</span>


Dat dear Liza is di reall kwestian.